Why am i jealous of my guy bestfriend talking to another girl?
1. most likely you are not jealous because you like him but you are afraid that you two are drifting further and further apart and if he gets a girl friend then he will not be able to hang out with you any more and be friends like you used to be ever again. or 2. You do have feelings for him deep down that you just have not really thought out enough to give him a fair chance as more than a friend. 3. you would miss the idea of someone chasing you who can't have you because it makes you feel really good about yourself to be able to be so cruel to a guy and tell him that you don't like him and keep crushing him but at the same time manipulating that fact to your advantage by making him do things for you just because you know he will because he likes you . but I think the first is most likely you don't really sound like the cruel heartless type . but stop and think about one and two really closely because if you have just been letting your self be scared this whole time to date him because you have been friends so long you don't want to ruin that then you need to give him a chance and let him know that you want to give it a shot before it's too late . If you are sure though that you cannot picture yourself with him ever then you may have to come to the realization that things with him may never go back to normal because he likes you and it may always be awkward to be around him but at the same time you need to let him move on to this new girl and not get in his way if you don't like him like that because it sounds like he likes you more than that girl he is talking to if you say anything the wrong way that makes him think for a second that he might have a chance with you he will stop talking to that other girl and continue to make things awkward with you in an attempt to try to get you to like him like he likes you if that makes since. In short just give him time if you guys are not meant to be then you will be able to be friends again someday but maybe not any time soon you just have to give him space right now. so he can get you out of his mind .
I get jealous when my girl friend talks to other guys.?
Don't look at it as jealousy then. Look at it as fear. When we are deeply in love with someone, there's always a fear to lose them. Let your gf know of your problem. Let her know your fear. Put it across in a nice tone, but don't end up in quarrels. She should reassure you on her feelings. indeed it is very wrong to restrict her from talking to guys. She needs friends too. Look at it this way, you are only 18 and there's a long way to learn about loving someone. So you gotta learn to curb such fear now. If it is so easy to love someone, you think the happiness it brings will be so great? Good luck to you. Remember communications is important between couple.
Why do I get jealous when my best friend talks to another girl?
You and your bestie go way back and this new girl is just new.Jealousy comes from insecurity. You’re feeling insecure about the possibility of loosing your bestie, and BELIEVE ME, that’s exactly what will happen if you let this feeling take hold.You stared at your phone all night, why, were you protesting? Trying to get attention? Or were you genuinely left out? Its awkward when you meet a new person for the first time but you gotta make an effort to include this girl if she’s going to be a part of your friend’s life.Feel secure, you have a good friendship, you’re sharing your friend more now, it happens. Become part of this group. You may really click with this girl if you give her the chance. If not, you may be cast aside.
Do you girls get jealous if we talk to other girls?
Personally i do get jealous if my guy talks to another girl. But its only because he was trying to reserve a girl for when we broke up so he wasnt a good guy and i just didnt trust him at all. theres really nothing to get jealous about i mean really does your girlfriend expect you to go the whole day without speaking to another girl besides her thats ridiculous.
Why do I feel jealous when my girlfriend talks to other men?
Its because you are INSECURE. And to be honest, we are all humans. So , NOTHING WRONG IN IT. ITS IN OUR NATURE. NOW how to overcome it ? How about some reverse psychology.Speak with other girls, make a strong friend circle which includes women. It will help you in the long run.Well relationship with friends or girlfriend is like investing in stock market and creating a diversified portfolio with number of stocks in different sectors instead of one particular stock. If one stock goes down other stocks can help you to cover up losses.Imaging "A" is your girlfriend with a probability of .5 of dumping you.She speaks with 5 guys on an average.You try speaking and making friends with 7 to 8 girls, to keep you on a safe diversified zone. Appreciate there ability, there intelligence, qualities but never hit on them. Girls love to have friend zoned committed guys like you. Never flirt , keep your character intact. Just never ever flirt with them!! Express at times that you miss your girlfriend, she is talking to other guys and makes you feel insecure, get some emotional comfort from your female friends. Automatically you will observe you have a space full of good female friends, and you are giving less time and space to your girlfriend. She will understand , she will miss you, she will feel insecure too. Now if she comes back its your gain, your favourite stock in which you invested have actually given you profit. Worst case - she didn't feel jealous, dumps you, goes out with another guy. Well the other stocks in your portfolio, that is your female friends who knows how honest you are when you are in a relationship will automatically come to your rescue. be a man and cry like a bitch in front of one of them, tell them how your ex has played with your feelings, at least 90% chances are there that out of those 8 girls one girl will fall for you. P.S. - often look out for proper timings, like break up of one of your female friends at the same time of your break up. Remember the 2008 recession ? Leyman brothers got bankrupt, imagine the stock market crash, just imagine how rich people are who have invested then. its similar, support and comfort each other after break up, good times are ahead. Even in relationships.
