Girl Thinks I am Stalking Her?
This friend (girl) cheated on another friend (boy) and everyone hated her, so I decided to be nice to her, I talked to her since nobody would talk to her, later people started talking to her and I decided to keep talking to her because she seemed nice. I still was nice to her. Later, she was really bogus and saying I was planning on raping her and she wants to get the police involved. I don't want to date this girl. The thing is I already have a girlfriend. I called her out on being a jerk and she said "You shouldn't be a dick just because I wouldn't have sex with you!" This pissed me off so much I wanted to call her a ***** but I didn't because I grow up in a household where women should be treated with utmost respect. She can be really nice some days but when someone brings up dating that's not even about me or her she says "Oh, yeah, this ***** wanted to have sex with me and I wanted to get the police involved. My friends say I should do something back to her to embarrass her. I am trying my best not to hate her because I am trying to be the bigger and mature person. I don't want to respond to her with hate or yell at her because she's sensitive and will go berserk if you do the slightest thing. Any advice on what I could do?
What do i do if a girl i like thinks i'm stalking her?
Basically, We were both in the same class in high school, she's a couple years younger than me. We were really good friends in High school, used to talk every day, talk to each other at lunch and used to talk for hours online. I graduated, and had so much course load, i did not get a chance to talk to her for more than year. I finally talked to her a couple times when i found her on facebook, but that was deleted almost immediately. A few weeks back without even meeting her for over a year, i felt i liked her. So i talked to a friend and asked her if she can ask get me her contact info. thats when i found out that this girl feels i stalked her. even though, i havent met her in 2 years, and talked only a couple times on facebook, and a couple times i asked her friend about why she deleted her facebook. this was almost 6 months ago. what do i do? how do i fix this? its wierd situation. because i cant talk to her, because i'm worried that would make me look worse.
How do I apologize to my friend who thinks that I am stalking them?
I would first consider why your friend thinks you are stalking him/her. Such a thought usually requires behavior on your part that someone might consider creepy—namely being places that are personal to him/her, where you normally aren’t, especially on a too frequent basis. Then, feeling the need to apologize, you should write a single message, whether on paper or via social media, expressing your genuine regret for making him/her uncomfortable, followed by your promise to stay away from him/her from this point on. Last, keep that promise. Don’t go near his/her home, workplace, or favorite hang-out spots. Don’t contact him/her. If you happen to cross paths somewhere, don’t go near him/her, wave, say anything to/about him/her, etc. If you see him/her watching you, a simple nod of silent respect is enough. I would also suggest having friends with you in public, whenever possible, just to avoid any misunderstandings if you do happen to cross paths.
I am friends with a girl. We are in the same school. We don't talk that much. After school when she goes to the main road for catching a bus, I also go to that road. She thinks that I am following her or stalking her, but I am not. How can I prove her wrong and be friends again?
You said you two are friends. If that's true, why don't the two of you walk together ? Assuming you're not that close to her yet, you can at least talk to her in school. Just initiate a conversation, talk about some school/studies related thing. Once you get a little comfortable talking to her, you can then try to walk with her after school, and do mention that your way falls on that road. Chances are, she won't have a problem. If she does, and expresses it in some manner, it clearly means she doesn't want you around her that much. In this case, back off and giver her her space. After all, you've made your point that you're not stalking and you simply happen to share the way.
This girl thinks I'm stalking her, please help me!!?
So I've liked this girl for many months now, but I wasn't sure if she felt the same way because I thought she liked this other guy (he doesn't like her). But a few months ago, one of my guy friends (and a close friend of hers) said something to me about why am i stalking this girl. TBH i did frequently go to her profile on social media pages, but I don't know how she could know. She never talked to me about it, but I want to talk to her. It might give her a better impression of me if I do, and we might become better friends (she might respect me for being straight-forward). I know this conversation will be awkward, but I've faced worse. How should I do this conversation and what should I say? Please help me with advice, it might help me get past this road block. High school
Why do girls think im a stalker?
well maybe you talk to random girls when you don't really know them? or you watch them and it makes them feel uncomfortable? idk, that's all i can think of.
