If she literally friendzoned me then why did she get jealous when I said her friend was attractive, even when she gave no prior signs to liking me at all?
Cut her off, you have enough friends all of whom you are ignoring in your pursuit of ass/ltr/whatever - you shouldn't say everything here aloudBasically, either cut her off altogether or treat her as a friend low on the priority list either way, if she reacted like to that…she'll change her mind about you being a friendI pulled the same move and a very short time late I see her and she says, “I feel horny”That was thatA little more complicated - stay “friends” and whenever you're out hit on the friend, ask about the friend “is hottie coming”If you are alone and she gets jealous, make a moveTested, tried, trueMore theoretical, I'm sure it would work. The only thing is that it is better when they make the first move
Is it wrong to get jealous when my girlfriend told me she is hanging out with her guy friend?
Well, I don’t know if it is totally wrong to be jealous. Here in the United States it is viewed as okay to have friends of the opposite sex; I am sure that their are men and women friendships that are so. But let me tell you with experience and ask you this question: Can men and women really be friends? Now I am sure many people will say “Of course!” Through my experience, out of all the male and female friendships that I have witnessed in my lifetime, either the man or the woman harbored feelings or had other motives in that friendship. For example, my ex had a bunch of guy friends and there were two who she was especially close to. One was engaged and the other single. I never said anything because here in the United States it is considered bad to be jealous and you will be viewed as insecure. Anyway, guess who she is engaged to now? If she was smart and really cared about you.. she would bring you along. But by all means stay cool, calm and collective. Don’t freak out. In the worst case scenario…If she does have something with this guy, you will know sooner or later. Remember, you can’t force anything or change someone. What is meant to be will be. But there is one thing you can do in this situation and you will have to wait a few weeks. Because if you do it now, it will be obvious to your girlfriend and she will just say you are being insecure and possessive bla bla bla. In 3 weeks, nonchalantly tell her you are going out with a friend who is a girl to a concert. Now, try to make sure you can find a friend and really do this. We definitely don’t want you to be lying because that is not good. Many people will say this is wrong or manipulative, but you will find out many things about your girlfriend and all her double standards. If she has a problem with this, tell her: “Why is it okay for you to have a guy friend and I can’t have a friend who is girl?” If this is the case, I would really reevaluate your relationship with this girl.
Why did my female friend get jealous when I spoke to my other female friend? (Details below)
You clearly, my friend, are confused and have whole right to be. Given the details I think this is happening:You both are in long distance relationship. Verify whether she really loves her boyfriend or not.If she does love her bf: She thinks of you as her best guy friend and if you are bringing another girl into picture (even if she is just a friend) then she feels that if you get closer to this another friend she will be replaced. She will lose someone important and let me tell you, we girls fear getting replaced the most. She is not ready to risk what you guys have. Solution? Tell her time and again ( and show it too!) that she is very important to you and you fear losing her. She will always be a priority even if you are making new friends. Show her how important she is to you.If you find she has started losing interest in her bf: She may have started getting feelings for you. Solution? Best way is to ask her directly in a non threatening manner.You are saying she said she can share you with your gf but not this another friend. It means that , as your gf came into your life before her she has that right and also because she keeps you happy. Now as this new friend has come after her, she is having problem digesting the fact that even though you have her, you find the need to make another close friend…again fear of getting replaced/ losing you. That's what I think.These are just assumptions. Best way to know would be ask her in a soft , heart to heart talk.Hope this helps you fellow quoran!
My best friend got jealous when I hang out with other people,what do I do?
Whenever I talk to other people she gets mad, she has other friends too. whenever she goes and talks to them, I don't get jealous. I invited her to hangout with a mutual friend and she decided not to go and then she turns back on me saying that I never invited her places with my other friends which isn't true. Then after we had a argument, I was talking to other friends and I heard her yell my name so I look back but my 'best friend' turned her head away from me and so I decided to keep talking to my other friends and then she walks up to me and says "so you're ignoring me now." its like she is just trying to make it seem like im a bad friend when i tried to save this friendship before. She has told another friend of mine to lose all contact with me. why is she doing stuff like this?
Why is my female friend jealous when I talk about girls?
I have a female friend who has a boyfriend, but she told me she is not happy with him. we hangout a lot and more than anyone else in her life i spend time with her. I asked her once if she wants something more than friendship and she started crying and finally said just friend. and I took it as an answer. but now days when I talk about any girl, she starts asking like, who is that girl, is she pretty? tell me more! why is she insisting on asking me these questions? why is she jealous when she told me she wants only friendship? should I try her again later?
Is my friend jealous of me cuz i have a college degree and she doesnt? can friends get jealous of you 4 that??
My friend said my philosophy degree is worthless and she also said i was retarded. im beginning to hate this witch and i will ditch her as my friend soon. But I'm just curious why she would act so hateful to me when i always compliment her and I am a good friend?
I am jealous because my friend is always hanging out with my boyfriend. What should I do?
My friend said he gave her a card that says he likes her but everytime I ask him he says he doesnt. On Friday my friend told me him and her were behind an umbrella on the bleachers but were doing nothing. But they are always hanging out with eachother and I am really jealous. He never gets to call me because she calls him. One time he said he was going to call me but he never did. Then Kimberly (the girl that is always hanging with him) called me and said she just got off the phone with him. So he never gets to call because of her. Sometimes I dont like Kimberly. I am mad at her right now. Sometimes I wish she could move. That is how jealous I get.
She wants to be friends but she gets jealous... What gives?
I've known this girl for about a year. We are really close friends. She knows how I feel about her but she has told me no more times than I care to count. She wants to be around me 24/7. She's not going out with other guys. She does text her old boyfriends from time to time, but they live in a different state. She used to let me mess around with her a little bit and that hasn't been happening lately, I think probably because it just makes me want to date her more. She has no problem with me paying for her dinners and driving her around, etc... but when I am in a bind and need a ride or something, it's the end of the world to get the same from her. For instance my truck broke down and I had to call her like 10 times before she would come give me a ride to class, I almost had to call another classmate, and we live like 5 minutes from each other. Sometimes she acts like she's embarrassed by me, for instance not wanting people to take a picture of us together. This really only touches the surface. But given all this I've been starting to feel like I've been getting played and kept around as a backup until she finds something better. So lately I've been making her foot her own bills for food, etc... and I've neglected to give her a ride a few times. She also wanted me to get a dog with her and I wanted a dog too, but I recently told her if she wanted to get a dog she could and I would watch it for her and help her with it if she needed, but I wasn't going to pay for any of it. I also recently went out with another girl. Her reaction to all of this is downright jealousy... She acts like she's depressed if I tell her I have other plans. She gets angry if I tell her we aren't riding together to class on a particular day. She tells me I'm backing out on her when I tell her I can't afford to help her pay for a dog that's really her dog in the first place. And recently in order to try and get what she wants she's been more flirty with me and is being a little nicer to me than her normal demeanor. 1. Am I being used/played? 2. Why does she get jealous when I go out with someone else despite the fact she's turned me down multiple times? 3. Should I take her recent kindness as genuine or should I take it as she's just trying to get me back to being her boyfriend without benefits again?