Friend wants to set me up?
Well you already know that "really sweet" is girl-talk for "ugly as f*ck", but decent personality... So you have to make a decision. If you truly don't care at all about how a guy looks, then he might be OK for a date. ONE date. But generally speaking, your friends are often a bad judge of who would be a good "match" for you. I've only seen one instance (in almost 50 years) of a match that was truly PERFECT, and the two of them were brought together by mutual friend...
Why do my friends avoid me?
My friends use my stuff and don't return it, call me to rant and then don't want to hear about my life, act like I'm stupid when I share my thoughts and anxieties with them, and generally avoid me unless they want something. It hurts my feelings. My own brother flirted with me the last time I visited him and avoids me unless he wants something. If he ever does answer the phone when I need help, he talks for like 10 minutes and is really quick to get off the phone or give me a fast solution and act like I'm a burden. My ex-boyfriend found a new girlfriend who's pretty cool. She's cooler than me, she's more independent, she's more experienced, she's funnier, she has a better personality, and she dumped him. He came back and used me, then when I was used up again he left. He will probably be back if he gets lonely enough. Why do people use me? Am I that boring? Do I suck that much? I feel so boring and I think this isolation that has driven me to the internet is literally driving me insane. I see a psychologist, but I still feel alone. So alone that I get to where I seriously see black spots and feel lightheaded. So alone that I feel like sanity is physically slipping away, like if I don't grip hard enough I might lose it. I get so irritated with grown people who are so intolerant. Like people who bust in my room while I'm typing, and then in my embarrassment of being on Yahoo Answers and whining to strangers, I say "I'm in the middle of something, can you please leave?" the person gets irrationally angry and holds a grudge against me for the rest of the night. What is wrong with people? Where is anyone sane, trustworthy, loving, and not holding grudges on a constant basis?
I told my friend I like her and now she avoids me?
Confront her... ask her why she's distancing herself from you The same thing happened to me and i got all mad and told her i was mad and messed up my relationship with this girl... The problem with getting rejected is, you let all your emotions and feelings out and tell someone how you feel about them so it's awkward if you see them. Basically try to be calm and start a conversation with her. don't do what i did because you'll regret it! Try to become friends with her again and don't try to bring up what you did with her. Be really funny because to be brozoned all you have to do is make a little bit of jokes and be a bit immature because when you like a girl you wanna be serious and cool about her so she likes you Goodluck mate :)
I don't understand the desperation to patch up on your part. You havent mentioned how many close friends you have other than this one who refuses to act like one. Are you alone/lonely? What makes you so anxious to hang on to a one-sided friendship? Any relation in order to exist needs the consent and willingness on both the sides. You have done your part by sending the email which express you intentions to keep the friendship. Any more attempts to patch up from you will make you come across as needy and clingy. Dont lose your self respect in the process of trying not to lose a so called friend. My suggestion is that now you stop all attempts at making contacts. Hang out with the other friends you have. In case you don't have friends, try to make new friends. If that's difficult, try to get involved in things that would be more productive than a one sided friendship that makes you miserable. Read, surf the net, learn music, join sports, get yourself a new hobby. In short, get active! Meet the smarter and better you. In the process you will meet new people and make new friends. Things about your so called friendship will fall in place if they are meant to. No point in wasting your time for a person who hardly cares.
My guy-friend is avoiding me?
When you have a crush on some one you may not realize but you give off signs. Maybe it is weirding him out a little. The other thing is ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS. You have to look at this guys actions. Stop phoning, texting, and trying to visit. He doesn't seem to want to be bothered. The fact that he can't look you in the eye means he is hiding something that he just isn't ready to reveal. Give the boy some space. If he wants to be friends and he is truly busy, he will call you. There is no way to answer why he is avoiding you (if he even is avoiding you) only he can answer that. Listens to people's actions and not only their words.
I found out my friend set me up to be publicly humiliated! What should I do?! Should I try to forget it?
