I want a good friend. I need someone who can help me grow. I want a friend who acts as my teacher me as well. Does such person exist?
Well, there is a difference between a GOOD friend and a TRUE friend. I guess, we all need at least one TRUE friend. And to answer your question, yes, you can definitely find one.The TRUEst friend you will ever get is LIFE itself. You just have to keep yourself open towards failures and learn from it and fight back. It teaches you the best things in your life, just you have to stay positive and be open-minded.So even if you are all alone, don’t worry, LIFE will guide you through your good and tough times ~ Just keep holding on…
My friend had her first kiss. NEED HELP!?
Oh my gosh. Don't do that to yourself. There is this saying, "Just because everyone else is doing it, doesn't mean you have to, too..." And you're probably thinking, "that's so lame," but it really isn't. Just because your friends have all had their first kiss, doesn't mean you need to have yours too. It will all come at the right time, and when it does-you'll be glad you waited. My first kiss was so weird. It wasn't a mistake, but it felt pretty gross. Once you find that one person to kiss-it should feel just right. As for your friend, maybe try bringing up a new topic so she will stop talking about it. Or if that doesn't work-be mature and tell her straight up that it's bothering you...of course be nice about it. Sometimes excitment gets the best of us.
I need help with a best friend?
Everyone, i really need all of your help, PLZ ! I have a best friend named Hannah. She's pretty and nice, if someone can plz put a poem THEY made not someone famous, that would be awesome! PLZ HELP ME!!! she will actually like me if i do!
I am always there for my friends but when I need help, I realize there is no one around. Why is that?
When your friends talk about their problems, you are willing to help. You offer your help. When you are having problems, you may mention them, and no one offers to help. You may not ask for help. Most people don't think to offer help. Most people also don't think to ask for help. When people ask for help, it's ok to say no if you don't want to help. When you ask for help, understand that no one is obligated to say yes. When you help people, you are internally keeping score. You are thinking that this person now owes you. And when you need help you expect them to repay the debt. The fact is, you offer to help with no strings attached. The fact that you do have strings attached and you don't mention it makes you a really untrustworthy person. I would not want you as a friend.
Why am I always the one helping others and when I need someone nobody comes for me?
I have the exact same problem. I give money, driving, time, labour, friendship, work, DIY, chores, everything. Yet no one will lift a finger in return.I think its a mental illness, we do not have doctors that can diagnose if people have this problem. I do not like people doing anything for me anyway. I do not like feeling like i have to owe someone. I help others, but if i need help back its never done. I think society is set up like this. The problem is highlighted when person after person do not do anything.I tried to describe how it feels. Its like pushing a grand piano up a mountain, the moment you let go its straight back to the bottom.Empathy is very rare now. Look at world leaders and the wars, this would not be possible if there was empathy. I think the system is designed on greed. We get lured into wanting more and more things. People work hard. People are desperate to pay their rent, we are not allowed to live freely “off the grid”, so we all must work to pay the bills. There is no room left for empathy. Even in the bible its was said over and over that greed and money lenders are the root of the problem.When no one else helps anymore, then you have to take care of yourself. I think a ”recession” is where in society everyone has asked the next person for their help ideas and no one wants to do it anymore.If you feel hurt by others being pathetic, then just look after yourself. Never put others in charge of things that need to be done, If you handle it best then leave it your own reliable hands. The problem is where you expect others to come in their own accord.You have to assume the least of others and when certain people come wanting to do more then keep them in your life. Its that initial want from others that you are looking for.It does hurt when you make 99% of the puzzle,and that person cant be bothered to put the last piece in.So just step back, keep your money to yourself, enjoy taking care of your self, respecting yourself.
I always help my friends but when I need help, nobody is available. How can I make peace with myself?
Have a talk with yourself. “Self,” you say, “why do you keep helping these people out?” Keep at it until you find the real answer.The thing about lending aid to anyone is this:You can do so without self-suffering. In polite terms, I’m not going to skip going to the dentist so my good buddy can go out drinking Friday night. Put yourself and your own house in order and keep it that way before you lift a finger for anyone else.Don’t expect anything by way of gratitude. If I go and lend some help to anyone, no matter who, I do not expect a thing in return. They may thank me, they may not, but I expect nothing.Be sure of your motivation. If you help someone, be very certain of your motivation for doing so. Mostly it should be because you are able, and it’s a small thing to you. It may have a tremendous impact on their life, but to you it should be just another event.As for asking anyone else for help, don’t do it. Be self-sufficient, always. Otherwise you’re likely to end up with a group of strangers in your back yard, drinking your beer, swimming in your pool, and chowing down on your barbecue - and all you really know about these fine folk is that one of them helped you jump start your car last winter.
My friend needs brain surgery, but has no insurance. I NEED HELP!!!!?
I have a friend who got into a very bad skateboarding accident. He spent a week & a half in a coma. When he came out of it, he had amnesia, which lasted another week. Even though he was bleeding from his nose and ears, the doctors sent him home because he had no insurance. He was finaly able to convince them there was something wrong with him since he can't hear & his vision is failing, did I mention he was bleeding from his face? And the hospital set him up to have surgery with a specialist, but the day of the surgery, the doctor sent him home because he has no insurance. Now he's at home, can hardly move, and he's getting worse. He is dieing. Is there anyone who can help me find someone to do the surgery he needs to save his life? And who gets to say the man with money gets to live, but the one who cant afford it has to die? I thought people became doctors to help sick people, not tell them to go home and die because they have no money. I mean, as a doctor, how do you look someone in the eye and tell them you are going to let him die because he can't pay you? What is this world coming to?