What should I text my girlfriend for our 1 month ? the more answers the better , please help :)?
What should I say to my girlfriend for our one month , like just a good morning text .. short and simple works :) were both teenagers, im not making a big deal about just one month , i just want to see if theres anything to add to my ideas of what to say
My girlfriend reads my messages but doesn't respond to them. What's going on?
I've been dating this girl for about 2 months, and we've always had a good and healthy relationship. We talked in person and texted. She almost never has texted me first because she thinks the guy should text the girl first in a relationship. Recently (couple days ago), she's been reading my texts and ignoring them (I know because the iphone shows if the recipient has read your message). I'll wait a little bit (several hours, still no response) and ask her a question, or something different. Usually she'll respond to that within a few hours. But then when she has to go, she will immediately stop texting and not tell me she had to go. When we do text it's just like before (good healthy relationship). This problem is constant. If it happened once, i would be fine with it. But it's been happening over and over again for about the past week. The fact is, I really really like this girl and i'm afraid her and I are drifting apart. I feel like if I confront her about it, she'll take it offensively. We are young so it's not like we have strenuous jobs or anything. I just need some outside thoughts and answers.. thank you!
My girlfriend is ignoring my text what should I do?
I've been in this scenario. But only when the relationship was long distance. One day, I stopped hearing texts from my girlfriend, and she also would not respond. Sometimes I wouldn't hear from her for 2 days.Try not to let this drive you crazy. Here is what I did. I didn't send a text or give her a call and let her be for a while. Eventually she called me back, but I would be lying if I said it wasn't hard to do this. I would calmly breach the subject in a "how was your day," kind of way, and wouldn't really bring up the fact that it bothered me that I didn't hear from her. Not unless it was legitimate. Sometimes girlfriends just get busy doing stuff, and they can't answer your call. Sometimes you get busy and you can't answer THEIR call. And sometimes they need space, especially if they are young and you are young. If this behavior persisted over a few weeks or a month or two, I probably wouldn't tolerate it for long, and would find a new partner, unless I really loved her a lot.
What should I do when my girlfriend doesn't reply to my texts for hours even though I can see that she has gone on her phone to check Facebook? Should this bother me?
Social media strikes again…You see that fellow up there?That's you and that has been me in the past…I've tried so hard not to fall into this social media trap of having your girlfriend added all over the place and without wanting it or without noticing it following her every step and move virtually.For me it started with Facebook, I would go online and just check my Facebook and then on the right side you could see who was only or when they were last online.There she was, online and not talking to me?How could she do that?How could she dare do that?She should have been in constant contact with me no matter what!Well that's where I was wrong!Sometimes people are on Facebook just to read the news or to browser the news feed brain dead without thinking about anything.You see that fridge?That's Facebook!You know there's nothing good there, but you still open it all the time.This curiosity or simply the fact that we are addicted to it makes us go there on and on again and most of the time you don't talk to no one.You just are there.Just like that banana, you waste your time on a virtual site while your minutes, hours, days pass by you.And when you realize it, you've grew old as the banana. There you go some phylosophical shit right there.The point is…Stop wasting your time on Facebook worrying what might your girlfriend might do or not. Most of the time people are just there, with no intention in mind.Yep, that's me and probably your girlfriend too wasting time on Facebook just because.I've been in a relationship where I needed to respond on the spot and I didn't liked it. When I was finally free I understood what being without your phone all the time meant.Don't be that guy that needs instant response to your messages, people are bussy most of the time or don't feel like talking.I sometimes take a long time to respond to my girlfriend and that's not because I don't like her, I just get lost with other things.Or sometimes I just like to chill and don't want to talk to anyone.Find a hobby, occupy your time and these worries will disappear believe me.If you continue with this it will end your relationship. I've been there and it's not fun believe me.
I read my girlfriends text messages. Found something. Please advise.?
