My best friend is pregnant...?
my best friend who is 18 is pregnant. I think 18 is WAY to young to be pregnant. She joked around a few times saying that her and her boyfriend were trying to on purpose. And I knew she wasn't kidding.And now she got what she wanted. Im very disappointed in her. I don't know what to do. Its just the fact that she did it on purpose that bugs me. I understand accidents happen but this wasn't. She isn't ready to be a mom. Especially not financially. I already feel distant from her. She is very emotional and sensitive enough as it is. She is very much of a drama queen, and she believes that 18 isn't young at all for a child. So she obviously doesn't know what shes getting herself into. I have a niece who is 4 months and the parents are both 19 years old. So i know what its like to have a baby so young because Ive seen it first hand. What should I do? I feel like there is pressure on me for some reason. I just wanna have fun with my friends, but i feel it is over now. Like we cant go out and fun anymore. help...
How do I tell my girlfriend I got another girl pregnant?
How long have you been with the current girlfriend?How many times did you hook up with this other girl?Kids involved on either side? (Minus the new pregnancy).How far along is this girl in her pregnancy?What is she planning to do about the pregnancy?I need that information to help tell you. I saw in a comment your girlfriend knows about the affair. Then that's a big step down.Now, it's just a matter of telling her- directly and to her face- that not only did the affair happen, but proper precautions weren't taken and the girl has ended up pregnant with your child.Then, she can decide whether or not to stay with you, but bet on losing her. She's going to be hurt, scared, upset, and feel like she wasn't necessarily good enough. You're about to start a new life with the pregnant woman (Even non-romantically) into being parents should she keep the pregnancy and not choose to let the baby be adopted into another family. It's going to be a LOT of ups and down between now and the birth of the child, and even more as the child grows.You also should get a DNA test, just to be on the safe side, especially if you aren't 100% guaranteed sure that it's your kid. (Which, I'm pretty sure you can't until DNA).Best of luck to you man, own up to the mistakes, own up to being a parent, and own up to the fact that you will probably lose your girlfriend.
Can you get pregnant from masturbating? (asking for a friend?)?
Ok hi so my friend is like really paranoid he has OCD, and she told I don't need to know this but she masturbates and last time she did her fingers were not washed all day also she is scared that somehow she touched some object with sperm on it even though she is a virgin and like she is scared that she is pregnant she says her tummy feels weird and it is not her period like I said she is !00 percent a virgin and she masturbated with unclean fingers that (for her sake) may or may not have had sperm on them she masturbated a lot according to her so could she get pregnant sorry for the trouble and thank you for answering and please no inappropriate or rude comments after all my friend does have some disorders btw she says she feels pressure on her stomach and it is bigger but I think it is just her fear and I told her that some people actually have sex and do not get pregnant so she should not worry but she is still worrying can you please reassure her thanks in the long run sorry for lack of punctuation I am just rushing please just focus on the situation rather than the grammar errors thank you and have a nice day?.:)
Am i pregnant?
Ok, I really hate this. IF YOU THINK YOU ARE PREGNANT, GO FIND OUT. Get off the computer and go get a at home test from the stupid store. Ok, other than that. Look I'm 17, I had my son when I was 16. I thought my mom would disown me and all my friends would hate me. But my mother ended up just saying that she would but not doing it. She was actually trying to scare me away from getting pregnant and what not. But I did actually loose most of my friends. but i found out who my real ones were. If your mother does disown you. There are places for teenage mothers. They are not horrible. But if you need some help or someone to talk to that been there... just email or im me. It's reynacatherinelopez@yahoo.com. Oh, this may or may not make you feel any better but, my cousin Kristi had her first child when she had barely turned 14. Everything turned out ok for her so they could turn out just fine for you. Now go get a test done or something.... talk to your mom.
Is it possible to get pregnant from Grinding/ Dirty Dancing? We dont have sex ed at our school so i cant....?
Okay so last month we had our morp (school dance) and I wore a short dress, and well i wasnt wearing shorts. This guy came up to me and askd if we could dance i agreed, however when we started dancing i could feel him getting a ***** and a lil later i told him i wanted to get water so we stopped dancing.... I was worried that there was a way i was pregnant but i got my period like 2 weeks ago (well i think it was my period) it lasted 5 days and was pretty strong, however im still scared that i could be pregnant i took a hpt and it came back neg... Could I be pregnant? Pleasse no mean comments, our school dosent have a sex ed class and i cant get these questions answerd :( pleassssssssseeeeeeeee heeeeeeeeeeellllllllp!!!
My boyfriend touched my boobs so am I pregnant now?
