My friend is mad at me, what should I do?
Ask them why they are mad at you. (If they refuse to tell you, it is apparently their problem. Nothing will get resolved if they just ignore you)If it is something you did wrong, you can either apologize or explain yourself. Do whatever works in the situation, but be sure if you are explaining yourself to explain the situation/misunderstanding/etc. in a logical, convincing way. Don’t just spew/yell/scream pathetic shit.If they continue acting like they are mad at you even after you apologize (or explain yourself) than just walk away. Wait for them to leave their state of self pity.Above all, just stay calm as another human being that is “mad” at you should be nothing to lose any sleep over (unless they are going to murder you, to which I say, if you know they are going to murder you either get far away or know how to protect yourself. Surely it is not that bad though)
My best friend is mad at me for being mad at them. How should I handle this?
Think about why you had been mad at them.Was it their fault? Or was it yours?If it was your fault, then go up to them and apologize and if you think it isn’t then you have two options:Forget about who’s right and make your friendship the real priority. Apologize to her even when you know they are wrong.Tell her you want to talk about it. If she resists, go up to their home and compel them to talk. Then take things gently (don’t taunt them or tell them you’re right) and just talk it all out.Because that’s what best friends do.
What should I do if my friend is mad at me for no reason?
There is always a reason. Sit down and write a list of the things that happened around the time your friend became angry. At the same time do not attempt to contact that person. Let them contact you. Don't talk about them to anyone and if asked simply answer “Nothing is wrong that I know of.”That puts the ball in their court. If they are really your friend they will eventually cool down and come talk to you.If they show you anger tell them you care about them and wish to resolve the conflict. If they persist then walk away. Sometimes people are only your friend for a purpose and once the purpose is served they hurt you in order to not feel guilty about moving on.Express your gratitude for their friendship and let them know you are still their friend even if they aren't yours.People will respect your behavior and yes I did this so I know that the new friends that I made were absolutely loyal and 20 years later still have my back.
Should my friend be mad at me still for dating her ex?
Background: My best friend and I have been friends for about 2-3 years with multiple falling outs but we got eachother. We both met this guy and we both instantly thought he was super hot. Well, i had a boyfriend at the time, and we'll just say she was single.. we both became friends with him an eventually the two of them started dating. he and i became really good friends while they were dating as well, and i began to consider him one of my best friends to the point that when they broke up i had a really hard time because honeslty he was a much better friend to me than she ever was, so to see the way that she treated him during their relationship and after it was really hard.. &he and i became closer and closer as time went on, and i never lied to her about mine and his friendship and she was fine with it. because he and i were already friends.. fast forward a half year, she's in a relationship and happy, i'm ending mine, and her ex/my now best guy friend tells me that he's had feelings for me since we first became friends.. the moment i realized that our feelings were mutual i refused to act upon them until i ahndled everything int he best way possible, i made sure all ties with my ex were finished [we broke up for different reasons] and i immediately had a face to face with my friend to talk about everything. she was fine at first.. but then after he and i start seeing eachother she decides i'm actually the worst friend ever. first off, i completely agree with her being upset, my intention never was to hurt her it really wasn't. i've had a friend mess around with my ex before, and it did hurt me a bit [especially because that was in the same week of our breakup] but i was more hurt that she went behind my abck and lied.. second. as far as the worst friend thing goes, i was completely straight up with her about EVERYTHING.. isnt that what a real friend should do? she wasnt even supportive of me while i was going thru my breakup.. its been a while now and we've texted once or twice but i dont know where we stand AT ALL and she wont answer that question. i dont know that i have a specific question, more i just want some advice or input....
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My best friend is mad at me for talking to her ex. What do I do?
My best friend is mad because I started talking to her ex. She broke up with him over a month ago and says she doesn't like him anymore. She's also dated 2 other guys since him, and i've supported her through it all. Her ex texted me one day and we started talking. Well a few days later he told me he liked me and I like him too. When my friend found out she told me that she would be extremely mad if we went out. Well she found out that I was going to his baseball game today and we were going to hang out. She texted me and told me that if I was a true friend I wouldn't have even talked to him... And I was thinking but why would you care if we were going to hang out or not, because you don't like him and he doesn't like you anymore. They don't even talk anymore either... I just really don't want this to come between our friendship... Is there anyway that she will understand and everything will go back to normal again?
