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My Friend Is Starting To Annoy Me

My best friend is really starting to annoy me?

I met my friend Anna like 6
months ago and we became really close
because we're very similar in many ways. We joke around a lot and it it even got to the point where a girl asked us if we were lesbians lol. But yeah lately she's been really annoying me because of many reasons:
1) I'm a really good student and she isn't. So whenever I have an accomplishment in school I can just feel her jealousy.
2) she sends me really weird pictures of herself. At first it was funny and I would send her weird pictures too but now it's not funny anymore and it's actually kind of creepy.
3) she always wants me to do stuff with her like she's not independent enough to do it by herself like join clubs I don't want to join and things like that
4) she's always calling herself ugly and stupid and I never know what to say. It's really annoying
5) she's ALWAYS asking me for rides EVERYWHERE. Like it doesn't bother me if you ask me for rides sometimes but when it's every single time we hang out then there's a problem. She has a mom an two brothers that drive. She also has a dad. I only have my dad to drive me places.
Those are only some of the reasons... But yeah...

Okay so idk what do do. I'm getting tired of her but I feel really guilty for it. Any advice?

My best friend is starting to annoy me?

she is self absorbed and not a real friend. she only has u around tomake her feel like she has a following. i would demote her to maybe friend, but more like aquantance. u don't sound jealous. she's a jack-$5. drop her and find someone who values u for u. not just wants u to feed her insecurities and low senseof worth. not a good influenc at all. theis gives her away a100% "She rarely replies to my texts, but if I don't reply to her text right away, I "hate" her". she is also a control freak. not even worth being jealous of

My friend is starting to annoy me?

Me and my best friend have been best friends for almost 3 years. Last week she really started to annoy me, everything she did would make me so aggravated. For example she always complains about hating school, I get it because I don't like school either but always being negative about it doesn't make it any better and she always has something to say about it, about all the work all day everyday. She also always complains about this guys girlfriend because she likes the guy but he doesn't like her so she always talks bad about his girlfriend. Or she always complains about people at our school like talks **** about all of them. This weekend I stayed at home away from her because I thought it would help but by Monday at school she was still annoying me. I can't just get away from her because we have lunch together and we hang out with the same group of friends at school. I just really can't stand her anymore for some reason. Everything is always negative with her she always complains about something no matter what it is so it just makes me mad and start to think negative and I don't need that in my life especially during school. I love her as a friend because she's always been there for me but I'm going to end up going off on her one day when she's complaining and I don't want that to happen. And I know if I tell her something about her always complaining she's gonna have an attitude (like she does with everything) which is gonna make me more mad.

Best friend smokes and it’s starting to annoy me?

so my best friend of 10+ years has been smoking (cigarettes) for about a year or so now and it’s starting to get to me. Whenever we go out she needs to have a smoke break every hour and she always wants me to go with her. The smoke blows in my face and then when she smokes outside and then sits in my car I can just smell it coming off of her. Recently she asked if she could smoke in my car (which is a huge no for me) cause it was cold outside. I just feel like it keeps getting worse. The breaks become more frequent, she doesn’t respect my boundaries about it as much, she knows I don’t smoke and that I dislike it like crazy yet she sometimes even says things that indicate she wants me to smoke. I just have no interest in it and even though I’m not going to give into it, it’s just starting to get to me. I want to say something but she’s just going to say something like “I NEED smoke breaks.” I want to be respectful about it but at the same time I’m so sick of it. She also smokes weed but I’m much more lientent on that. The cigarettes are what’s driving me crazy. I’m 18 and I don’t have any other friends or family that smoke so I’m not sure how to handle this/what I do about it? Any advice on what boundaries I should have and how to address them without making her angry?

What shall I do if my best friend started to annoy me?

Good evening to everybody,I’m in my junior year in highschool and I have a problem with my best friend’s behavior. We’ve been best friends for 3 years (she is my classmate) and as long as I remember I loved her no matter what she did or didn’t do. However, lately has she started to annoy me.Firstly, she acts kind of naïve and stupid. I’m that person which enjoys intellectual conversations and discussions and I’m bothered we cannot talk together about these topics. She also makes a lot both grammatical and spoken-language mistakes. Besides that, she doesn’t get many jokes mostly sarcasms (which i love to use). It happens, that many have sarcastic comments towards her and she just lets it be since she didn’t understand.In addition, I am more “no-physical-contact” being, she LOVES hugging and touching people in general so she does it to me, as well. Therefore, classmates began to think we are lesbians (!), which hurts me since I’m not.First and second year of our studies she was a centre of attention in our class, but now she became an outsider. We all think, that we kind of grew up, but she didn’t.Should I wait for her to become adult? Or should I left her? This one would be a tough choice, since she now has really few friends and that fact bothers her really much - I do not want to hurt her, I still love her, she just annoys me.Thank you all for answers!E.*English is not my native language so as I mentioned grammatical mistakes before, please excuse mine.

