My best friend told me she's not a virgin anymore?
Always stay true to yourself, that's what I'll say. If you do something out of pressure, you're bound to regret later on. Your virginity is a gift, once it's taken there's no more 2nd chances. I'm 21 and still a virgin, although there've been times when I was tempted and/or pressured, I'm really glad I did not do anything silly! And it totally helps that my girlfriends all agree that we should abstain from premarital sex as much as possible (unless he's really the one, but then again how can you ever be sure?) It's also a bonus because we won't have to worry about pregnancy or STDs. =) As for your feelings towards your friend, you might want to take some time off from her to really think things through. After you've calmed down, perhaps a heart to heart talk with her would help? I hope all goes well hon. Listen to Martina Mcbride's "This One's For The Girls", I think it's a really uplifting song! Cheers.
My friend is a s.l.u.t? i dont like her anymore! help!?
1. The best way to come out of such a tricky situation is to be BLUNT. On one hand, you can just accept her for who she is - she's a slut, not an axe murderer. She's probably a nymphomaniac (in the serious medical usage) or has got a high drive for sex. But its absolutely understandable that you feel disgusted by it. 2. So, let's suppose her name is X. When she starts with her sexcapades you could just ignore and shift to another topic with a brief "Yea" or "Okay" to whatever she just said. She should get the hint. If she asks your opinion be frank, but say it as sweetly and friendly as possible. If you can't ignore her and she goes on, you should speak about her sexcapades like an opinion-asking way. If she said "I did it with xyz", "Okay..but why are you going around doing it with all the guys? People talk about it you know, how could you be fine with that.....". Then go on to tell her you are uncomfortable with all of it. After that she might get mad at you. Now remember this is a good thing, coz you made your opinion be heard. You guys may not talk for awhile. Now I don't know how close your friendship is with this girl, but depending on that you may have to apologize (all part of the plan). This "incident" however, will make her understand your true opinion and despite that if she starts about her sexcapades again, just say something like "Come on X, lets not go there. I just find it odd, I can't hear it" (Be kind but blunt). 3. You could avoid direct confrontation but slowly telling her that others call her a slut and you, as her friend don't like to hear it. As you girls may be speaking of others too, just when you girls are speaking in not-so-good terms of some others, you could tell her something like "Yea, I hate the way the talk about you too". She would want to know obviously. So you could go like "They say your a slut and all". Then when the two of you get deep into that kind of talk, you could say "I mean, don't take this wrong, you really don't have to do it with every second guy you meet though you are pretty and althat'sats why they speak of you that way, I don't like it". The compliment in the end could assure her that you aren't against her. 4. The last (but mean) option is to downright ignore her and go into another group of girls. I wouldn't suggest you this, but its the last option. Hope that is of some help to you :- )
How do I tell a friend I don't like her anymore?
You must know in your mind the real reason why you don't like her. Is it because she msy have changed? Or maybe you have changed in your sensibilities. Something else to keep in mind is she might be going through personal situations affecting personality or her behaviour towards others.I'd be hesitant to directly tell her "I don't like you", but would talk the about about her is causing your distaste. Theres no need to make a blunt decision where you could later regret losing a good friend. Then subtlety go your own way, spend less time around her if you can't resolve your bad feelings.
What do you do if your best friend doesn't want to be with you anymore?
I have been in your situation.Not once, but twice.When the same person who you trusted a lot, the one who used to share everything with you, the one who literally has other friends because of you, for the one you did all that you could ever do turns out to be the one who stops talking to you, not just this, the person refuses to give you a reason and ignores you constantly. It sucks, it really does.But that's how most of the people are.In my case I tried everything, called them pinged them, confronted them, only to face ignorance.Not every one is as sensitive as you. I felt so bad initially, I didn't give up. I wanted my friend back at any cost. No matter what. But there is a slight boundary between ego and dignity called self respect and you must respect your self respect.Sometimes you just have to accept the fact that people don't need you anymore in their life.Their work is done, maybe they are just bored of you. Accept their decision and move on.Also remember one thing, too much of attachment can be really really harmful.Sometimes, it's better to embrace solitude rather than cribbing over the fact that people don't need you. You need yourself. It hurts but You are stronger than that.
I don't really like my best friend anymore?
