How can I stop being jealous of my girlfriend?
i feel your pain, man.What a struggle, because your passion, she wants.Your possessiveness, she definitely does not need.Your comforting presence is a treasure.Your investigating her business and making up rules for her to follow is poisonous and will infuse your relationship with resentment and anger. Eventually, things will get ugy.Jealousy is all about you. It’s not about her. It’s about the imbalance inside. I’m going to say something that’s going to sound like transcendental information from loo loo land, but just bring awareness to your jealousy to bring it into focus.You need to see your jealousy, the size and the shape and the color of it, in order to do anything about it.Right now, you can’t separate your jealousy from your better emotions, like your faith in another human being to remain faithful.When you pause before you call her, just to ‘say hi’, not a ‘check up’ call. Think about whether your intention is to share a moment with her, or are you really trying to see what’s going on when you’re not around? That PAUSE to check, it’s how you bring your jealousy under control. You are watching it like the rabid dog it is.You should name it. Jealousy, the rabid dog who thinks he owns the whole street, not just his backyard. Name it and call him out when he’s pooping in someone else’s yard, when he’s barking at the postman, or when he’s trying to hump the neighbors dog.Yep, that last part is the clincher. The real reason you feel so insecure is you know within your heart of hearts what you would do if a girl like your girlfriend came along, too much time on her hands, feeling a little insecure about her relationship… That’s the ugly truth of Jealousy. You don’t feel faithful, so how could she?
If your girlfriend was constantly jealous would you dump her?
Talk to her, find out what her problem is. There is a very fine line between harmless jealousy that is really a sign of affection and her being controlling. If in doubt, dump her. Jealously is awful to live with. Remember she's on her best behavious now, she isn't going to change.
My girlfriend is insecure and jealous?
WOW - she sounds like a crazy person... most people will tell you to break up with her, and for the record, so would I. Do you really want to be with someone so controlling and unbalanced? BUT - you said not to suggest that, so heres my advice. Girls like that need constant reassurance that they are the ONLY girl on the planet you love, the only girl you find attractive, the only girl you want to spend time with or talk to. Thats a hard task in anyones language! And youve found yourself a particularly full-on one! Try to remember as ridiculous as the whole thing is, she cannot help the way she feels. Jealousy is one of the hardest emotions to keep in control, and one of the hardest to hide. Heres what to do: Dont talk about other girls in front of her AT ALL, and that includes celebrities. Tell her all the time you love her and shes the only one for you. Sms her often if youre not with her, saying youre thinking about her. Tell her you miss her when she is not around. The hope is that she will improve as she gets older... but I fear that she may only get better at hiding her jealousy, rather than it ever truly being gone. Good luck to you my friend, youre in for a wild ride!
Why is my Girlfriend so Jealous(It's so annoying)?
Ok so i've bin with my GF for 3 year's now we're both 20 years old and for the past year she has become this jealous annoying control freak. I can't stand it anymore it's ridiculous. At all hour and time of the day she wants to know what im doing, who i am with, where am i going and she even times me. for example; if i say im going to the local super market and if its about 5 minutes away and it takes me longer than that she will start questioning me giving me the 5th degree telling me to give her a reason why it took me longer than 5 minutes to get to the super market. she's super jealous especially with my sister's friends when they come over to my house. i told her when we first started dating that i used to mess around with my sisters friends when they would spend the night over and that a couple i got to have s3x with. And even though i tell her that that was b4 that things aren't like that anymore between us she insists that i still mess around with them, so when ever they come over i have to go to her house or talk to her the whole night. she used to have these 2 best friends that she stopped talking to because they would flirt with me i understand that, but now she blames me saying i lead them up like W.T.F. i cant stand her constant nagging anymore it's really annoying we have to text 24/7 (no lie) if i take to long to reply she will trip out and be like "W.T.F. where you doing? What took you so long to reply" just the other day i was with my cousin and she wanted to know every little thing we were talking about. She accuses me of talking about "Girls" with him. When ever we go out she always accuses me of looking at other girls it's always a huge problem that's why we rarely go out because its always an argument. she even gets mad if i Jack-0ff she tells me " who are you thinking about. she used to be so cool and mellow she was like one of my guy friends i would tell her about the girls i had Fukced i mean everything from who gave me head and who Fukced me but now she has gone LOCA!!! i dont even mention females around her anymore idk what is up with her ive lost all my guy friends because of her they dont wana hang out cuz she always trips out. seriously this girl has got me going crazy, i love her but she has changed so much that i am seriously reconsidering our relationship ....WHAT DO I DO Oh and P.S. i've told her that she is being annoying so dont tell me let her know, belive me she knows how i feel
My girlfriend is making me jealous i dont want to talk to her about it i dont want to make her mad...help?
Believe me, when a girl has a nice body, of course she wants to flaunt it! It gives us confidence, but there are definitely boundaries when you're in a relationship. First of all, yoga pants are very comfortable and easy to move in. I have a tiny butt but I wear yogas all the time because they make me feel good. And you may feel as though she is trying to get other guys attention, but has she actually ever done anything (besides simply wear clothes that make her feel good about herself) to convince you that she is trying to get other guys' attention? Has she ever reacted in an inappropriate way to a guy's reaction of her? It doesn't really sound like she's doing anything wrong. Also, I've been in a relationship for 2 years (we're both in our early twenties). I have realized that certain things are better left unsaid because they will only lead to an argument. I suggest you say something along these lines to your girlfriend "Your body looks so amazing in those pants, I'm so lucky I have you all to myself" that shows territory without sounding over protective. Also you're comlimenting her so she'll feel good too. If you compliment her a lot, she will not feel the need to seek compliments from other guys either. Good luck
Jealous about other guys talking to my girlfriend?
Of course you are being too over protective. And you are also very annoying for your girlfriend. You have had a solid relationship with her for two years and she can’t get text messages from guys without you mistrusting her. I am sure she don’t like you being angry. A little jealousy probably makes her feel wanted, but too much is too much. You are not born jealous. You choose to respond like this every time. You are a grown up man and need to take responsibility for your own reactions. Either you get angry or you force your brain and heart to trust her and calm down. Grown ups control their emotions and reactions to be as happy as possible. If we don’t get what we want in the shop we don’t start crying and screaming to mum. We don’t walk naked in the street. We don’t hit our friends if we get mad. We are grown ups and we are in control. We choose a certain behaviour because it is rewarding in the end. Don’t blame your anger on her or “your jealousy”. You can change your reactions from within. You are in charge, man!