Your boobs are definitely pregnant! :P
Can a girl be pregnant only by thinking about sex?
Yes! Now, the serious question is how long have you been thinking about it? Because that'll determine your baby's IQ. I recently gave birth to a baby boy with an IQ of 130. His father (my brain ) has now proposed me for marriage, so we're alright now. Wishing you all the best with your pregnancy. xx
What can I say to someone who is pregnant?
Here's what not to say:don't congratulate. You never know if the woman is superstitious, or the pregnancy was a result of some negative event (happened by accident, caused by rape), or if she is at all happy to be pregnant. If you feel you absolutely must congratulate, ask first if it's all right to do.don't ask "is it a boy or a girl?", "how far along?", "when is your due date?", "have you thought of a name yet?" - all these things are DONE TO DEATH by everyone around a pregnant woman and the last thing you want to be is another boring questioner who asks the same thing for a hundredth time. Besides, most of these are actually none of your business. And yes, everybody wants to know the name beforehand! Why such a hurry?don't judge. None of those "oh, are you sure it's safe at your age?", "isn't two kids enough already?", "I wonder how you're going to fit into your apartment with such a large family!" or "haven't you always been saying that you don't want kids?" - these things are, again, none of your business.(today's irritating addition) if you have received or figured out the news that the woman is pregnant NOT from her directly, consider the idea that, if she still hasn't told you, 1 chance out of a 100 is that she forgot... but a whopping 99 chances out of a 100 is that she didn't want you to know. Since it's far more like that she didn't want you to know, it will be absolutely tactless to start talking to her about it. (A tolerable exception may be if you have something to offer/help with: "I heard you were pregnant, I have a bag of baby clothes/a baby stroller I don't need that I could give you" - but not to chat and to gossip!)Here's what to say:Wish her luck and health. You may ask if she feels okay, and lend an attentive ear if she feels like sharing some of her complaints with you. Ask if she needs any help with anything, or if she has a gift wishlist (if you are that close with her). You may ask if she has any ultrasound photos to share. Ask if it's okay to congratulate her.Generally, the main rule is "let the pregnant woman decide what she wants to discuss, where to take the conversation and what topics to tackle, but don't force any yourself. It's a touchy subject."(P.S. Yes, being congratulated is my pet peeve. I know people mean well, but it just twists me up inside, especially when after sleepless nights, aching back, heartburn and anxiety celebrating this whole "amazing experience" is the last thing on my mind.)
What are the best words you can say to a pregnant woman?
While pregnant, woman generally doesn't want to hear to words that make them feel pregnancy as a struggle. Many don’t know what to talk to expecting moms and end up leaving them with puzzles and worries, while, some people think twice before talking to a pregnant, so as to be careful what they should and shouldn't spill.Words you can say to a pregnant woman:If you are a partner:Congratulate her! She is carrying your next generation, and it is life partner's responsibility to not to make her feel all alone. After all she is your wife and it is your loving baby growing out there. Let her know she has all your support.“You look beautiful with this bump”. Many worry about how they look with their growing belly, just make her feel good about her bump.“What do you want to have for dinner/lunch. Don't worry about the kitchen, forget about the dishes”“I'll take care of our other kids.”“How are you feeling, is it better, feel free to say anything”“Don't worry about the baby's gender.”“You will make a good mother, no worries about the baby's future, will plan them.”If you are a friend/relative“How do you feel.”“You make pregnancy look easy. ““You look nice as a pregnant.”“Don’t worry about delivery, it is not going to be tough, there are many cases whose labor time was short with minimal pain. Just take care of your pregnancy period.”“It doesn't take much time to lose pregnancy belly, and stretch marks as well.”“Weight gain during pregnancy is pretty much common”, and it is a healthy thing to happen, your weight gain while pregnant is entirely your personal, never mind what people think about it.If you are stranger:“Please, take my seat.” (Offer your seat, if you see her standing in a bus/train)Try to help if you find her struggling and is in need of someones support.
Can you get pregnant if you sit in bathwater that had sperm in it?
Serious question, yeah. So my roommate took a bath this morning (around seven in the morning) and masturbated in the bath. When I went to take a bath at night (at like ten o'clock), I started to fill up the bath. I sat in the bath for like fives seconds and realized that there was some bathwater from his bath left over in the tub (and I sat in it). I got out of the water when I realized that I was sitting in his leftover bathwater that didn't go down the drain. Serious question: is it possible to get pregnant from that? I've googled it like crazy. Some say no way, some say it is a definite possibility, and some say there's like a 0.00000001% chance of me getting pregnant. Honestly, is that possible? I know it sounds stupid, but is there any chance?