Why do I always assume that my girlfriend is doing something behind my back ?!?
I have trust issues ... I know that she is a great great great GREAT girlfriend she is the best she never gave me a reason to cheat she treats me like ugh damn I can't even explained on how great she treats me ! But all of the freaking time I cannot go on a day without assuming that she's doing something unfaithful behind my back.. I hate how I always put those in my head .. It stresses me out a lot !!!!! Well ... Before I met her .. I always cheat and was real shady to all of the girls I dated ... I think that's probably why I always accuse her because I think she'll do the same ???? IM PARANOIIIIIID !!!! PLEASE HELP ! IT'S RUINING MY RELATIONSHIP !!! Oh and btw I've been with her for almost 2 years and I still don't trust her lmfao hahaha idk I need help !!!! Please !!!
My mom always makes me angry for no reason?
Although I only have one side of the story, there really seems something seriously wrong with your mother. Have you ever done anything that would cause her to not trust you? Or maybe there's something that she's not telling you about her own personal life or problems and it is really bothering her, so she acts like that. It seems like there's no reasoning with her, so what advice can anyone really give? You're smart, you know the situation best, what else can we do? Have you explained the situation to your father, and can he talk to your mother? Do you have any friends whose parents you can go to to explain the situation, so that an adult can talk to your mom about the problem? Meanwhile, recognize that in a year and a half you will be away from them, it will make things easier. And spend a lot of time at school, sign up for after school extracurricular activities, listen to music on earphones, anything. And eating your meals at the "right" time might not hurt either.
My girlfriend treats me like garbage. Constantly tells me that it's me and that I'm self centered, etc.?
If there is no mutual respect and no mutual trust and there is verbal abuse on her part.. and it's impossible for you both to sit down and have a proper conversation about the issues at hand and if you can't talk to her about the problems.. then the most important things that make a relationship work are lacking here and it won't get better only worse.. All you seem to have is mutual attraction but it takes a lot more to make a relationship work.. .In some ways this reminds me of the ''Bachelor Jake when he became engaged to Vienna'' ( Guys don't watch Reality TV shows so you won't know what I am talking about.. but that was similar.. she moved out to Dallas from Florida and it didn't work out well, they were engaged because that's what the ''Bachelor is all about, to find ones match.... he was the Bachelor and he had 20 girls or more to get to know and choose from and he chose her and in the end they just weren't a good match.. and the broke up and they parted with bitter words... she did not have a job when they met but said she found a job in Dallas.. so if she still got the job, she lives in the same town as her ex.. instead of having moved back to Florida.. I believe if you can't discuss it and if you can't make her listen and find a solution by talking then it's time to call this quits.. Verbal abuse.. affects men and women.. I would not want to be with anyone who emotionally abused me.. and didn't respect me.. I would get out of that.. she has to look for a job and if it was her idea to move to NJ.. then she is old enough to decide what to do.. she can move back to NY and get a job .. Nobody should put up with that.. not even if you were married 20 years is that acceptable.. and you are only engaged.. Be glad that you aren't married to her.. you can much easier get out of an engagement than out of a marriage...x
My boyfriend leaving every time we fight. I need some thoughts?
I have no friends, really, to vent to and I really need to understand "why". :( First of all, my bf always gets ragefully mad when he gets upset. Friday night we went out drinking, he ended up getting jealous of some guy and when we got home got angry without reasoning because I was sad he told me, "go be with that guy if you want, idc" he threw me on our bed, said we were over, and he left. I didn't try and get in contact with him, he texted me and told me he was going to Boston (a friend lives there, it's an 8 hr drive from us). Then the next morning he came back after I missed three of his calls. Told me to change my ways so we didn't fight, everything was fine. Then last night we went out for drinks, I left before him to walk home, got lost so I came back. He got SOOO mad, said I ruined his night by coming back cause now he had to leave to drive me home. We get home, he packs a bag and says, I'm leaving for a few days. I stand in front of him and say let's please talk, he pushes me on the ground and leaves. I called him this morning, he called me back an hour later and was all, I saw you called? I apologize profusely and he is all, you should be sorry you are the reason for all our problems. I need to think, I will be back in two days. I started crying and I said I loved him and he said okay and goodbye. He says I need to grow-up. I just don't understand why he does this :( I feel like I must be a horrible person. I do so much for him... answer to everything he tells me to do, clean everything all the time, do his laundry, go out of my way to help him. And he does this?! He knows leaving like that really hurts me. :( And I am so sick to my stomach with worry it makes me so anxious and nauseous. Ugh. I don't know what to do :(
My parents are always arguing!!?