Ok so I've been best friends with this girl for 4 years. Let's call her christy. We've had a lot of fights. Some of them occurred because she was being b*tchy or being "bossy". During the most recent fight a few months ago she was being a real b*tch. I didn't want to be her friend. But on Facebook she told our friend to tell me she's sorry. I said okay and my friend said that Christy is making me apologize as well so I did but I honestly didnt want to and it wasn't really my fault. Right now she's nice to me, but I just don't like her as much as I used to. For some reason with other friends I'll be happy to talk to them but when it's Christy sending me a message or something I'll be like "Oh great it's you," in my head. On Facebook I get really annoyed by her. Like how she would post personal stuff about what's going on between us and her siblings can see it. For example. "[Tags brother], me and [tags my name] are having a fight!! You were right!"(her brother thinks im like really mean to her and doesn't know she can be mean to me as well) or she posts on my wall saying "even though you can be so negative and PMSing I still love you and you know that!! <3 <3" Ugh. I always feel "happy" if a friend or mine says they "love" me but I'm just like wow when it comes to her. Shes been really getting on my nerves ever since we've been on vacation and having Facebook as the only communication. I've always liked having her as my best friend an thinking no one could ever replace her, but now I like talking to other people online and stuff. Is it normal to want to get away from your best friend for a change? I'm okay with all my friends except for her now for some reason. She hasn't done anything wrong and stuff at this point but I still feel like I don't like her as much anymore. Before when I annoyed with her I would keep it in my head and still like her for some reason. O_o
Does my best friend not want to be friends anymore?
Okay, I have a very, very best friend that I met 2 years ago. We did everything together. I always went to her house. And we text 24/7. After school she would say Hi and all that. But in march of 2007 she wouldn't text, or call me anymore. Or not invite me over anymore. Everytime I texted her she was never doing anything. And I asked her why she doesn't talk to me anymore she said: because. She wouldn't give a reason. And she gets mad at me, mean, and she cus at me for no reason. I did nothing to her hurt her. Doesa she not want to be friends anymore? she sayu's she is still my friend. But I dont feel that way. Please help me. What should I do? :(
How do I tell my friend we can't be friends anymore?
Coming from someone who is currently a teenager, and who has most definitely gone through my fair share of "best friends," I know what you're going through. What it's important for you to realize, is that the label "best friend" means NOTHING. Right now you are considering throwing away a perfectly good friendship because you don't think your friend fits into your idea of a "best friend" anymore. From my experience, life gets much much happier when you let go of this ridiculous social construct. Who cares how your friendship is defined? Stop defining friends as "best friends" and just be friends. Do you enjoy hanging out with her? Is she good company? Does she support you when you need her? If so, then don't tell her you can't be friends anymore. Just do whatever you enjoy - if you enjoy being her friend, then be her friend! If you meet someone new and you like hanging out with them, then hang out with them! Focus and doing what makes you happy, and don't let the idea of a "best friend" hold you back from making new friends.However, if you still want to tell her that you can't be her friend anymore, i'd suggest you just let your friendship slowly fade. It's not really necessary for you to go up to her and blatantly say that you do not wish to be her best friend anymore - eventually you guys will just drift farther apart.
My friends don't tell me anything anymore... and...?
Its just really upsetting me, because I always tell them secrets, hang out with them... etc. Its just getting on my nerves. And I'm talking about 2 friends of mine... Let's just call them "Y" and "S" ( I dont wanna say names online). "Y" is also really bossy, and expects me to do what she wants, like give her food when IM hungry and yah... she also gets mad at me REALLY easily... and whenever my other friends are mad at her, she EXPECTS ME to stand by her side when I dont want to. Its pissing me off. "S" gets mad EVERYDAY for not apparent reasons, and I get all the stress and stuff when my friends have enormous fights. She expects me to come to her, and say sprry, when I dont even know what I even did! They never call me anymore... maybe "S" does but yah... shes a much better friend than "Y". "Y" is just rude to me 24/7 and whenever she wants something form me, shes all nice and sweet. GOD I'M TIRED OF IT! I'm treated like ****! We're also doing this group thing in drama, and "Y" just took the main part when I wanted it... and asked for it like 1000 times. She just rolls her eyes and ignores me. She also tells UNTRUE things to everyone else, which really is making me MAD. My other friends... not "Y" or "S"... always make fun of me, kick me, make fun of me, call me ugly (when theyre the HIDEOUS ones)... and so much more... I'm just too exhausted to list it all. What do I do... and has this ever happened to you?