What should I do if my friend is mad at me for no reason?
There is always a reason. Sit down and write a list of the things that happened around the time your friend became angry. At the same time do not attempt to contact that person. Let them contact you. Don't talk about them to anyone and if asked simply answer “Nothing is wrong that I know of.”That puts the ball in their court. If they are really your friend they will eventually cool down and come talk to you.If they show you anger tell them you care about them and wish to resolve the conflict. If they persist then walk away. Sometimes people are only your friend for a purpose and once the purpose is served they hurt you in order to not feel guilty about moving on.Express your gratitude for their friendship and let them know you are still their friend even if they aren't yours.People will respect your behavior and yes I did this so I know that the new friends that I made were absolutely loyal and 20 years later still have my back.
MY friend is mad at me for no reason?
So recently my friends just started ignoring me, and wouldn't respond to me. I do remember saying can't you wait for me just once! because they were waiting for each other, but never waited for me to arrive, or anything. Even if the other friends class was like 4 floors away, they would always walk up to her class and wait. And when my class is just next door, they don't even care to wait. ANd this was like from the start of school. So after telling them if they can wait for me in a friendly kinda BFF shouting way, and telling how I felt, they just started ignoring me, and planning to tell the counselor how I was always so obnoxious, and weird. And the other time I hanged out with a friend that wasn't in our group, and they started yelling at me for being weird, and how unfair it is that I play with other people. But the even weirder thing is that they always talk to other people, and disclude me a lot. And also another time I had to do a project with someone, so I missed lunch a few times, and they were like, umm why the hell do you ditch us and ignore us? And they know I'm doing a project, so I was like mad, and guess what they told the counselor. So I don't get it. They now I can be sarcastic sometimes, and I always apologize, if they were offended or something, I help when they need it, I try to be the best friend of my abilities. And now they're ignoring me for one little incident. And I'm kinda getting tired now.
Guy friend is mad at me for no reason...?
I gave my cell-phone number to this guy that I met yesterday. Me and my guy friend was just hanging out when the guy walked up to me. I wasn't trying to go out with the boy, I just thought he was cute and wanted to talk to him later on. For the rest of the day my friend refused to talk to me, like I would ask him something and he wouldn't reply. While we were still hanging out, the guy text me. My friend then again got mad and he started yelling, "I don't know why you give your numbers out to random guys." then he just walked off. What did I do wrong? It wasn't like I wanted to date the boy, I just wanted to talk to him. Any ideas what's wrong with my friend? His birthday is tomorrow and we're hanging out again. What should I say to him?
My best friend is mad at me for no reason?
well...the whole thing seems pretty stupid!! lol...no offence!! calling someone using a pretend name??? anyhoo....if your friendship with leah/jenna means something to you and you miss it and you feel kinda bad, then apologise...then everything will probably go back to normal..BUT.....if you still feel like saying sorry isnt what you should have to do either.......talk to your friend and sort things out without apologising...like lets just forget this, it was a silly day,,its over, lets put it behind us...or......dont apologise...your friend will stay mad at you...and you will stay mad at your friend and then your friendship will probably be over...:(...do what u think is best huni! xx
My best friend gets mad at me for no reason?
