What do I do about an annoying friend?
The hostility, complete with threats, this kid expressed upon not getting immediate gratification from you for listening to him is concerning.Have you ever tried actually talking to this guy about his behavior and why it is so off-putting? I mean really leveling with him. You don’t need to be mean about it, but you can just point out that he tries to monopolize conversations constantly, refusing to let others speak.His threats are completely unacceptable and you should just tell him that you will not tolerate them, period. You will give him one chance, just one, and if he does not change his behavior and cease with the threats, you can not be friends with him.If he objects or denies what he is doing is wrong, you can tell him that you are so sorry, but you can’t be friends with someone who is a conversation hog, harasses you and threatens to hack your social media accounts for revenge simply because you didn’t call him back when he demanded you to.If he truly listens and begins a dialogue about how to curb his behavior, it will help him and you. He would end up a better person for it, certainly.Before you speak to him, change all your passwords. Make them very difficult and something he couldn’t possibly guess, just in case. I’d also recommend having a friend wait out of sight during the intervention, on the off-hand chance he becomes violent or makes more dangerous threats. I’d also recommend having the conversation in a public space, like a park or mall. Being in public may temper his reaction to the point where he actually stops to listen to you.If this kid is just an A-hole, and flies of the handle, you can tell him your next stop will be the police station for a restraining order against him. Unless he’s seriously mentally disturbed, the promise of a restraining order should be enough to rid yourself of him.Hopefully, he will acknowledge his bad behavior and apologize for it. I wish you luck.
OMG MY FRIEND IS SO ANNOYING?
Is there a good reason she is staying with you for 5 days? If she is kicked out of her house or something, then let her stay for 5 days. But if you is just there because, then tell her to leave. Tell her she is being annoying, a snooper and you're causing family problems. Now, for me, it's hard to say from personal experience because I have never had an annoying friend stay with me for 5 days. And I also understand kicking her out is hard. The only other way to get her to shut the f*ck up, is probably call her out. Basically that means just tell her every single thing she does that is rude, and annoying. Like give examples how she disrespected the house owner, your mom. And ask her why is turns down all your game ideas if she has none. Tell her she is boring. Tell her to try and be more fun, respectful, and quiet. But if you just tell her my last sentence, it won't work. You must give stronger examples. Plural! Not just one example, try for at least two.
My friend is being so annoying. What should I do?
First, relax! These things happen all the time and going in annoyed won't help.So, the aim is to clarify the situation with her and let them know how you are feeling, without it blowing up into an unnecessary argument. To do this, I suggest these steps:Identify clearly what is annoying you. Is it what your friend is saying? Or what she does? Pinpoint it as much as you can. It may not neccesarily be because of her actions, but how you perceive it.Think in your friends shoes. Are they really doing something wrong?Formulate a reasonable solution, something that makes sense. For example, if you dont enjoy their loud music at night, set a time for quiet hours. Telling her to be silent as a pindrop is NOT reasonable.Discuss with the friend, but go in as positive as you can. Remember the aim is to solve the annoying issue, not to fight. Be affirmative and more on the serious side, and listen to her as much as you can. Find a reasonable compromise. When you do, reward each other to positively reinforce this mutual understanding toward one other at solving an issue.Try as much as you can to understand why you find her behaviour annoying. Maybe its you, maybe its her. There are so many things we don't know, and its important to acknowledge that, so the best we can do is listen to each other and TRY understand. Remember the aim!!
My friend is so annoying?
I just started 9th grade and unfortunately one on F my best friends made her way into my class, she's not really my best friend, but I pretend. She always says racist **** against my heritage, and then when I call her up on it she cries and starts playing the victim. She is annoying, and whenever I talk to someone else she gets jealous and gets angry, when I get a better score than her she starts crying and gets all angry at me for the rest of the day, when I ask her what's wrong she says I stepped on her foot that morning or something dumb like that. She always pretends to be all smart and responsible, like she's better than everyone, especially me. I always am expected to do what she wants, and she gets annoyed if I do something else, I have other friends and I try to avoid her, but since she's in the same class as me it's impossible. She has no opinion except for her parents opinions, which I hate, because I hate people that are moulded by their parents, it's a sign of a weak mind.