My parents always seem to be at eachothers throats these days. They are constantly arguing about whos fault it is that we are in debt. My brother is 17, and will be moving out soon, so I feel as if I'm stuck in the middle. I did once try and show my parents a solution to sort themselves out, but they didn't even bother looking at it. I'm only 14, and I hate being surrounded by arguments. I love my mum, and would do anything for her, but my dad is constantly running her down, and blames her for everything. So I tell them both to shut up, and then my mum blames me, so I go and sit in my room, out of the way. This is where I am writing this from, because I am letting my parents cool off after their last argument. It's just so frustrating. I have nobody to talk to, and I have seriously considered running away or ending it all, but then that would only make things worse. I don't think my parents will still be together for my birthday, and thats only in 20 days. Any tips on how to cope??
My girlfriend verbally abuses me when she's mad at me, but she truly loves me. So do I. What do I do?
I am sorry to say, but she absolutely does not love you. Anyone who is abusive most likely does not even like let alone love themselves. She is either mentally ill or full of self loathing. Or whatever it is. But she will be unable to truly love you until that's resolved. Whatever she says.I have personal experience with verbal abuse in a relationship, and it can literally drive you in to the ground. It's a horrible situation. I was a different person. I was not perfect, I had many faults but I didn't deserve that.When I pointed out the cycle of verbal abuse, it just went no where, it literally fell on deaf ears. Everything had a retort of something I did, at some point, and it would always turn in to tit for tat and then war.I doubted myself and I grew angry and resentful which just fuelled the fire even more. So I became a part of the cycle. I became someone that wasn't me.By the end my self esteem was shattered and I was not a nice person either. It was the lowest point of my life.But the good news is I eventually shook it off. She went her way and I went mine and by all accounts she is now very happy.I literally felt like I was “coming out”. For the first time in years I could truly, just, be, me. And oh God it felt good.All my health issues disappeared literally overnight. The sleep issues that plagued me for years, gone. Never returned. I feel so much better. I feel like me.So do yourself a favour.Find someone who is more concerned about the future and their personal development than putting others down to lift themselves up.Embrace yourself.Love yourself.Love life.
Why do my friends ignore me?
There could be a few reasons:—Firstly you could be Assuming that your in a state where you are being ignored by your friends…What if these thoughts are infact distancing you from your friends?Each and Every one have their own personal and professional life due to which they tend to become busy.Make Your Mind to Understand this point!!Stop Expecting that Your Friends need to be constantly in Touch with you most of the time!! Expectations hurt..(PS:I have been there).But Make Sure that you be in constant touch with your Friends irrespective of how busy you are Make Time..(PS:Stop having the question Why Should I Text First?)..Perhaps You may not be opening up too much with them.Another Reason could be your too much annoying or having high attitude problem.If your not doing much for your friends or your not too serious about the friendship then they could ignore you.Avoid being a negative thinker and always believe that only good happen..People generally hate complainers and negative people!!At times even Kind and helpful people are also ignored by many…If you fall under this category then their not worthy of having you as a friend..(Have Your Own Self Respect.)Some Friends could even be “envious” of your Success in Life and may choose to ignore you also!!Never make your friend feel Unimportant.ThankYou:)