I just found out my girlfriend is married for money..........?
So my girlfriend and i have been together for a little over a year and the other day she tells me she has something to tell me and that she should have told me a long time ago but she was scared to tell me... come to find out she married an illegal to help him gain his citizenship, a "Business transaction" she called it... i know its ****** up right?? so now my whole world has been turned upside down, I love this girl, but i dont even know who she is.. i told her that and she says that she is the same person.. but the girl i fell in love with wouldnt do something like this... anyways, long story short this isnt really a question i just need some help... what do i do? i love her, my family loves her ( they dont know anything-it would break their hearts)
I love my girlfriend but want to experience something else?
Hi, everybody. I am 18 years old, and, soon, my girlfriend will be as well. We are both high school seniors, set to graduate in June. At the bottom of this is a summary of everything in case you don't want to read the full story. We have been going out for nearly a year and have been officially together for 8 months. I love her, she loves me, and I truly do not believe what we have is like typical teenage "puppy love." Not only is she my girlfriend, but she is also likely my best friend. However, something has really bothered me lately, and that is the fact that I have never dated anyone else. Now, you might say I'm a jerk, but please understand that I am really struggling with this. She has been in one relationship before (lasting 4-5 months), and, for some reason, it gets to me that I haven't. It gets to me that she's my first date, first real kiss, etc. but I'm not hers. However, this may just be something I have to accept. I really do care about her, and I could see me spending my future with her, but the fact that I haven't experienced anything else concerns me when I think about it. What if she really isn't the type of girl that is best for me and I am just clueless about it because it's my first relationship? I don't want to be 33 and married for 10 years with 2 kids and regretting that I got married to her at all. Another thing that concerns me is that she likely wants to marry young. Many in her family do it, and she hints at the future pretty often. However, like I said earlier, I don't want to marry young and end up hating life. I don't see it as logical for me to marry before, say, 25, but dating for 8+ years is a long time, especially for an old-fashioned girl like she is. Condensed: I love my girlfriend, and I think she loves me. She has had a boyfriend, but she is my first girlfriend. I don't want to be trapped 10-15 years from now and unable to get out. Does anyone out there have any advice? I'd really appreciate it. Please don't just say I want to have my cake and eat it too. I only say wait until 25 because people often change a lot until then. By 25, the brain is developed, you're probably close to or completely done with school, and you've had a few years to adjust to the legal availability of alcohol. Also, I feel a long feeling-out period is necessary before making a till-death-do-you part commitment.
I had an affair with my married driving instructor, its been a year i cant get over him, how do i?
hmm where do i start, i mean it was a year ago, basically failed my first test and told dan* how i felt, he felt the same and it went from there. It went on for at least 5 months but then he moved into a new house with his wife, step son and his own kid and decided to ditch me. I cant seem to get over him, its got better but i am still so angry at him, he was supposed to care about me and he stranded me, my mum got cancer&he promised to be there for me but he left me broken hearted and to deal with my life alone. I am so angry with him, i have calmed down since it all happened, but he is basically a c*** towards me now, he doesnt speak to me and refuses to even aknowledge that we happened or that i even exist. When he was with me he he told me he loved me and wanted to leave his wife- i know likely story, but i believed it because i was naive- i was 18 at the time and he was 32. I really loved him and it properly smashed my world apart. I dont know how to get over him completely??
Cheated on my girlfriend - she can't get over it?
ive moved in with my current girlfriend. we bought a house up north, weve been dating for 3 and a half years now. in january i cheated on her and she found text messages from a girl basically proving it. ive denied it this whole time, but she knows its true. i started texting another girl i met at a jean store, but nothing was happening. my g/f found my messages to her, even though nothin was happenin she was mad i was texting another girl i guess. i told her i just like gettting the attention, i liked flirting with her, that nothing happened. i'm not sure if she believes me. she got her stepdad to talk to me about being faithful. i'm pretty pissed she told her family members about our problems and told him to talk to me, its none of his ****** business. we havent talked about what happened, i dont like talking about it. she wanted me to tell my mom about what happened. i didnt n she talked to my mom n found out i never told her. im really just drifting farther away from her. shes been talking about having kids for awhile. i dont want kids really, im not into kids and i just couldn't see myself with them. she is really serious about me n i know she's really in love with me. she works all the time, because right now my work, logging, is irregular and shes mostly bringing in the dough for now. i just try to keep my mind busy with our property, 30 acres. i can tell we are drifting apart, i don't know what to do. where i live is so rural that to get to my family its about an 1hr 30min drive. my g/f has all her family livin up here. i feel like she has to keep me on a leash like our ****** dog. i know i cheated. i dont have a dad, my stepdad fooled around on my mom, n my older cousin who i was raised with and lived with since i was 19 always ****** around on his g/f's so it's always been a part of my life, that's what I've been doing with every relationship ive had i wanna settle down. i thought i was serious about this girl, i though about marrying her but i dont think anymore. i dont know where to go for advice. i wanna tell my mom and talk to her about it but i dont know, shes gonna be so dissapointed in me and im not the type to talk bout my problems, you know? thanks.