My ex boyfriend committed suicide because of me?
i was dating this guy for over 2 yrs, he was very protective and jealous. i never once cheated on him but he cheated on me a couple times and i forgave him.. dont know why but i did. we fought alot and argued about stupid stuff. i was on his fb cause i had a bad feeling and i found a bunch of messages from multiple girls that pretty much said he was cheating, so i broke things off. i kept contact with him to a bare minimum and ended up changing my cell number cause he wouldnt leave me alone. 2 weeks later, i was at school when my friends pulled me into the bathroom and told me that he had shot himself the night before and his little sister found him in their garage. my world basically collapsed after that, i ended up moving back to my hometown to graduate grade 12 and get away from my old school cause the rumors went around and people blamed me, which i do too. i know it was because of me because the day before he killed himself, he kept txting and calling telling me "im going home" and "i cant live without you,i love you and im sorry." ...... this is when i went and changed my number... and i didnt believe him bc hes threatned me with suicide multiple times when we fought, i just didnt think hed have the guts to do it and leave everybody behind. he left me a note saying he wants me to love again and not to blame myslef...? how couldnt i? this was because i wouldnt give him a chance to talk. im living my life and im happy and all, but when i lay in bed at night all i think about is him. iv seen a couple guys since,(its been about 6 months since the incident) but i find that once i start liking them, i push myself away cause im afraid of getting hurt,, and i dont feel like i deserve to move on and be happy when hes laying in the ground... i just need someones imput on how to get by and be happy without constantly blaming myself for his decisions? if theres anyone whos been through the same situation feel free to email me, id love someone to talk to whos going through the same thing,,, my emails kayla_scherr@hotmail.com , thanks again for any advice <3
My ex- boyfriend said he's gonna commit suicide?
this is why teenage relationships almost never work out. either hes just having a hard time getting over it or he really really loves you. and that should be your luck if he really likes you. but ya....if things dont get better and you fear for him i think you should tell your parents or his parents. it might be hard but it will save a life. and next time dont get caught up in a these kind of relationships. you really dont love until your older. but its all good, learn from mistakes i guess! good luck! :)
Friend commits suicide in dream, what does it mean?
I had a dream where my best commits suicide. Everyone thinks that he went missing, but he came to me as an un-dead person. He told me where his body was located so that everyone would know he was dead and took his own life. The dream was very moving, I am not a very emotional person but I woke up crying and it took me a while to shake this feeling. What do you think it means?
My boyfriends brother commited suicide and my boyfriend has started some self destructive behaviors wut doI do?
Get serious help before this progresses. Have a very serious talk with him or his friends or close family members and tell them about the situation if this doesnt help then get him a phyciatrist or professional help since this can get worst if not treated since his problem is mentally and emotionaland he needs all the help and support that he can get. Also I agree that you should look out for yourself and your son a lot more since whats happening to your boyfriend is important but your son's safety and well being should be a thousand times more involved in your top priorities.
What if a girl commits suicide because her boyfriend broke up with her? Will the guy have broken any law?
If she has written any suicide letter mentioning cause of suicide, her boyfriend, then I think he may be charged under section 306 of IPC in which one gets prosecuted if one provokes anyone for suicide. So, yes, one can be charged. Regarding breakage of law and non breakage depends on how it is presented. Sometimes, one breaks law but his/her part is presented in such way that it seems he/she doesn't, sometimes one doesn't breaks the law but his/part is presented in such way that it seems he/she has. So, it's not about one has broken the law or not, it's about what has been proved.Regarding, prosecution of guy, whether he will be prosecuted or not depends on lots of things. In India, it depends on which state you are living, what's going on the mind of police officer who is investigating that case, what kind of background boy has, what kind of background girl has, how media is reacting, what family members of girl's side want.So, it is not as simple as you think. Police have authority to prosecute, court has authority to dismiss that prosecution or giving punishment for that prosecution. It's upto mood of policeman whether to charge a person or not, it's upto lawyers of both side whether punishment should be given or one's charge should be dismissed. Depends, how good lawyer is.Law, prosecution, crime, these are not simple things as they seem to be. Some commits crime without being prosecuted, some gets prosecuted without committing crime.This is the scenario in India. I don't know what happens in rest of world.
If I were to commit suicide should I give a note to my ex? I know if I dont he might blame himself and I would never want that. But I might mention his new gf. What should I do?
Why do people give such useless answers when suicide is mentioned? “Life gets better” “death is never the answer” “there's always someone who cares about you” blah blah bloody blah… A stranger on the internet mindlessly parroting a cliché probably won't help someone feeling suicidal.OP, obviously I would rather you didn't kill yourself. However, it's completely up to you. You just have to be cognisant and accepting of the effect your actions will have on others.As for the note, yes, I think you should write one but make absolutely sure that it puts your exact feelings into words. Plain prose, simple language and easy to understand sentences. No part of it should be vague or leave the reader in any doubt as to it's meaning. A note which allows even the slightest perceived hint of blame will haunt someone for the rest of their lives.Good luck and, should you decide to live, I hope your life gets better.
My friend wants to commit suicide after a hard breakup?
He's in a heavy emotional state right now so it's going to be difficult convincing him with just small text messages. You need to reach out to him in person so that he's not alone and has someone to support him, and to make sure he doesn't try anything to harm himself. Try calling him as even speaking through the phone would make a difference. If that's not possible, then it'd be worth trying to get someone who lives nearby to visit/check up on him - again, if possible. Go to this website, it has some quick, simple tips on what you can say and what you shouldn't say - http://www.helpguide.org/mental/suicide_prevention.htm - scroll down to Suicide Prevention Tip #1 and #2 Most importantly, if he's planning on it and you're not getting through to him then don't take any chances and call 911 immediately.