All of my friends are starting to annoy me. Does it mean I dislike company?

I don t have much friends, I have only 4 of them actually. 1 of them is my best friend for 8 years already.
All of the 4 friends I have started to really really annoy me for the last *2 years* and I ve been hardly trying to ignore it.
But lately I ve been trying to avoid meeting with them and talking with them from reflexes.
Because they are *so* annoying that I can t even look at them.
I know people change and not all friends stay but that will be a good explanation for one friend starting to be annoying- not all.
I m starting to think that I am the one who changed and I just don t like company anymore.
Please if someone has a better explaintion and a way to deal with it I need help.

I'm starting to get really annoyed with my best friend?

You guys I really need some advice on how to deal with this. She's just really getting on my nerves like the perfect description is she's really like grinding my gears. It's like everything she says and it's usually always when we are texting. The other day she had to cancel plans because she had to help her dad on and i said "kay" but i meant it like okay, not in a bad way and this was her response: "you have some attitude with me lately and i'm getting sick of it cuz i have done nothing wrong and unlike everyone else i have been here for you through everything and i can't help when my dad asks me to do something"

and then

today i was asking her if she liked this band and this is the conversation:
Me: Do you like Iron & Wine?
Her: they're alright I guess
Me: oh, they're like one of my favorites
Her: oh not mine
Me: lol idk I just think they have some of the most beautiful songs
Her: thats good
Me: I just love acoustic music
Her: its alright


......


then

Everything I use a word I don't normally when we are texting she will point it out. Like I started saying "I dunno" instead of "idk" and she was all like "I can't get used to all these new words"

then tonight I said "yuhhh, so what's up?" and she said "you're changing so many words"


what would you do, am i crazy? is all this stuff okay and nothing? maybe i'm just delusional and it's not annoying. thank you for taking the time to read all of this. :)

My friends are really annoying me?

I have one friend who is very insecure and likes to talk about people behind their back, and then I have another friend that is way too secure and thinks that everyone loves her.

My first friend is always calling herself the ugly duckling and making pitying remarks like that. I tell her she's pretty but she just disregards it and starts insulting me and talking about other people. Once, she told me that I should never shave my head because I wouldn't even be pretty if I shaved my head. This was very random and strange, and honestly it hurt me.

My other friend is very bossy and very social. Now that we are freshman in highschool, she thinks that she is really popular. She's always saying hi to guys and being like 'so and so is my best friend.' I'm glad she is making new friends, but the other day she said that one of my guy best friends was her best friend, and then she's said "I'm like best friends with everyone!" and then giggled.
I know for a fact she hated this kid last year and was really mean to him, but is all of a sudden best friends.

Plus, she is always taking things that I say and directly saying them to other people. Like when I'm not around, she will repeat my joke that I told to her, and then I will hear about how it was so funny by these other people. I try not to let it get to me, but she is driving me nuts (she is a good person but she has some personality issues).

I just feel like I attract really bad friends because a lot of my friends are like this, and I just want a drama-free life. Both of my friends are very self-absorbed and are always talking about really shallow things like who is going out with whom and their problems. I am a quiet person, and I only have about 5 close friends. I love all of them dearly despite their flaws, but It is really starting to take its toll.

Why do all of my friends annoy me?

While keeping your currently friends close you should find new ones :)
As we grow we change, best friends move in to a different path than you and they change dramatically. You shouldn't discredit them for who they are and who they have become but you don't have to like it either. I'm 20 as well and a lot of my friends from school are drifting away because we just dno't share the same interest anymore, they "annoy" me because we're so different now when we used to be so close.
you don't want to loose contact with them but it is time to find people in your own field, and these will be the people you keep for life. Don't feel bad about it, your best friend probably feels the same about it. It's just human nature. What matters to you isn't necessarily important in her books and you need to respect that but she doesn't have to be your bestest friend anymore.

Don't let them agitate you, just let them be, accept them for who they've become and move on with your own life.
:)

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