I had the same situation, like last year. My best friend would always get mad about absolutely nothing. I never got mad at her for stuff, the only time I was EVER mad was when I ended up mad at her for being mad about me for nothing. So anyways, we went through pointless fights all the time. I tried to say sorry all the time and it turned into "Sorry doesn't always cut it." And I tried to talk to her about it and then we wouldn't fight for a short period of time and then BAM, another fight about something dumb. And then we ended up not being friends. We recently became friends again and haven't been fighting at all. So I guess what it took was for both of us to realize how it was without each other. So basically my point is, you can't let yourself end up in a friendship where she thinks its fine to fight all the time. I would just let it go for a while. You could text her later and say "Hey, it seems like you're mad, could we please talk?" What I don't recommend is saying sorry for nothing. Then she'll automatically assume she was right and can be mad for nothing. Only say sorry when you honestly did something! Also, when she's not mad you may want to have a heart to heart with her about how you don't want to constantly fight over little things and that she's your best friend and you don't want anything silly to come between you. (Which is what happened to me). And if for any reason you end up not being friends ever, it'll be okay too. I survived, and I think me and my bff are actually closer now because of it. Well, anyways, I know how tough of a situation that is to be in and I hope it all works out! Hope I helped a bit. Short answer: Wait a bit, and if you're really worried about it text her asking what's going on a bit later. Good luck dear! Sorry for the ranting xD
My friend always gets mad at me for no reason what do i do?
well what you should do is decide weather you can weigh out the goods with the bads like you must have some good times in order to still be friends. so i woudl make a paper and divide it in half then write the goode and the bad then you will know what to do
My friend always gets mad at me for no reason?
First of all, I hate Gmail now. Second off all, my friend Leandra gets mad at me for stupid little things. My other friend Sherri and I went to the mall ( my car is really small, if I wanted to bring Leandra, I couldn't) and when Leandra found out, she got really mad. She confides to this guy named George (they like each other, don't want to admit it) and all she talks about is George and his friends. I mean that's ALL she talks about. ANd if we try to change the subject she would get mad at us saying something like "I'm trying to tell you something!!! You shouldn't be interrupting.." What should I do?
Why is my friend randomly mad at me for no reason?
everyone goes through certain times when things are too bad to deal with,during the christmas holidays he may of had a argument or had something,and then maybe of taken it out on you,not that he should of,but like yu havant done nothing wrong so it aint something uve caused if he wont talk to you soon then maybe you should go and meet some new people and try and find some friends who like you,ive had it before where my mates been mad at me for stupid things,just give him some space like a week or something and try and talk to him again,if he treats you the same just for the sake of it then he aint worth the effort
How do I deal with a friend who is mad at me for a stupid reason and isn't willing to forgive?
Is this a valued good friend? Or one you can easily live without? That bases how you should respond here.Firstly, dig deep inside yourself to see this from their point of view. Empathize with your friend..explain to them and paraphrase the situation to them as if you were saying from their point of view to show you understand.Say “I know you feel xxx, and are xxx..however..then state your side kindly and diplomatically. Think through what you are going to say first and the potential impact. If they are unreasonable, then Set your boundaries. Tell your friend ‘I am sorry you feel this way and I am here for you ‘ then if needed, be willing to take a step back to allow them to think it through or perhaps ask them if you can agree to disagree . Ask them if your friendship is worth more to them than this incident and that you'd like to take steps together to be the great friends you've always been. That your friendship means alot and not worth risking over this.If they are truly your friend and value the friendship more than the incident, then they will come around. Remember though, to your friend this incident is not stupid, but a very valid reason to them. Give them that respect even if you don't agree or it may turn into an argument. The discussion should be solution focused. A friends opinion while it may be misguided, is never stupid. You are there to support each other. If they need more facts or correction of facts, provide what they need. If they are truly unreasonable, consider if this is where you want your energy, time and focus going forward or not. How close you are and how they make you feel majority of the time are critical factors to your decsion as well. Good luck !
Why do I keep getting mad at my friends for no reason?
Humans have 6 emotional needs.Connection - Variety - Significance - Certainty(Main 4)Growth - Contribution (Can be met once main 4 are met)The opposite of significance is anger. When a person feels angry, they need significance. Significance is the need to know we are special and uniquely valued. So I wonder… does part of you feel unseen or unheard by your friends? If there more you would like to share or say? Check in and see where you feel overlooked or taken for granted or whatever it is you want to communicate or share that isn’t happened. This could easily go into experiences you have had your younger years that is coming up with your friends. Once you become aware of what is going on inside of you, you can better find the significance you desire.<3