How do I tell my friend that they are really rude to me in a calm manner?
“Hey, you’re {actions_of_your_friend} is really rude.”ie.“Hey, Billy, you’re using the word ‘hey’ is really rude, hay is for horses.”just like that.
My best friend is being mean and rude!!?
My best friend has been really rude. I have known her for 6 years. She has always been a little rude from the beggining but still a really good friend to have around. I thought maybe she would get better but she hasn't. She's always been putting me down and acting like I'm and idiot. She also teases and embaresses me in front of my friends. She also thinks that. I have to be around her every second of the day and have no other friends. One day she was talking to someone after class so I went ahead and went to the next class. In the next class she got really mad and was like "why didn't you wait on me!!!". Really rudely. I told her that she didn't always wait on me and that I thought it was ok. She also always puts me down. Almost everyday she says something rude about my outfit or my hair. She is reall making me lose my self confidence. Also I think she gets a little jealous of me because I'm a all A student. Every time I make a good grade she always says somehing like "well at least I actually studied" or "well it doesn't even matter cause these grade don't even count". Also a few times she would run away with another friend saying "we don't hang out wih nerds!!!!!" Really rudely. She is a really nice person when we are at her house or just me and her. Then she always talks about how she's sooo glad we are friends. Bu around other people it seems like she hates me and tries to make me look stupid!! I've tried giving her some space but she always get mad at me for "leaving her" or "ignoring her"!! She also tells me that I'm stupid on a daily basis or your sooo wierd or whispers to other friends behind my back saying things like "omigosh look at her hair it's so frizzy!!!" I try to act nice and go along with it saying thing like " I know today has been a bad hair day". She also bullies me by hitting me and pushing me around saying "did that hurt"!!! Then trying it harder and harder. I know sometimes people do this just to be fun but she does it a lot and I can tell she is trying to be mean not funny. How do I tell her I don't want to hang out with her anymore. We have been friends for sooo long. I do have other fiends I could hang out with but then she always gets mad!!! Any advice is apreciated!!! Thank you in advance!!!
My guy friend was really rude to me. (We're both 15 I'm female). He called me loads of bad words and it really pissed me off. What should I do?
I didn't see anything in your question that gave readers any kind of reason why he would do this. But as I am now an adult, I found out some of the reasons it happened to me When I was young and they all revolved around jealousy of all things.I had guys I considered friends insult me by telling me I was dating too many boys or that everyone thought I was a slut and other things along that vein.Later in life I received apologies from the boys (now turned men) who told me they really wanted more than a friendship with me, but didn't know how to go about it. So they released their frustration on me by trying to hurt my feelings. I didn't have the heart to tell them that they didn't hurt my feelings because 1. I never dated more than one guy at a time and there was always quite a bit of time between each and 2. I remained a virgin into my 20’s (almost unheard of these days) so the “slut” comment couldn't apply either.So I’d suggest looking deeper into what might be motivating this friend to say these things. Unless you did something that warranted it, he probably has something unspoken on his mind.
Guy friend being so rude to me...?
well first off, he isn't being a friend to you. Maybe you need to tell him he's being self-centered of course in a non confrontational way...which is hard. If he continues, start distancing yourself from him until he realizes he's being a jerk. If he cares at all about you or the friendship, he will snap out of this. Maybe you can go the approach when he is being pissy, just bluntly ask"what the heck is your pRoblem lately!?"
Why is my friend's mom so rude to me?
Okay so I'm 16 and I have this best friend who I've known for years. I really like her and her family, but her mom is really rude to me. She always makes very mean comments for absolutely no reason. Like a few weeks ago she asked if I got my eyebrows done and when I said yes she said "They're too thin. Yuck!" Then a few days ago me and her were talking about my new dog and she cut me off mid sentance and said "You have got to do something about your hair! It's so boring!" Yesterday she asked if I had a new perfume and when I said no she said "Really? I smell something nasty!" I never say anything back to her because my mom always taught me to respect adults and all that, but it's so annoying! She always implies that I'm ugly and stuff and I know I'm not, I'm a model for God's sakes! My friend always yells at her for being rude, but it doesn't work. I don't want to have to ditch my friend, but what do I do?