Do boys get stalked? How does it feel to be stalked by a girl?
Yeah boys get stalked too. The guy who I saw getting stalked was my best freind. His name is Devesh.There is nothing amazing in being stalked,it weirds out and makes boys uncomfortable too, just like girls.Devesh and I went to the same coaching in 12th std. There was a girl in our class. Let's call her A. In the first two-three months of our class A would sometimes ask me about Devesh because I had known him for the past two years and she knew we were friends. She was extremely subtle about it and I did not get any hint that she liked him. After a while she told me she had a crush on him. Now he is an amazing guy so I thought that it was highly possible for a girl to have a crush on him. In the beginning I even teased Devesh about it. Whenever the results were out she would always check out his results first and then go and tell him. When he would stand near the bulletin to see the schedule she would always go and stand next to him. She would keep staring at him in class. All this had started to make Devesh a little uncomfortable and he shared this with me. So I decided to tell her to stop staring at him as it weirded him out. After that she stopped that, but she would keep stalking him on facebook. Once she heard me and him talking about going out with our friends to some place. She came and asked me about the date and I thought she was just trying to make conversation so I told her. And on that day we found her at that place. By this time it had become really awkward for him and he had started feeling extremely uncomfortable. So I confronted her and told her firmly this time "If being stalked by a boy makes you feel uncomfortable, don't be a hypocrite by making a boy uncomfortable by stalking him". I even told her that a girl stalking a boy is a crime too, and that Devesh can file a complaint against you, so just stop it.It was only after this that she stopped it. So being stalked is never a wonderful feeling, it is always creepy ,no matter who stalks who.
How can I tell a girl I'm stalking that I stalk her because I don't have the guts to talk to her?
Stalking as well as being creepy is also Illegal. You may not want to continue that method.In the future just go up to her and talk. What in the world are you actually afraid of? All she can say is NO. Or if she knows you’re a creepy stalker she may call you a creep and warn her friends. Stop stalking, women really aren’t that vicious. In my life I have approached more women than you will ever meet most likely and I can say they have ALWAYS been nothing more than men without penises. They might call you creepy, or ugly, or laugh at you but so what? What did that hurt? Your feelings? Suck it up, you’re going to see MUCH worse rejection in life than from women. Jobs? Housing? Community? Man there is so much rejection out there. Women will actually touch your weener. It’s a 50/50 each time you ask. YES / NO go for it if she says no ask 500 more, handle it like a boss. Shake it off and go find your love.
How to apologize to a girl, who thinks you are stalking her?
heyy umm, i'm sorry i don't normally ask this but how old are you? this could greatly affect your next course of action! also when you say that you MISTAKENLY told her she was attractive did you mean that you don't think that she is and you said it, or that you accidentally said it twice? ok, so it kinda sounds like your in HS if so: just build up your courage and go talk to her! just calmly explain that you are NOT stalking her and that you are sorry that you gave that impression. make it clear to her that you just think that she is attractive but that you are NOT stalking her. it was a compliment not a threat or anything sinister so be sure that she understands that. if you are not in HS maybe college?: use caution when approaching her do it preferably when she is with her friends. (note: don't dwaddle! just go up! dwaddling could be misinterpreted as lurking. build up your courage BEFOREHAND and just go up to her!) after you approach her and get her attention just do what i've mentioned above. if she doesn't want to "believe" you or merely brushes you off. leave her. if shes that either stuck up or insecure to INSIST that your stalking her? well, let her. who cares? let your friends and everyone else know what's going on and let her wallow in her delusional fantasies! it's not your fault! the fact that she's going around telling people that you're stalking her after you merely telling her that you find her attractive is cause for some concern...i have a feeling that she is just using you as an excuse to seem cool or desirable to her friends. hey, you can only do what you can do and if she wants to continue in her charade there isnt really anything that you can do to stop her. go up to her, apologize, and just let what comes come! as long as your friends know what's going on it really doesnt matter what her and her friends think! good luck! ;) if i can be of any more help to you just let me know! :)