My Gf wants a nose piercing but I don't like it. How to tel her?
She said that she really wants it. And I can say no but she will be sad. She wil make it with her friend so I think tht a girl thing. I tried to say no but she is really obsessed with this nose piercing so I said: "whatever". :D But I think she is beautiful without it. How to say this to her? We are both 20. And we are together for 1 year.
My girlfriend is getting a nose piercing but i dont want her to, what should i do?
my girlfriend is beautiful and she is perfect the way she is. she keeps saying that she wants to get a nose piercing but why all of the sudden would she? i asked her why and she said because i just want to, but i would very much like her not to get one. i know for a fact that they get infected and a lot of people do not like the look of them, specifically jobs for hiring. if i have to i will beg her not to get one, she doesnt need one, and it makes me really uncomfortable and i hope she sees that. what should i do?
Girlfriend wants her nose pierced?
And you told her your concerns about her getting it done? I know if you love someone you should accept them for who they are not what they do to their image. But modification like tattoos/piercings is a personal subject and if they want to do it then you shouldnt stop them. You can only try and talk her out of it. You should just mention that she may regret it later. it is also the easiest one to heal if it is taken out.
My girlfriend wants a tongue piercing but i dont like them *READ*?
So me and my girlfriend have been going out for 3 years now, she wants to get a tongue piercing right now she has a tattoo, a nose piercing, and a belly button piercing, now i dont mind most piercings and tattoos, but the only kind of piercing i REALLY REALLY dont like is a tongue piercing, ive heard it makes oral better, but they are also so unattractive, and they can make your teeth chip and ive heard about infections that can happen with tongue piercings and such, i would much rather she gets a lip piercing if anything at all, i wouldnt mind that at all, but i just dont want to see her get something as unattractive as a tongue piercing, what should i do?
My girlfriend wants her nose pierced? Wtf? Should I allow her to do that?
Give your input, but you ultimately have to allow her to do what she wants.
Should I take out my piercing if my husband doesn’t like it?
Original Question: “Should I take out my piercing if my husband doesn’t like it?”Yeah but, no but.Yeah but….. If you have a piercing that really gives him the heeby jeebies, and you love him, then it’s an act of kindness to remove the piercing. For example, I have a bit of a phobia about belly button piercings. In the vanishingly unlikely circumstance that my rather staid middle aged husband got one of these, it would truly turn my stomach and make it difficult for me to enjoy cuddling up with him. So he’d be doing me a favour by removing it (and himself if he wanted those cuddles).If he already had such a piercing when we met, it would have been a deal breaker for me. I take full responsibility for my irrational feelings about belly button piercings. However, this is a hypothetical situation. He’d never get such a piercing because:a.) it’s not his cup of teab.) he knows I even struggled to clean around my babies’ umbilical cord stumps.No but…… However, in a moment of mid-life crisis, I got a discreet little diamond on the side of my nose. I’d mentioned that I wanted one for a while but hubby didn’t take me seriously until I came home sporting a sparkle.In fairness to all parties, I should point out that he’s not actually phobic about nose piercings, he just never expected his wife to get one.He didn’t notice until it was pointed out. Then he said “oh no, I really wish you hadn’t done that”. There was a 30 second pause, then he said “but I expect I’ll get used to it and love it because it’s part of you”.I promised him that if he really couldn’t cope with it after three months, I’d take it out.He’s never asked me to remove it.This is why our relationship has survived 35 years.Be flexible, be loving, be reasonable.PS: This isn’t a photo of me, but this is very much my look. Not too shocking?!
How do I stop my girlfriend from wanting a nose piercing and a tattoo?
You don’t.You don’t stop other people from decorating their bodies however they like. You express your opinion, and that’s it. They may weigh your opinion and say “you know, you’re right.” They may weigh your opinion and say “you know, I really want to do this.” They may weigh you opinion and say “I don’t care what you think.” But at the end of the day, her body, her rules. She gets to decide how it’s decorated.You don’t like the idea. Okay, that’s cool; we all have preferences. But your preferences are not more important than hers when it comes to how to decorate her body.Hey, if that’s a dealbreaker for you, then it’s a dealbreaker for you. I may personally think it’s a silly dealbreaker; having been with people who are pierced, you soon stop noticing the piercing. But what I think about your dealbreakers isn’t important. If you can’t be with someone who’s pierced and tattooed, it’s your life.But her body is hers. You may have some input in an advisory capacity, but you can’t stop her from piercing and tattooing it. The final decision rests with her alone.
Do you like nipple piercings on a woman?
I like the look of it, yeah! But only if you have pert, young breasts.I think there's an age where it might start not looking so great any more. If you have big boobs, and they're sagging a bit from age or after having kids, I think I'd avoid it.Although a load of chest presses doing Body Pump down the gym have perked mine up a fair bit, I think I've passed the age window for nipple piercing now.If you are happy to sunbathe topless on holiday, like I used to do til my early 30s, then they're probably going to look fine. If you think “Good God, I can't go topless any more - I require coverage! In fact better still, where's my cozzie?” then that's probably a fair indication that either it won't look good on you, or you don't have the confidence to pull it off any more.Daft and crazy piercings are better on the young. The thing to think about, I suppose, is whether the holes will look okay if you ever decide to take them out.I saw this woman working in M&S yesterday, she was probably mid 40s, and she had big loopy ear lobes with a massive hole in them. Clearly she'd had those ear things in her younger days, that are like a big circle. I mean they look pretty cool on a young person… but loopy ear lobes on a middle aged lady didn't look that great.You've got to think of the future when you do these things, there's no avoiding age and there may well come a point where you just feel daft or it doesn't look good any more. So although I used to quite fancy having nipple piercings in my younger days, I'm glad I didn't now. They may have looked good on my younger self, but they would most definitely not look good now!