If a guy likes you why would he try to set you up with his friend?
I'd say he did it to see if you like him or not. Guy's logic is pretty simple when it comes to girls. Look at it like this: Guy tries to set you up with friend and you agree = He automatically thinks you like his friend and not him. Guy tries to set you up with friend and you disagree = He automatically thinks he might still have a chance since you might not like his friend. See?
A guy I work with is trying to play cupid and set me up with his friend, telling him to take me to dinner in front of me, but I'm asexual and idk if the friend actually likes me. Should I just say I'm not interested?
He might see something about the two of you that you might not be seeing yourself. He might know something about him that you do not, something that might make him a match for you. Finally, it would be impossible for someone to “like” you if they haven't even spent any time with you to get to know anything about you.You also seem to be under the impression that if you go on a date with him you will have to have sex. I know this is the current trend. Dating for many people today has become little more making appointments to f@ck.But at one time people dated as a way to spend time with each other, talking, enjoying activities together and getting to know if they are a good match for each other. You can date without having sex.It certainly is your choice in the end. If you don't want to date then don't. You might be able to find a match for you even as an asexual. You may find another asexual or you may find someone with whom you don't mind doing it for their sake, as an act of love, even if you don't get much out of it yourself.But if you never give dating a chance you never will find your match.
My friend wants to set me up with a guy....?
One of my friends told me she found the perfect guy for me and is trying to set me up with one of her and her husband's friends. He is like an acquaintance of mine because he is friends with my friends husband. The last time I saw him (last year) he was in a relationship. I didn't have any idea he was in a relationship but when I did meet him and speak with him I felt an instant connection. I assumed a wonderful guy like that would be taken and come to find out he was. I never said anything to my friend and have gone on several dates and not thought much about it since. My friend told me today that she had told him to let her know if he was single to try to set him up with me. They saw him yesterday at a ballgame and he came up to them and said "hey, I'm now single." I think he is the cutest guy and I got so excited when they told me but I am nervous because I am waiting and all these emotions are going through my mind. I know I shouldn't be so worried over it, but this guy really would be a great guy to date and I feel it's so hard to find a guy like that these days, plus I haven't dated anyone for 3 years. He is kind and educated and I find him very attractive, personality included. We are both 27 and I have all these doubts going through my mind. I know I shouldn't think this way or get down, but I just don't want to get excited and then nothing to happen. I am worried if he isn't interested that it won't ever be mentioned again just to avoid hurting my feelings. Should I ask my friend or wait and see if anything happens?! What are your thoughts? I figured he wouldn't let her know he was single if he wasn't ready to move on and at least a little interested, but I could just be wishfully thinking!
Help! The girl I like is trying to hook me up with her friend!?
So I've been flirting with this girl for the past week or so and now she's trying to get me to start talking to her friend. I know that her friend likes me because she always looks at me in school and all that jazz. I wouldn't mind being friends with the girl but I just don't think I like her like that. I'm kind of crushing on her friend that wants me to talk to her though! What shall I do?
Can a guy care for a girl as a friend but still try to hook up with her?
Certainly.Caring for someone and treating them as an individual with kindness and respect & wanting to have sex with them are not mutually exclusive. They can exist at the same time.They may not necessarily want to have a romantic commitment, though.What you describe is not only possible but ever-present.How the person feels exactly cannot be told to you by anyone on Quora. You’d have to talk to the person directly to know how they feel and what they want.
A friend tried to set me up, but before a date was set I met another guy and really liked him. As I had already agreed to the date, I decided I'd go (as I knew no harm - nothing would come of it) but the second guy found out and consequently won't speak to me, what should I do?
Your task in dating is to find out what the persons program/patterns are to see if they are acceptable to you. He seems to have over reacted so you have your answer. It's exposed his style. Do you want to live that way because it will happen with him in other arenas of life too. I would suggest you don't. Especially in light of his way of dealing with what he doesn't like is to punish others by taking his ball and going home, leaving everyone else on thefild to just stand there. It is an awful way of fighting. We call it cheating.
My friend wants to hook me up with this guy i like but i cant have a boyfriend. what do i do?
there's this guy i liked since last year and my friend wants to hook me up with him when i'm not allowed to have a boyfriend. my mom wont approve and i kno i dont have to tell her but, it's hard 4 me 2 lie to my mom. should i go out or just stay friends??