Girlfriend wants me to get a tattoo of her name?
I'm 16 years old and have a tattoo already on my forearm related to my dads death but my girlfriend wants me to get a tattoo of her name.We been together for a year now but I really don't wanna get her name inked on my skin And not even knowing if shes gonna be here forever,I mean I had many girls just wanting to go out with me just for my looks and sex and not even worrying about what's inside. Would this be a wrong choice to make??
What do I do if my girlfriend wants me to get a tattoo of her name?
Say," no." No offense, but chances are really good that the relationship may not last - and you will be stuck with that tattoo. It's not a reflection on tattoos, as they can be cool - but are better when they are personal and significant, and more universal. When you get tattoos, one must consider their permanancy. There is a great difference between explaining how a symbol represents overcoming a personal struggle, symbolizes a positive memory of role model who helped you through a rough time in life AND explaining that you have a name of someone who you used to date. Trying to minimize it only makes it seem worse, as it would have taken some thought to get one. Tattoos certainly should not be impulsive decisions. I would not even suggest "his and her" tattoos. Unless you really want one an you've accepted that it is permanent (removal is painful and not 100%, and may even leave marks or a scar). Do not do it.
My girlfriend has a tattoo of her ex's name on her shoulder. How should I deal with it when she is naked?
Oh baby... Seeing her ex's name every time you make love(just to be polite in language).Communication is the only answer. Because you don't want to keep it limited to only a few positions.Besides you would know that the name is there.Talk your feelings out with your girl, tell her it bothers you.Ask her if it's permanent?If yes, would she be willing to modify it?If no, can you remember that though the name of her ex is there, the girl is still with you.Why Why Why can't she modify it?????Don't ask her this question.Modifying the name is very difficult. Most of the times it gets ugly.And besides would you be able to forget that there was the name of her Ex in that new tattoo???But if you still find it hard, simply ask her to call out your name when she is climaxing and also during sex. That should give you confidence, if she isn't calling your name already during orgasm, but some girls don't have the habit to say anything during orgasm, so be polite it might take some time.
What does my girlfriend think of my tattoo of her name in my chest?
First of all it depends on the situation and she will be shocked surely. Now the shock on her face will vary and majorly depend on your age, duration of relationship and the type of bond you both share.If you are surely going to get married then she will be more than happy and might cry out of happiness.She will be in a confused state if you are just a regular couple.If she is very young, she will be very happy that you took so much of pain and will be ready to show off to the world.Basically it depends on your relationship only. Mostly she will be happy and confused at the same time.
I really want to tattoo my girlfriend's name on my body, but she says it's bad luck. How can I change her mind?
I'm a strongly pro-tattoo person, but I have to agree with your girlfriend here. You should not tattoo her name anywhere on your body, for several reasons:It's too strong of a romantic gesture, especially for someone you're only dating. Getting someone's name tattooed on your skin is only appropriate for couples that have been married for a long time, since there already is a real sense of permanence and commitment to the relationship. She doesn't want you to do it. That should be the end of the conversation right there. I'm sure that she appreciates the gesture, but if she doesn't want her name on your body, you should let it go and move on. It puts a crushing amount of pressure on her. When you make an enormous and permanent sign of devotion, like a tattoo, she will feel like you're obligating her to do the same thing. That is unfair, and may cause her to want to break up with you. Trying to change her mind on an issue like this will most likely make you seem unreasonable. As applies to many aspects of a relationship, this is one place where no means no. Respect her decision. Pressuring her to change her mind will lead to resentment.If you two break up, you will regret getting that tattoo. You'll be stuck with a memory of someone that you can't easily rid yourself of. If you two break up, it could damage your romantic prospects in the future. Some women simply won't date a guy with another woman's name on him, unless he's a widow. Some will not date a guy who tattoos women's names on himself while dating. It'll make you seem like you fall in love too easily and quickly. You'll seem reckless. If you two break up, you will either have to get it removed (costly) or get it covered with another tattoo (costly). Unless you have a lot of money lying around, that's just wasteful.Does she even like tattoos? If someday you marry this girl and you two share a few anniversaries together, then you can consider getting her name on your skin. Maybe she'll even want to join you for a couple's tattoo session. But anytime before then is a recipe for disaster.
Is it proper for my girlfriend to tattoo my name without my knowledge or asking my feeling about it?
Name tats are always risky business.. are you both in a serious relationship and confident of the 'and they lived happily ever after'?If yes, then it should be ok for her decision and you should be honest about what you feel looking at the tat.If no, then it's going to be a lasting memory for her about the past and how much she can cope up with it (if she choose to keep the tat or make modifications on it).Given that she has done it, whether it was a freakish decision or well thought one, looks like she is God damn serious about you. The ball is in your court. Hopefully your choice is yes too. Else boy, man up and own up.