My mom's friend is so annoying ..what should i do?
okay so my mom has this friend, not a best friend, just friend. But ever since my mom had another baby, that friend has been so obsessed with my family. Like she's constantly txting my mom, which is annoying and now she's trying to work at where my mom works! And she's rude to me! i tell my mom and my mom just says to ignore it or she tells me she dosent really talk to her friend that much anymore, which i know is a lie, since i can see that her friend is still txting my mom. I just dont want them to be friends anymore, and if she does start working with my mom, then they will become closer and i dont want that because if they do then that means her husband and her will start hanging out with my parents!! she even bought a new car just so she can be able to take my baby brother places !!! shes obsessed with my baby brother!..i just want her to stick to her family and to stop trying to come into mine. but i dont know how to get her to back off?! [sorry i typed so much]
My friend is so god damn annoying!!!?
okay. I'll call her "Alyssa". yeah, ok. so she has blond hair. and she thinks that that means she can act like a freaking bimbo. in class she always raises her hand and asks stupid, UN related questions. and she does it clicking her tongue, ya know, t,t,t,t,t, ummmmmmmmmm t,t,t,. oh my god! she is so annoying. everyone thinks she is so stupid. she never does her homwork. she always does that puffy lip thing. she drives me insane!!!!!!!!!!!!! now shes going out with this guy who always slaps her in the butt. and she tihnks im mad at her because i said i hate that guy. which i really dont give a damn who she goes out with. what should i do? she is soooooooooooo annoying. any relatable stories?
My friend is so annoying and spoiled?!?
Would you tell your parents no if they were lavishing all kinds of things on you? Would you say no to what they wanted to buy you if they could afford to do things like that? You know you would take the stuff. She did not pick her parents. You need to decide if you are her friend or not. You do not sound like one.
How do you deal with annoying friends?
It is true that in today’s day and age (technology), dealing with annoying “friends” (even if they are even friends to begin with) is hard to do. Even if they are not physically there, they will use other people to represent themselves just to annoy you.I was in a bookstore yesterday accompanying my daughter buying some gift items for her bf. Apparently, I got myself a ream of paper for myself, and as I approached the cashier, this guy with a baby appeared from nowhere, who seems to be a friend to the bookstore staff started yelling incredible insults towards I don’t know who. I am assuming that it was towards me as I was the only one who just approached the cashier. And all the staff were laughing as if chanting for the guy. And mind you, he was not buying anything.And when I walked away, the shouting and chanting stops. while they entertain other buyers too. But I still noticed this guy looking at me with a scheming smile while he watched over his baby walked around the store.In all honesty, I tried not to visit that store as much as I could as I noticed the same scenario over and over again. I have a membership card that I stopped using so that I could appear invisible to them. But the insult never stops. Yes it has been going on for many months if not for years.So in summary, I just simply tried to extend my patience and tell myself that these are narrow-minded people and should not confront them in anyway possible. I know that someone is controlling them.Perhaps one day, I will lose it, but will never feel sorry if that time comes.
Why is my friend so annoying and ignorant?
She used to be my best friend but now I realise why so many people dislike her. She pretends to be rich and wastes all her money like it's no big deal bragging about how she's gonna get a brand new iphone next month which she has been taking about for a year, her parents have an okay amount of money to support her and her sister but she keeps on wasting it saying that I literally have 1000 dollars, thats so little. She thinks she has a lot of friends but in reality she doesn't, everyone in my class dislikes her and even her other "so called" best friend says she doesn't like her personality because she is so annoying and arrogant, she keeps on pretending she is so much better than me and I quote "You are are so annoying, can you please leave me alone? I have much better things to do." then leaving me to find other people which ignore her. One time she was really good friends with this guy and it seems he ended up having a crush on her, then suddenly she blocks him and ignores all calls from him and when I asked her why she says "Do I need a reason to block him? He is so annoying and keeps on texting me when I'm doing homework" like wtf, that is not a valid reason to block your friend and suddenly ignore him, have you gone completely insane? I really don't understand her can anyone tell me why so is so damn ignorant and obnoxious
My friend keeps annoying my crush?
Ok so my friend keeps calling my crush's name at lunch and blaming it on me and she keeps threatening to ask him out for me but i don't want to do that yet.its really annoying and i told her i dont like it but she's still doing it.i've also confronted her about it several times but thats not helping.and i really don't want my crush to get mad at me.what should i do?