My ex boyfriend is being a complete jerk!?
WOW.. you know this sounds excatly like my ex. honeyy ignore his childish behavior. i dont know how old he is but he is being immature. me and my ex had a wonderful 11 month relationship but then when i broke up with him he satrted to be a complete *** to me.. he has even stolen my money from me. i told him to not talk to me and stay away from me . and it has worked. me and my ex have 2 classes together also and i moved so i wasnt next to his meanie self. and you should move your seat or just dont talk to him. f he wants to be immature and stupid well let him. i hope it works out :]]
My "friend" has turned into a complete jerk?
So my friend and I have known each other since we were 6 months old and now we are in 9th grade. We were best friends...up until now when we got to high school. The whole year she never talks to me, whenever I talk to her, she'll listen for a few sec. The turn away and start talking to other people while I'm in mid-sentence. She has started trying to be "sexy" and is now one of the girls who is super giggly and all they talk about is boys and other stuff like that. She'll make fun of me and never answers my questions. Just today I asked her what kinds of things were on the math quiz ( we're learning all about circles-- secant area, arc length etc.) and she answered "it was just on the circle stuff". Wow, very helpful...haha. I sent her a pic of a certain type of problem and asked if it was on the test and she replied "oh, I didn't realize I had to memorize the quiz" and that was it. I don't even like her a a friend anymore and I don't want to be around her anymore. I guess I just want to know how I can feel better about this whole situation considering we've known each other our whole lives. And did you have a similar situation and what did you do about it? And I know high school is a new experience and people are trying to find themselves, but she doesn't have to be a jerk about it. Sorry for making this so long... Thank you in advance to anyone who reads this and answers it. And please no mean answers... :)
My friend is being a jerk lately.?
So I have this friend and she has been a complete asshole for the past few weeks. Whenever I'm working with someone other than her she gets all mad and declares we are no longer friends, but we end up hanging out the next d̶a̶y̶ hour. And whenever I try to talk to her about something I like while we are working to make conversation she's all like "I don't care." Or "Would you shut up." And it really hurts my feelings, But when she talks to me I don't do anything absurd or rude in any way. I would do the same things to her, but I'm not stooping to her level. Should I stop being friends with her and hang out with my other friends (who are totally awesome and never disrespectful) Or should I try to talk it out with her.
One of my friends is a complete jerk, but my other two friends love her (one of them is dating her, and the other's a childhood friend). How do I tell them I don’t like her without losing them, too?
One’s dating her and the other is her childhood friend.Do you really need the people of internet to tell you who is their higher priority between you and her???Hint: its her.That trio will go where she goes and if you can't get along with her, then you cant have that as your group.
Can I just be "friends" with a jerk?
I am assuming you are talking about an ex. So the answer is obviously yes, some people are just “jerks” because they have not matured yet so giveing this person time to mature might change the “jerk” part of that person to more of a decent person.
What to do if my friend is a total jerk?
So my friend, lets call her A, I feel has been being a total freaking jerk to me lately. Let me explain. You see, I feel like she uses me when its to her advantage, asking me to go to the city with her because her parents wont let her go alone just so she can meet up with her boyfriend and totally leaving me in the dust, and this is not the only time its happened. Only last week did we hang out and she literally admitted the only reason she came is because she didnt want to be in the house with her parents and she didnt even like where we were. All she does when we hang out is go on her phone or talk about her problems, hardly letting me ramble without her interrupting. And this might sound bad but I am legit scared of her. I heard her break up with boyfriend on the phone and she left him in tears because she WAS SO MEAN. And she's also mean to my BFF and tries to act cooler than her (acting like she has better things to do and bragging about things that aren't even true) Now most people would stop being friends with her but i don't have many friend options and i don't even know how id end things.... Thanks i just feel like I really needed to get my feelings out
How can I apologize to this girl. I was being a complete jerk?
I'm quite popular at school. I hang around mostly popular people and there's this girl at my school. She's a loner and she's really quiet and shy. I've known her since 9th grade, but I've never spoken to her until recently. Okay so last month our teacher put us in groups of two to work on a project together. I was paired with her. I've always seen her as a lonely, weird, awkward person, but after talking to her she's really cool, she's just extremely shy. I actually started developing some type of feelings for her after that. We exchanged numbers to work on the project outside of school, and we'd meet up in the school library to work on the project. I actually said we could work on it at my house, but I think she was to shy to come over or something idk. After the project it's like we lost complete contact or the complete truth, I dissed her. I was hanging with some friends in the hallway and she spoke and I just looked at her like "why are you speaking to me?". My friends starting laughing and I can tell that she was embarassed. I actually felt pretty bad after that. That was like 2 weeks ago, and I haven't spoken to her since. She actually spoke to me again in class, but I ignored her. I always see her sitting in P.E. by herself or sitting at lunch by herself and I want to walk over and apologize, but I'm afraid. I'm afraid, both, that she won't forgive me and what my friends will think. Now here it is Christmas break and I still haven't apologized. I tried calling her, but she won't answer the phone. My last option is to visit her house. I know where she lives, and I was thinking about going to her house tommorrow and apologizing. I just don't know what to say. Do I still like her? Yeah. I want to ask he out, and though I have a GF I honestly don't have much feelings for my her like I used to. I was thinking about calling it quits anyway. It's weird because I've never been attracted to these type of girls. I'm usually into the popular, really girly girls. Those are usually the girls I date. Any help will do. I know what I did was wrong. I don't need you to tell me that! I just need help on an apology. How to show her that I'm actually sorry? Should I ask her out? What should I do? I'm really f*cked!
Why is my best friend being a jerk to any guy I show interest in?
He is just feeling a little insecure. It happens often with best friends.you get so close to yours best friends that sometimes you start developing a small intimacy with him/her so when either of them move out of it in search of a boyfriend partner, it becomes hard to the other person to accept it.Imagine a small situation where in you have to buy dress for a marriage and you take him alone every time, now since your planning to hit on someone you chose to pic that person to go shopping on the similar situation. Now that's what your best buddy won't be able to accept easily.although he knows that the best for you. Coz you like/love him n all that but still, there will at least be a tiny little peice of his heart that will miss you. Its not your fault to choose your new bf instead of your best buddy for shopping but its your fault to let him so close to you.Emotions are simple when you enjoy them :)Hard when you move away.
If your close friend is being a jerk, because of a depression/crisis, should you be patient with them? I don't want to be around someone who is going to be unkind and irrationally rude, but want to be supportive. Should I put aside my hurt feelings?
Kindness is not a "trivial burden," and depression or crisis are not carte-blanche to treat others like crap. By all means, be patient with someone who's struggling. But "being patient" doesn't mean meekly accepting bad behavior. In fact, meekly accepting bad behavior is often enabling, which does more harm than good. You can tell your friend that you understand how much stress and pain she's going through right now, and you can also tell her that her behavior is hurting you. You could sit her down and have a Big Conversation with her, or you could reply to rude statements when she makes them. Sometimes a simple "You know, that hurt my feelings" can accomplish a lot. Say it calmly and compassionately, not angrily and aggressively. That might be challenging, but hey, you're obviously willing to put out some effort for her sake. Don't use your energy to hide your feelings; use your energy to express your feelings kindly.