Is it possible to get my ex-girlfriend back after 4 months of no contact?
I’ve got my ex back after 8 MONTHS! EIGHT! And I was a desperate case.Every single person was telling me to move on and release this feelings, still I didn’t listen to anyone and I’ve got what I knew was not finished.If you have done the no contact that’s a good thing, and I guess you’re the one who has been dumped and I’ll also tell you that it’s a good thing. Normally whoever was dumped will find a way to get better by doing things for him self, this it’s called self surviving!In the 4th month you’re probably struggling between moments of feeling normal again by yourself and moments of extreme desperation of wanting her back to feel hole again. That’s normal. Or the worst scenario you’re accepting the relationship it’s over and you’re suffering like there is no tomorrow ( but if you’re here on Quora, it means you’re not ready to let go).Now what I can tell you from my personal experience:-if you 2 had a strong relationship, one of the 2 will fall and contact the other one, if there is still resentment and anger, 4 months are NOT enough.-If she moved on to the next one it’s even better, soon the new relationship will reveal its falls and she’ll come contact you ( somehow) as soon as this will happen. Than it’s gonna be your time to reject. Rejection normally attracts people!Good luck! You’ll be fine in any way!
Why do exes initiate contact after months of silence?
The ex that makes contact after months of silence misses you. They want to know that you are still a part of their life- albeit in a very limited capacity. People contact their exes because they need to know that someone they once cared about very deeply is doing good.Here is a huge surprise to many and a disappointment to most, just because your ex contacted you; it does not mean they want you back! People reach out for many reasons- nostalgia, loneliness, drunk, just got dumped. They are reaching out to have you tell them how much you miss them in these moments for a quick lift me up. Yes, it is all about THEM and yes people are that shallow.Your ex has no intention of getting back with you, they want to get back to you making them feel good about themselves without all that commitment shit that screwed up the relationship the first time. They are using you to bridge the gap in the peak and flow of life.Exes reach out, stay in contact for a few months then drift away again. They will do this over and over again until they find a new person that gives them their much needed ego boost. You are just a pawn in their chess game. Expendable and safe to risk.I know many will argue that this is incorrect because there are lots of instances where people get back together after months. It is true, but for that to happen, someone has changed. The initial contact was not to get back together.If when they make contact, you are fundamentally a better person than when they left you, it is possible that they will become atttracted to you and want you back. If that is your goal, begin the process of bettering oneself the minute you break up and wait for that day they contact you and realize you are not the disposable pawn they thought you were.
Should i text her after 4 months of no contact?
Hi, i started seeing this girl at christmas in 2012, we were seeing eaxh other for about 3 weeks until she said she wasn't ready for a relationship. however after this she was texting me about once a week for a month after we broke up. I was in bits as she was pretty much perfect for me and i really did like her a lot, and i mean a lot! She even asked me if i wanted to go for drinks after the breakup but when i text her she just seemed to make excuses. I finally managed to organise a meet up with her but there wa no affection there when i went round to see her and i thought that was that, but she still text me again asking how i was etc and telling me what she had been up to. This was the last time i heard from her and it was nearly 4 months ago! i still have feelings for her, and i am still friends with her on facebook but there has been no contact with her for 4 months! I have also run into her a couple of times and handled the situation awfully by avoiding her the first time and on the second occasion she crossed the road to get away from me, but again i got a few facebook likes from her even after that. The bottom line is i'm very confused. I care about her deeply but don't know how to move on or whether i should contact her after such a long time of not speaking to her. If it was possible i would like to be friends with her or even start something up with her again. I think about her all the time so what do i do?
Why did this guy contact me after 3 months of no talking?
So I met this guy from a dating site back in December. I felt comfortable with him, so I stayed the weekend with him though it wasn't intended as that at first. He even bought all my food that weekend even though I insisted I had money. I left and he told me to let him know when I'd be in town again cause I was planning on moving back to the area soon for a job. I didn't have a job at that point in the area, but I was looking (I ended up getting a job a month later). I didn't really hear from him much after that. He im'ed me briefly on Facebook and we talked for about 2 mins, and I told him not to be such a stranger. 3 months later he pokes me on Facebook. 3 months of no talking what-so-ever. No "hi, how are you doing?" Nothing. So I'm like, okay, wtf? I honestly thought I'd never hear from him again. I message him and say, long time no talk. He messages me back and says, "I know, what the hell! How's it been going?" so I reply and say surely he isn't surprised that it's been so long since we've talked cause he just kinda stopped talking to me. Then I told him how I was. I noticed back in January this girl was leaving messages on his wall saying how she loved spending time with him and loved him, etc. I'm pretty sure it's his ex. Though his facebook has said single the whole time. I'm just not sure why he would decide to contact me after all this time. When I did visit him there was nothing sexual. Never kissed, held hands or anything. I even slept in the same bed as him and nothing happened. He had even offered to sleep on the couch. So no one can say "he wants a booty call" cause that's not the case. It's not even like we were super close friends and he wanted to get back in touch with me. I knew the dude for about 2-3 weeks. I expect most guys to just blow you off and never talk to you again, though his actions confuse me. So I'm sitting here thinking, why me?
Why after 6 months does my ex suddenly contact me?
Dear Amy Love doesn't just stop in mid air when you dissolve a relationship. It takes time to either process it or transform it to something else. maybe he still loves you and miss you. This doesn't mean that he wants to restart your previous relationship. He might be in the process of finally letting go of you. The fact that he is with another girl, doesn't imply that he is without pain or doubt. the important thing is YOU at this point. Are YOU ready to have contact again? Are YOU going to hurt if this contact turns out different to your current hopes and expectations? Firstly protect your heart, before making any decisions. Good luck!
Ex-GF left me for her best guy friend, how do I get her back?
I became really insecure over the past 6 months and she finally broke up with me on christmas eve. She told me she wanted to see what its like to date other people. Well she's been seeing this other guy that is "just a friend" for the past 4 months and now they are dating. I talked to her on the phone and we are friends again, kind of. She already noticed that I have realized my flaws and have really been trying to fix them, but she won't admit that she doesn't want to get back with me down the road when the changes in me are much more solid. How do I get her to be interested and fall in love with me all over again?
My boyfriend is MARRIED and his WIFE won't leave me alone?!!?
Started seeing this guy who is married(at the time I had no idea) He had been trying to get a divorce but she doesn't want one(they have NO kids together) She contacted me Friday called me a *****, a home wrecker, and everything else and now wont leave me alone. What do I do??...They were married 3 months, he and everyone else knows that he doesn't want to be with her.