If a girl says that I’m a friend she does not want to lose, could it be that she has feelings for me but she is afraid to confess to me?
As a girl who has used this, it could. I had a crush on a guy who had a girlfriend, and we were eally close friends. I kept telling everyone I didn't want to lose our friendship if I pursue my feelings, because I was afraid he didn't return those feelings. He broke up with his girlfriend and about a month later my brother (idiot) told him about my feelings. He brushed it off for another two months when I finally got him alone and confessed myself. He told me he reciprocated those feelings, but wasn't ready for a relationship. I went along for a few months and then I got sick of waiting and broke off our flirtationship. We are still friends, but that friendship is strained and not nearly as amazing as it was. What I feared would happen, happened anyway. The other time, a (different) friend of mine had a blatantly obvious crush on me, and I told him I don't want to ruin our friendship by going into a relationship that might continue to be one-sided and is bound to end horribly. He accepted it, moved on (he now has a girlfriend of about six months) and we are still great friends. In any case, if a girl says she wants to remain friends, it's because she senses that a romantic relationship, whether she wants one or not, will not work all that well, and it's best to just let it go and continue to be friends.
Should I tell my girlfriend that I’m afraid of losing her?
No, and you better start having mental exercises to lower your fear of losing her.It doesn’t matter what girl you have, if she senses your fears she will consciously or unconsciously take advantage of that. Usually the best relationships are when you are ready to let her go if it comes to that. And that is the mindset that you must develop. Paradoxically this will bring her closer to you.
My girlfriend doesn't introduce me to her friends and hides the fact that we are in a relationship. What does this suggest?
Maybe she just doesn't want to people to know about her personal life. Some people just want to keep such things to themselves, which is a good thing.Or she could just be waiting for a perfect moment, like when you guys get engaged or even by the time you get married.
My girlfriend is losing her friends because of me.?
Me and my girlfriend are in highschool and ever since we've been going out shed rather hang out with me instead of her friends. And her friends are getting angry and she is slowly losing them. I feel guilty. And not that im planning on breaking up with her but if we do break up im scared shell have no one to lean on for support. Her parents are both alchoholics and she drinks alot too so im nervous for her.What should i do.
Why is my girlfriend hiding guy friend messages from me?
There can be two aspects , let’s talk about the first one .May be because you are very possessive . And she is afraid that if she would show you those messages then you both can have a fight or may be worse break up May be because she think that you would get angry . May be she loves you a lot and is afraid of losing you because she know that you would not prove the idea of talking with the guys.Next point of viewNext aspect is simple and sober that she is cheating on you .But don’t reach on any conclusion before talking to her . Because may be she has some genuine friends whom she don’t want to lose .There are many close guy friends too . So don’t get hyper if you got to know about her friends. A Girl many times loses her best friend just because of her boyfriend because she really loves a a lot . So do’t let that happen.First gain her trust that you really believe her .
My girlfriend talks to me like Im just a friend?
let me start off by saying I am still happy in this relationship, but it doesn't really feel like a relationship (sounds weird I know.) . so we've been dating for a little more then 3 weeks, and SHE told ME that she likes me, I didn't tell her how I felt first (I was to afraid to lose are amazing friendship) but she's the most gorgeous girl I've ever seen, and ill admit i'm not the most attractive guy ever. so at first I didn't know why she would've chosen me, I know its not about looks, I believe that myself (I don't think any ones "ugly") anyway, back to topic. I will call her "babe" and things like "your beautiful" "goodnight beautiful" ect. and she would never say anything like that back and still doesn't, I mean she's not going to call me beautiful but she doesn't even call me babe or anything like that and sometimes she takes a long time to reply. when ever she'd go to bed I would say good night with a kiss face emoji thing ( :* ) and she would always send one back but she hasn't for about a week now. this might sound whiney I know, but im just concerned. thanks in advance.
My girlfriend doesn't want to tell her friends, parents, relatives about our relationship. What might her reasons be?
I was in your shoes once. My gf of nearly seven years was very deep in the closet and I had been out for several years by the time we met. We were in a long distance relationship and had our own lives.You can't force her to come out of the closet, even if it's something you badly want. It has to come from her and it's something she has to work though. There will be many occasions where you'll have to swallow your words, your pride, your hurt and your feelings. You have to sit down with yourself, have an honest conversation and be really honest with your answers to questions like: is she worth swallowing your hurt? Is she worth sitting in the closet with? Could you sit by and let yourself be known as the friend until she comes out, if ever? Are you willing to weather that storm with her, through thick and thin?I am one of those people who believes that your partner should be the most important person in your life and so the one question I struggled with the most was, are you strong enough to understand that,Therefore your life decisions should be made with you both and your relationship in mind, not her parents as the main consideration. If the answer to those types of questions is a resounding yes, then stick with her, help her, support and encourage her when she needs it.Be there for her because... you are not the only one struggling. Even if she doesn't have any current willingness to come out to her parents, she will be struggling with it on the inside, whether or not she shares that with you. Before my gf came out, I could see the weight of the lie she was living sitting heavy on her shoulders, hear it in her voice when she talked about it, knowing that she wanted to come out but was so afraid of losing her parents and her family that she held the pressure inside and eventually it boiled over and we broke up. She did come out to her parents a few months later, it all went well and we got back together. But from the very beginning of the relationship, I knew she was in the closet, it was my own choice to follow her into it and sit there with her until she got up the courage to walk out of it.
My girlfriend ditched me for her friends and I need to know if she's worth staying with?
Her parents love me and we've been dating for 9 months, so they're perfectly fine with me staying at their house at night. So the other night we made plans to stay at her dad's house after I got off work. Well I got off work and while I was at work she went to her friends house and texted me saying we never agreed on that plan. So I send her the saved texts (our plan) as a reminder that we did in fact agree on it, and she plays the "I dont remember" card. I'm pissed because I know she was lying, and on top of all that- she stood me up for her friend. She's done it more than 3 times and I'm tired of it. What should I do?
Why does my girlfriend go through my phone?
A few times i've caught my girlfriend going through my cell phone reading text messages. Onetime is when I got and walked out of the room I turned around and she already had my phone in her hand reading messages. Now I don't have anything to hide but is it possible she is trying to find dirt on me? She also told me to delete this other girl from facebook because she used to like me.... also told me never to text one of her friends because shes a flirt. Is my girlfriend a little Jealous? What should I do? Thanks
My girlfriend always says 'I'm scared of losing you' what does she mean?
She must really love you, She probably says it because you are the most important person in her life and she can't imagine what she would be like without you. Or maybe she has had previous relationships which have ended unfairly or she lost someone she loved. Why don't you ask her why she says this? Just make sure she knows you love her and you'll be there for her. Tread carefully if you think this may upset her talking about it, Hope this helps, Take care! :) P.s) I kinda feel like this towards my boyfriend who's also 21!