My best friend, who was there for me when my ex hurt me, is now mad at me because I dated him again. How long will my friend be mad at me?
Thanks for the A2A, but you may not care for my answer.I'm not surprised your girlfriend is mad at you. She must be feeling pretty abused right now. She can probably see that, unless your ex has changed dramatically, and you too, you are headed in the same direction again. People repeat the lessons until they get the learning. But does she really want to have to steer you through all that again? I doubt it. She will probably say 'no, been there, done that. This time you are on your own, honey.'I have no doubt she thought she was helping you to overcome your ex and move on. To get some wisdom in life and to grow from this. But you, it seems, were being fickle. You asked for help or expected it, or took it anyway, and then went back to someone who hurt you.... to her it must seem as if you have not got any learning at all and as if you think she is just there to prop you up whenever you need it. It is one thing to expect a friend's support, but it is quite another to make them accountable for your lack of learning. This is very draining in any relationship - be careful about how you treat your friend. You need to make a decision about whether you wish to be with your ex, but if you go back, don't expect your friends to want to be on the big dipper with you or to bail you out emotionally afterwards. This is the behaviour of a child and your question 'how long on average will she be mad' indicates how immature this attitude is. It is also a mark of great disrespect to your friend, who tried to help you. Try showing some sensitivity...What strikes me about your question the most is your willingness to disrespect yourself. You quite clearly hold your own heart in such low esteem that you would go back for more hurt. I have a feeling you have not gained any learning and will get hurt again. I would also not be surprised if you lose a girlfriend over this.
My friend is mad at me because I have a boyfriend, what do I do?
If she is a “real" friend she wouldn't get mad at you for having a boyfriend. I actually had a supposed best friend of 15 yrs “break up" with me because i spent to much time with my then newborn son and was working on my marriage. (This was 4 yrs ago) I was appalled by the way she acted towards me and still is towards me but apparently she has higher priorities that don't involve her children. I guess so since looking back her mom had them 97% of the time. Sorry but my kids are first and so was my husband. (We're seperated now but the friendship is DONE) THATS NO FRIEND TO ME!My point is if she is a real friend then nothing should come between you two. There is a chance she is upset because you arent spending much time with her because of your boyfriend. I would look at the big picture and see if you have spent less time with her because of him or if hes keeping you away from her. If that is the case i would make time to have girls night out or if hes keeping you from your friend then get a new boyfriend.Or you could find your friend a companion and double date.Just talk to her and ask her why she is mad and go from there.Best of luck!!
My best friend is mad at me because her crush likes me, what should I do?
You cannot stop existing because she is not happy.She is probably being jealous and on top of that she was trying to use you, and this is not a good sign.You cannot stop the guy from liking you, neither you should stop your spontaneous emotions or feelings for someone else.What is happening between you and that guy is natural and you are nowhere at fault.The one to be blamed is her because it was her idea in the first place.Now you cannot undo anything. Given the circumstances, I would say that she is not fairly reacting like a friend. She is blinded by her desire of having her crush with her, and she may be okay with hurting you or fooling you in the process.I don’t have a good feeling about your friend.Just be careful.
My friend is mad at me because I asked her if she thought we would be a good couple when I was seeing someone. What should I do?
Whether you intended it or not, your friend may have believed you were hitting on her. Since she knew you were seeing someone at the time, this might have made her think you you cannot be trusted. After all, a guy with a girlfriend really has no business hitting on another girl! If you would do that to your current gf, you might do it to HER, if she ever became your gf.Unfortunately, you have now lost ground as a friend, and you are going to have to prove to your friend that you aren't just a cheating jerk. It will probably take some time and effort on your part just to get back to "good friend" status. I would probably forget being a couple for a while. Just work on being a good friend and show her you can be trusted. Good luck.