My friend's dad keeps flirting with me. Should I tell my friend?
I was staying the night at my best friend's house and we were watching Netflix when she fell asleep on the couch. I kept watching and her dad came and sat next to me. He was talking like normal but then he asked if I was cold. I said a little not thinking anything about it and he picked me up and sat me on his lap and held me to his chest. I tried to wiggle away but he told me to stop or it would "give him a problem" to have me bouncing around in his lap. My friend stayed asleep but her dad kept rubbing my sides and hips. I thought if I pretend to be asleep he would go away so I did that but I heard where he called my name a few time to make sure I wasn't awake. And then he started kissing me I didn't do anything because I was afraid he would be mad if he knew I wasn't asleep. After he kissed me he left and i decided to really go to sleep. I was angry and wanted to tell my friend because that was my first kiss and he is married so I knew it wasn't right but she had just told me how her parents were doing really well and haven't been arguing. I don't know what to do. I go over to her house ever weekend and this has never happened before so maybe it won't happen again and he was just not thinking well that night. Idk help?
My friend's dad really made me feel uncomfortable?
I have no idea what to think of this right now. I just came back from my friend's house. I've been friends with her for about two years. I'm 14, and she is 13. I don't go to her house alont because it's always really loud there. But I went today. I stayed there for a few hours, but I had to go home because they had church. I called my dad to ask him if he could pick me up, but he was working so he couldn't. My friend's dad offered to take me home. But my friend stayed at her house to get ready for church. We started talking when I got in the car. He was asking me if I was exited for school, of course I lied and said "of course, school is really important to me.". Then he asked me if I was just excited to see the boys again. I just laughed it off. Then he pushed my skirt up a little and started rubbing my thighs. He said I had really soft skin. I didn't really know what to do, I was afraid of getting him mad because I was alone with him. So I just didn't say anything, but he just rubbed my thigh all the way here. It was just really uncomfortable. I mean, I'm not even ok with guys my age do that, much less ok with an adult do that. It freaked me out! I am definitely not going back to her house! Why would he do that anyways? I'm just a little pissed right now. I know it wasn't so out of line, but I don't think it's normal for guys (especially guys his age) to do that. Should I talk to anyone about this? I mean, it's not that bad so maybe it's not even worth saying anything. And it's not like if I'm going to be around him anymore. But I don't know, it still seams strange to me, and it is bothering me. Should I say anything at all? Or should I just let it go and forget about it?
My friend ran away and stayed with me overnight?
She told her dad and asked but he didn't respond. So she just left and I met her and we walked to my house. She texted her sister saying she was safe. My parents knew that she stayed with us. We went to school the next day and when she got home her dad asked who she stayed with and she said nothing. He said that he's going to find out who she stayed with and get his parents in trouble. I'm really scared and I'm wondering what the consequences are although we took her out of a situation where she felt unsafe. Her dad is a child molester but he always persuades the officials otherwise so he doesn't get in trouble with this but has in the past but not with his children now. I hate what she has to go through so I tried to help but now I feel as if I have wronged. She wants me to "adopt her". Could my dad get in trouble or if we all say that I snuck her in could I get in trouble?
Was my friend's dad hitting on me?
I've hung out at my freind's house since we were in middle school. He doesn't have a mother but I knew his father pretty well. I've stayed the night at his house and nothing has ever happened so i don't know if I'm just making something outta nothing. I am visiting from my university out of town for the winter break. I went to visit my friend but he wasn't home so his dad let me wait for him there. We were talking about school and it was normal. But then his dad just brought up that he had a dream that he had sex with me the other night. I didn't respond and he just laughed it off. I don't know was he bringing it up just as conversation or was he trying to flirt?
My dog just died:::pls. help?
Oh Sweety, I'm so very sorry. I can imagine how badly you feel. I've been there several times and it's never easy. I think if you wanted to stay home from school tomorrow, your mom and dad would both understand. You need time to grieve and time to cry. I've had to to work crying over a dog once and wish I would have stayed home. It's not east. Cry all want. I know that this is easy for me to say, but try to remember the good times and the happy memories you had with your dog. Your dog will live forever in your heart and she will always hold a special there. For now, you must also remember that your dog isn't suffering and she's probable with the dogs that I've had who are waiting for me at the Rainbow Bridge and that they are all playing and running around together until we see them again. I'm going to give you some links that hopefully will help you through this difficult time. The first two links are for The Rainbow Bridge and the others are sites where you can place a free memorial for your dog. Again, my sincere condolences.
Home alone with verbally abusive dad?
Hey everyone, my dad is really emotionally/verbally abusive to me. He stopped talking to me for like 6 months because I defended my mom because he was yelling at her. It is complicated. We are talking now but not really. It is a on a "Hi", "Bye", basis, but we aren't back to normal. Anyway, she is going to sweden for 2 weeks and I asked to be able to leave the house and stay somewhere else. Whenever she leaves he picks on me and finds anything he can use against me to punish me or to harass me with. It is really annoying because he intimidates me a lot, and I'm planning on just staying in my bedroom a lot. If he does put me in a situation where I feel helpless/threatened, what should I do? Bike to a friend's house? I am afraid to do that, he could call the police and say I ran away, then I'd be in juvie. I don't know what I should do if/when (probably when) he harasses me and picks on me for something trivially wrong I do.