Okay so I posted a question the other day about a volleyball game. Basically I wanted to avoid panty lines in my shorts and my friend suggested that I try going without any underwear underneath at all (cause I don't own a thong) then during a crazy volley somehow my shorts got pulled down and my private area and butt were exposed before everyone (so many boys including many I know saw) I didn't know if it was an accident or not. But I overheard my good friend, who was the same one who told me to go underwearless talking to another teammate and it turns out THEY PLANNED THE WHOLE FREAKING THING! I heard them both say it (I was eves dropping) I don't know what to do... I really thought she was my friend and so many people (especially boys but some girls too) are joking about seeing me naked. Why would she do the to me!!?! What should I do I'm response?? I'm so lost :(
Is my friend trying to avoid me?
Try to talk to her in other ways besides texting such as talking in person, instant messaging, or emailing her. Try to find out if she is avoiding you through other ways. There may be a reason she doesn't want to text. She may have gotten a text from somebody else, whether it was a picture, talking about somebody else, a rude comment, etc, that made her not want to text much more. I bet she is not avoiding you and only does not want to text for some reason.
First and foremost you have to understand: People lie.Second: You have to accept that people change.Thirdly: You have to accept that most people, in order to avoid an awkward situation, will also lie.Now that we have these truths out. Let’s see what happened with your friend.First, you told your friend you liked him. Good for you for having the guts, many, many people cannot bring themselves to do that. Just remember, in the future, to only tell the people that you know are good people.He was not interested. It happens. That’s life. However, I do question whether he was being 100% about being friends. No sure way to know from where I stand.Either way, the reality as that after one friend confesses to another, most people do not know exactly how to handle it if the feelings are not reciprocated. Especially if you were really good friends.It sounds to me like your friend MAY or MAY NOT have meant for you to continue to be friends. Since the “we can still be friends…” is the standard line everyone uses.It could be that he is not sure how to talk to you anymore or that he may be dating someone else thus making the situation a bit weird as he may not know how to talk to you, outside just being polite.There are 2 schools of thought here that you could follow.You could take his lead and basically take a step back from the friendship. Basically you are giving him the power to choose when it would be okay to start being like the friends you used to be. If at all.You could ask to speak to him and basically tell him that you appreciated his offer and that after thinking about it, you are now fine and that have moved on. That you will still leave it up to him but that you are seriously okay with just being friends. After that, you also take a bit of a step back and just be like you used to be when you were just friends when he talks to you as well. Perhaps with time, things might be almost like they used to.As you can see, both approaches are based on giving the other person the say of when the friendship can resume… if at all. You HAVE to do that, otherwise any pushing or urging from your side might be seen as you still liking him.You literally have to let him go in order to be friends again. As he is the one who has to seek you out. You cannot force it. Unfortunately that is the risk of confessing to a friend.It is worth noting this is almost the same case if it were the other way around and the sexes were reversed.Good luck.
This is the perfect chance to talk about what was going on. Tell her why you weren’t talking, and do so without being a dick about it or accusing her of ignoring you. Simply say something like “you weren’t responding so I stopped sending messages.” That way you’re not assuming why she wasn’t responding. She’ll then hopefully respond with some sort of explanation. The less offensive or accusatory you are with your words, the less defensive she will be. This is how you get a clear answer from her. There’s a lot of reasons that she could have not been responding. Maybe she doesn’t like you. Maybe she didn’t think that she needed to respond. Maybe she thought that you didn’t expect her to. Maybe she’s a dickhead. Maybe she was mad at you. Maybe she died for a bit and then came back to life. You now have a chance to explain yourself and give her a chance to explain hers. Just talk about it. If you’re both reasonably rational people, things will make sense and the argument won’t go awry.
Should i let my best friend set me up on a blind date?
The opportunities of the world come primarily from meeting new people. So, yes, you should meet a new person. Even those who seem strange are probably just feeling nervous. Relationships can absolutely last even at 13. I have many friends I met when I was 13 and even younger. Your relationships will probably change, but they will likely last if you nurture them. One thing I didn't know when I was 13 is that relationship require maintenance or they tend to weaken. When meeting your blind date, or any other new people, try getting to know them. Avoid yes/no questions and stick with questions that encourage conversation or explanation. Try starting with a compliment. If you don't have one, make it your goal to find something you like about that person. And maintain eye contact. Don't be afraid. This will help make people feel more comfortable talking to you and open up. Just some tips for your blind date. Good luck!