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What should I do if my friends mom is abusing him?

I am glad your friend has you who cares about him. Teachers should be trained to spot physical abuses. However there are many different kinds of abuse. Psychological abuse can be worse than physical. Does your friend have a trusted adult he can turn to? School nurse and counselor? Does he have any relatives he can turn to? How old is your friend? If your friend is 16 or older, the best thing he can do is try to be financially independent. That does not mean he should skip school. But he can start doing some part time job. That will also get him out of his house and away from his mom. If he is not as old yet, try doing boy scout would be another great option. Very often parents in the boy scout programs are trusted adults kids can turn to. It also teaches life skill. If your friend’s family would not pay for the participation, usually the boy scout troop will have scholarship. They might even be able to find a scout who can give your friend a ride.Another thing is manipulative parents like to threaten their kids. I have seen that. The best way is to tell an adult so the adult can judge whether that’s just threats. If the child is in real danger, he should be taken care of by another family member.

My friends mom walked in on me...?

well i'm 16 years old and I was staying at my friends house last night...Me, my friend and his mom were sitting at the dinner table and just talking about everyday things when I got up and said "i'm gonna hit the shower and go to bed" and they both said "yea it's getting late". Ok... well when I got done with my shower, I steped out.. and right as i did, his mom walked into the bathroom and seen me fully naked...I also had a little hard on...and she seen that 2... what do u think I should do...I don't think she did it on purpose but she also didn't say she was sorry...when she walked in, she said "opps just gotta grab something out of the cabnit" ...do u poeple think i should say something? or should she have said something to me? or am I looking to much in to this...?

Could my friends mom take me to get a piercing?

My mom said I can get a piercing, but she doesn't like going into piercing shops because she's scared of the people. I know it sounds stupid but it's true. Could my moms friend pretend that she's my mom and go to get the piercing with me? I know it's not legal, but what exactly does the mom have to do? Do we both have to show ID? Does she have to prove she's my mom? Does she only sign a paper and could she go?

We live in California btw

How can I get adopted by my friends mom?

1 - Your parents sign away their rights, or the court terminates their rights involuntarily
2 - Your friend's mom has a background check and a home study
3 - You and your friend's mom go to court and get the adoption approved by a judge

The problem is, all of this takes time (months if not years) and it takes money, probably in the thousands of dollars. And anyway it's going to be hard getting past step #1.

Since you don't want to do counseling, all I can suggest is spending as much time with your friend as your parents will allow. Maybe they'll let you just sort of move in with your friend, without the hassle of a formal legal adoption. If not, then take some intiative to improve things with your parents. In a few years you may decide they weren't so horrible after all.

What to say when my friends call my mom hot?

I started to notice my friends checking my mom out, then a couple of days ago they started saying she was hot. They say I'm lucky to have a mom like her. It feels kinda awkward, should I be offended or take it as a compliment?

My friend talking bad about my mom?

Well it looks like you have a dilemma.
It was VERY rude of your friend to say that about your mother. However she may just be saying that because she has her own insecurities about her own mom. Most likely she didn't mean what she said.

From what I can tell her mom isn't the worlds #1 parent. So she may be trying to find faults in others to make up for it.

I can see that you have been trying to talk about her problems but they seem to be going in all the wrong directions. Try acting more calm when you talk about it.

Here is a way to set your priorities:

1. Ask your friend to come over and hang out in your room (it must be private)
2. Take out two sheets of paper and two pencils/pens.
3. Both of you make a list of all the things about your mom's that you think they should improve on but don't show the other.
4. Then tear it up and throw it away.
5. Take out 2 more sheets of paper.
6. Make a list of all the good things about you mom's (you may show each other) you have to think hard, and you have to be totally honest. Try giving suggestions.

The point of this exercise is to show her that her mom isn't so bad. How everyone has faults and you shouldn't hold that against them.

Try talking her into talking with her mom about what she thinks. Her mom will understand. And you will have felt better helping her get over this road block. And hopefully it will mend your friendship.

Hope this helps a little! :]

My friends' mom said to me that She thinks I would be "cute" with her son and she would "pull" for us if we were to be in a relationship. Is that weird?

While its not really appropriate for your friend's parent to say that to you, its not weird either.  (We) parents, left to our own devices can say some pretty stupid things, and I am certain that I have come close to doing pretty much exactly what your friend's mom did.  My younger son had a way of becoming incredibly close friends with girls in high school and college.  There were two in high school that I was particularly fond of, and they were very, very close and good friends.  I adored both of them and actually found it confusing that they could be as close as they were without in slipping into romance.  I don't think of their status as being in the friend zone because thew quality of the friendship was extraordinary.  I am positive I said something stupid from time to time to promote one or the other possibility.  Thankfully, they all just ignored me, which is what I recommend you do.  It 6-7 years later, my son us still friends with both and I'm still Facebook Friends with both. My son is in love with a lovely young woman who is his classmate in law school both of whom lived with me this summer where they came for summer jobs. It's all going to be OK for all of you.

How can I hint to my friend’s mom that I wanna have sex with her?

It’s simple.Don’t attempt this.1. This person is your Mom’s friend, are you expecting her not to tell your mom what you asked of her? Or if she doesn’t tell, the harmful situation you’re placing her/him if they accept this offer; if you’re a minor, she/he could face jail. Why push this a person your mother likes and risk ruining their life; therefore, it’s rude and selfish.2. Obviously, what is your trouble with sex? The main issue is you’re thinking about your own sexual urges over reality; if you need sex that urgently, find someone your own age, or at least not a friend of your parents. One sign of maturity is not having sex with every woman/man walking down the street. Take the time to create a few friends yourself and have sex the usual way, since you are desperate, I assume you must have numerous social issues, dealing with people. Asking an older woman, or man for sex is making an assumption that they even want to think about endangering themselves, legally, again incredibly selfish of you.3. Look your problem is your low self-esteem or atrocious social skills. Work on those skills, of if you’re too lazy, find legal sex workers and enjoy yourself, whatever sexual risks you undertake it's your choice; moreover, you can’t contain your urges, therefore, enjoy the risks.4. Even if you’re both adults, don’t attempt this: you will harm this person and your mom’s relationship, consequently, doesn’t that bother you?Grow up,or hire a sex worker.13 People On What It Was Like To Have Sex With One Of Their Friends’ ParentsWant a Ride? Use Uber. Want a Prostitute? Use an App

How do I persuade my friend's mom to have sex with me?

No need to do any trick. If she is interested then she will tell you or give you many signs. There is a difference between sign also, if any girl or women feel comfortable and trust for you, then they will live freely with you means showing cleavage, talking about sex, sitting very closely, Like any girl or women from our family and friends.Go and ask her if she said yes, then continue if answer is no then forget and live your life normally. Don't make life complicated, control your feelings. Mutual understanding is a must.One of my friend's mother who have many relationships with other she said no to me for sexual relationship with her, everyone has a choice, respect.

My friend's mom said to my friend that my boyfriend is "not the sharpest knife in the drawer" and that I could do better, but all my boyfriend said to her was hi. What do I do?

You have options, not entirely exclusive.You could ignore the remark.you could entertain the possibility that the comment was never made—that your friend fabricated it. If you weren’t there, what evidence do you have that she said it?You could examine her possible thought process. Is there a big difference between you & your boyfriend in terms of intelligence? Academic orientation? Commitment to lifelong learning? Does she have a bias against people whose intelligence takes a quiet form, like introverted engineers and accountants?You could ask her, in a non-judgmental way, “why do you think that?”

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