My friend is acting like my mom?
Everything I do or say, my friend judges me. I showed her a song the other day and it had some references to drugs and such, and I just liked the beat of the song. But she told me she was "worried" about me. Also things that I do she'll call me a slut, when its not even bad and tell me that I shouldnt be doing that (when I'm not doing anything wrong at all, she just acts like we are 7 years old) Its like shes my mother?? And its really annoying... what do I do? I've allready tried talking to her, but she won't listen to me. And truthfully I am not doing anything wrong, she just acts like shes a 10 year old....
Is My Friends Mom acting weird?
I'm an 18 year old guy. My best friend’s mom is 47, married and a mother of 2. I was wondering based on these stories if she may like me or if she is a flirt or inappropriate. One time I was over my friends’ house. We were sitting at the kitchen counter while his mom cleaned up. My friend went to get something in his room and right after he left his mom started bending over to put bowls away. She was literally bending over with her butt sticking out for at least a minute. I’m pretty sure she saw me looking but she kept doing it anyway. Another time we were making a fire in my friend’s driveway. He wanted me to get leaves in the backyard and his mom was outside watering the grass. While I collected the leaves she bent over to put the hose away for about a minute right near me. Then my friend and I were playing tennis and she came over near us to weed her garden. She had her boobs hanging out of a shirt barely buttoned up and I could see her bra and most of her boobs. She bent over and I could see her underwear. I had a shirt on once that said "Life’s to short, get a woody" and she laughed at it. I also made a joke to her that Michael Jackson died of food poisoning because he ate twelve year old nuts and she laughed and said she read that in a magazine. She bent over once and accused me of taking a picture of her butt sticking out with my cell but wasn’t angry about it or seem to care at all if I did or not. I was lying on the floor and petting her dog when it started biting me. She sat down on the floor too and started rubbing my hands and hair pretending I was a dog claiming “it’ll help the dog calm down.” She and her husband have a tough marriage. He's always on business trips and works during dinner which clearly annoys her and they argue sometimes. It seems like she acts flirty around me, especially when her husband isn't around. Do you think she does this because of her marriage problems? Is the stuff she doing seem inappropriate of her to do or am I reading too much into this? Could she be doing this because she likes me? What should I do about this?
At what age does it become inappropriate for parents to bathe or shower with their children? Or having them see you naked in general?
As others have said, this partly depends on culture differences, but...It can also depend on other factors. I'm a mother of two boys and two girls. The first boy still took a shower with me when he was three, but it stopped before he was four; I can't remember exactly when. It was my choice, even though there were not issues. (Note: I bathed my infants safely until they could sit up, and then they'd take showers with me. Whereas either my husband and I rinsed them in the shower a few times, we avoided that, since really it's potentially dangerous.)Then my second boy, who is four years younger than the firstborn, showered with me until he was around two. He was simply too curious and touchy. He started bathing with his older brother, but that soon came to and end as well, because he wanted to touch the older brother. So I had to talk to him. I'd have to bathe him separately to get him clean. Besides that, the then six year old boy had already reached the age—for him—at which he didn't want to be seen naked nor wanted to see us that way. The younger boy is now 8.5 and sometimes shows up in front of someone naked and doesn't make a big deal over it. The two girls still shower with me. One is six, and the other is about to turn four. They sometimes take a bath in the garden tub, but they otherwise shower with me. It's no problem. I remember my younger sister and I taking a shower with my mother. No problem. We stopped sometime a few years before our teens. As a teen, my best friend and I showered together whenever we'd spend the night together. No big deal. My girls are beyond taking a shower with their dad, but that was cut off around three. He sometimes showers in the morning, in addition to the regular night shower, and the kids thought it was fun to get in, too. The boys did when they were little, too. They'd sit in there for awhile, then I'd get them out and dry them. I wouldn't see a problem with the boys still showering with their dad, bit neither want to. The oldest is VERY private, lol, and he's every bit as respectful to others' privacy.
Sister lets my friends grope her?
Lately whenever my friends are round my house my sister acts easy and lets them all grope her, like the other day my friends were in my room and my sister sunbathed topless in the garden by my bedroom window knowing they would all watch her, btw my sister never sunbathes topless. Anyway then we went outside and she pretended she thought we had gone out, she left her bikini top in her room so i went to get it and when i came back my friends were groping her breasts. They stopped when i came and she put the bikini top on but my friend Matt pulled it off again and wouldn't give it back and the others were kissing her breasts and groping her but my sister didn't even care and thought it was funny and they only stopped when i said my dad had come home. Then today when my friends came round they were groping her and she didn't stop them and just laughed. I cant tell my parents or my friends will get banned from my house and dont know what to do and my friends wont listen to me. My sisters 16 and my friends are 21-23. I dont blame my friends its her fault she knows she has a nice body and that my friends cant help themselves..
My best friend keeps touching me?
my best friend is a guy. we've known eachother ever since we were about ten or eleven, and i used to have the biggest crush on him. everybody knew about it too. but it ended when i was about thirteen cuz i overheard him talking with one of his buddies. his friend said something like, "When are you gonna ask brittany out? you know she likes you." my friend says, "yeah, i know she does, but i just like her as a friend. she's kind of ugly to me." i was completely heartbroken. i couldn't help but burst into tears. they overheard me crying and my friend ran out to comfort me. he apologized about a thousand times and really did seem sincere. i know he didn't mean to hurt me, but he did mean what he said. we're both eighteen now. he used to have the BIGGEST crush on my sister, Pamela, who is the exact opposite of me. she's gorgeous. she has big boobs, a big butt, great curves, and a pretty face. i have really low self-esteem now, and i think i'm ugly. unfortunately, i'm a redhead. he says he's gotten over her. "I don't even know why i ever liked her," he sometimes says with a grimace. he tells me he thinks she's ugly. i think he's just saying that. lately, he's been acting really weird around me. he keeps touching me. not inappropriately, but out of nowhere, he'll randomly run his fingers down my arms. sometimes, he comes up from behind me and gives me the biggest hugs, and starts touching and squeezing my sides and my stomache. i like to give him lots of kisses on the cheek, cuz i'm just very loving towards him. he usually gets annoyed when i do that, but recently, i did it, and he held my face there and told me to keep doing it. then another time, he turned his head and started kissing me on the lips. i freaked out, and tried to push him off, but he's too strong. he held me tight and started kissing me all over my face. and yesterday, he said something that REALLY shocked me. he told my i'm pretty. he's NEVER said that before, EVER!!!! i was speechless. i don't think he actually thinks i'm pretty, but it's weird that he'd even say it. maybe he's trying to heighten my self-esteem. i'm really confused. why is he acting this way? does he feel guilty? i'm too embarrassed to ask him. please help. sorry this is so long.