I really get jealous when my best friend talks to other girls. Is that normal?
getting jealous when your best friend talks to other people is normal in a way. Let's see here, when you give someone the status of being your best friend that means that this person is a very important person in your life (male or female) but being us humans sometimes what's ours is ours and that's where jealousy is born. Jealousy is harmful to some relationships so do control these feelings. (I know it's hard) but for the sake of your friendship/relationships do try. If your friend is of the opposite sex and you get this tight feeling in your stomach when they spend more time with other people and not you it might mean you like them. I would recommend you making sure you do, because if you do tell them that and it turns out that you got jealous just because ‘youre my best friend not their best friend’ kinda feelings. That’ll mess up your friendship, so please do be careful.i wish you the best of luck.
Why is my female friend jealous when I talk about girls?
I have a female friend who has a boyfriend, but she told me she is not happy with him. we hangout a lot and more than anyone else in her life i spend time with her. I asked her once if she wants something more than friendship and she started crying and finally said just friend. and I took it as an answer. but now days when I talk about any girl, she starts asking like, who is that girl, is she pretty? tell me more! why is she insisting on asking me these questions? why is she jealous when she told me she wants only friendship? should I try her again later?
I get jealous when my boyfriend talks to girls:( help me!!?
Okay, me and my boyfriend have been dating for 7 months, today. And he is really sweet and amazing and i love him to death. and i know i don't have to deal with the fact of him flirting with other girls, and that's not the problem at all. but the problem is, is that even when he mentions him talking to another girl, like not even flirting with them. I get very jealous and i hate it =[ because i know i can trust him with all my heart, and he can trust me. I never even talk to other guys. Ever. but like today he said, "oh i was in school and i was trying to hook my friend up with this girl and me and her were talking and she is such a slut" so it made me happy he called her a slut. but then he was like "oh and she told me she liked me shirt, and she always stares at me" and it just make me upset =[ its not him, its just these girls that make me upset. Because my boyfriend is EXTREMELY Hot and im sure every girl that walks by thinks that. But I don't know, I just shouldnt get jealous when he even brings up a girl a little bit because he can have girlfriends just like i can have guy friends. Its just hard for me to hear about girls like talking to him =[ am i being too clingy? I give him space all the time. Thank you for your help! =]
I'm suddenly jealous when my guy friend talks to other girls?
Well right off the bat it's easy to see you have some feelings for this guy. They may not be huge feelings, but still, you have some. Maybe talk to your friend and let her know your interested in him, and maybe she can hint about it when she is with him in class (only tell her if you feel comfortable telling her and if she is a trustworthy friend) If you think your even the tiniest bit interested in this guy make your move. Make your feelings a bit more obvious considering most guys are oblivious when a girl is flirting with him. I don't think you should worry about the two of them starting to talk, i mean they will be sitting next to each other for awhile and it is only natural for them to get acquainted, you don't want to come off as possessive already. Keep your eyes open during class, maybe he misses you to and sneaks peeks at you during class. Make sure to smile if he does. If you guys both have back to back classes why not walk with him to the next class? (if you don't already) stay optimistic and don't let this other girl get to you, and if she does just remember you have him for two classes :) good luck, i hope everything works out!
Why do I feel jealous when my male best friend talks to other girls, even though we are only best friends but are very close?
Gurl, who you think your fooling.Honey, I'm a stranger on the internet who knows nothing about you or your situation and even I can see what's going on here.YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO HIM!‘Best Friends’ means the two of you get along really closely, but in a totally platonic way, yes?Is it outside the realm of possibility that some part of you is interested in doing away with the platonic part?You might not even be aware of it, you might know but are lying to yourself, but given the amount of information given, it strikes me as a reasonable assumption.Here's the best advice I, someone who doesn't know you, doesn't wanna know you, and is definitely not qualified to be giving advice, can give you.Think about him. Reexamine your relationship with him.I hate to post this, but I mustSearch your feelings, and accept them.THEN decide what to do next.If you want to stay friends and nothing more, suppress these feelings. If you want to pursue a relationship of a different sort, embrace these feelings.BUT DO NOT DENY THAT THEY EXIST.Jealousy is a bad thing. Jealousy for something not yours can lead to envy.Imagine if one of these girls became his girlfriend, how would you feel then?Think it over. That's the best I can do for you.