My friend thinks she s better than me?
so i have a friend and she thinks she s so much better than me, yet im her only friend in real life. she plays minecraft all the time and only has friends online. she works in a supermarket and acts like she s rich and like she s above me because she earns money and i don t (i m in university and i want to concentrate on that) - i don t know what to do? she got kicked out of college and now acts annoyed whenever i talk about it too. do you think that she s jealous because i got through it and i now go to university? or do you think she just thinks she s better than me? i don t think i m better than her for going to uni
My girlfriend thinks she has no friends?
I've been with her for almost 4 years now, and she's never been like this before. She used to hang out with friends, but mostly me. Now she barely hangs out with them and think she has none. One doesn't have a car because it's broken, she hates one of them (so i dont know why she says they're friends), one talks to her at school but is always making excuses not to hang out, and the other one is either always actually busy or my gf just tells me that because she never asks (that's how she is). I told my girlfriend to try to get out more, but she tells me she doesn't want to. I told her that if she also would've came with me to bonfries in the fall instead of saying no and sitting at home whenever i asked, that might have helped. All she does is hang out with me anymore, like she doesn't even try now. I can't hang out with her today because I have a meeting at work, and tomorrow night and Saturday i have to work. What am I supposed to do?
My friend thinks she's ugly, how do I help her?
Please tell your friend that according to the bible, God's holy word, “we are fearfully and wonderfully made.” She must know that she is very beautiful. She is unique. Besides, true beauty comes from the inside. There are many persons who are said to be beautiful on the outside but they are unkind, manipulative, disrespectful to others, etc. These people are not truly beautiful. Besides, the beauty that we all are on the outside will fade one day and our true beauty that is on the inside is what will last. Remind her of all the great qualities she has and tell her that that is the reason why she is beautiful.
Eccentric friend. Is that the reason she has no friends?
She's an eccentric girl. Geeky too. Sometimes gets excited too much and says and does the most random things. A bit airheaded. Because of this she really has no friends, except me (I'm a guy btw). Others find her weird, but to me she's a more real friend and down to earth because she isn't so dramatic or shallow. She doesn't mind us just hanging out and says she feels the same about me. Do eccentric people really distance others? She kind of dresses similar to this character. Stands out but cute. http://s934.beta.photobucket.com/user/quixonic/library/#/user/quixonic/library/?&_suid=135632816771707039275860709024 Also is there a reason she glomps (hug tackles) me to the ground? Says I make her feel loved. Uh....is that part of being a crazy girl?
Worried about cousin who has no friends.?
Have you thought about mentioning this to her mother (your aunt)? I think it's really admirable that you care so much about your cousin and are trying to devote time to spend with her. 12 can be a really transitional age...kids are changing from elementary to middle schools, and often change friends or find new friends when that happens. She probably considers you a really important part of her life, so if you can continue to find time to spend with her, even if it's a phone call or email, just so that she keeps getting that positive attention, I think that would be great for her. Her mom may consider having her see a therapist if she feels it's an issue that needs to be dealt with (it sounds like she could use some help dealing with the fact that her father is absent in her life). If I were her mother and saw her struggling socially, I would also consider getting her involved in either extracurricular activities, or activities independent (outside) of school. Find out what she's interested in and try to help her explore those interests more... Other than that, school and teen years can be really tough... You just have to pull through the best you can and if you can help others, like your cousin, that just makes you even more special for caring so much.