My Gf and I have been dating for over 6 months. We love each other deeply and things are going SO well. We don't fight, we're totally faithful, we click. She stays in touch with her last ex boyfriend, which I HATE. Also, she never told me that she stays in touch with him. I found out on my own. I have no reason to be worried because I know that she feels what we have is much stronger than anything she has ever had. He also cheated on her in the past and she ended their relationship then. Still, they continue to be friends.. I have been reading her texts from him for a couple months.WITHOUT HER KNOWING. Terrible, I know. I just had to make sure something else wasn't going on. Anyways, all their messages are very casual (hi, hello, whats up, whats going on) type messages. I was out of town on a weekend for interviews and he happened to come in town on that same weekend. She sent him a message saying "lets meet up!" Even though she never mentioned to me that she wanted to meet up with him, I trust her enough to let her do that. So, I didn't mention anything. Also, I would have to admit to reading her texts. I don't know how she would react to that but probably not well, right? Who would? Anyways, I get BACK from out of town and I am at her place. Everything is the same. Her attitude, our interaction..everything. She leaves really quickly to return a movie rental and left her phone there. Her phone buzzes and I open it. There is one from her ex saying "I still love you. I know this changes things...etc" I didn't know how to go about bringing this up since it involves me checking her phone a lot. If I admit it, she is going to have trust issues I bet. The next afternoon, I checked her phone again to follow up on her reply. She had deleted all her texts....and she rarely deletes texts. 5 weeks have passed. Everything is still going very well with us. She still has no idea what I know. I didn't have the heart to tell her that I have been reading her texts because it implies that I don't trust her when everything has been freaking amazing between us. I don't feel worried but still, I'm kind of like what the fu*k about the whole situation... What do you guys think I should do? If anything...
My girlfriend deleted her text messages after I confronted her about texts from her ex. What does that mean?
It was last year, probably 5 or 6 months ago. I asked my girlfriend if she had messaged her ex boyfriend recently and she said no and offered for me to look through her inbox if I was so curious (not the actual messages, just the inbox). There I saw a message to her ex only a few days prior to that date. When I showed her what I found, she burst into tears and began sobbing and exclaiming that she forgot about those and she didn't want to lose me. she said that she needed me. I told her that I believe her, but I wanted her to look through her messages that night to jog her memory, but if she finds something I wouldn't like at all, she had to be honest and tell me. She agreed, and the next day I asked her about it and she said she didn't find anything but she deleted all of her messages. She said because A.) Because there wasn't anything and she was getting annoyed that all this was happening and B.) All of the messages were slowing down her phone. I felt awful, and I have felt awful since then, but she doesn't know that. I let time pass, because I figured maybe something would come up if I'm patient. We have been dating for a year and a half now, and several months have passed since then. However, now I find myself laying in bed or in class thinking about whether or not I can even trust her. Sidenote* her ex lives two doors down from her about 2 and a half hours away. We are both sophs in college, and she goes home during the breaks, but I live locally. They dated in high school for 2 years, but broke up her soph year because he was leading on other girls and there was too much drama.
What does it mean if my girlfriend broke up with me 4 days ago and wanted time alone so I stopped messaging her, she left me on read and saved some of my messages. today I told her I missed her and she texted back with “doesn’t look like it”?
She wants you to give her attention… yes, even though she wanted time alone. Given what she text back, I think she still wants you but is hoping you will chase after her…. your call if you want to play the game. Otherwise be clear and firm with what you want. You don’t want her guilt tripping you which is what she seems to be doing now.By the way, men and women ( or I should say boys and girls) seem to enjoy playing this silly game…. it is not a female thing. You just need to be clear on how you want to be.
If your girlfriend hasn't texted back in a day or two should you respond or wait?
Question answered: If your girlfriend hasn't texted back in a day or two should you respond or wait?I’m not a big fan of playing games with text messages. If I text someone for any reason apart from saying “thanks” for something they’ve done or said and I don’t hear back from them within 48 hours, I would almost certainly either send them a follow-up message asking how they’re doing, or better yet - pick up the phone and place a voice call instead of waiting for a text message reply.If something is happening with her and she hasn’t replied after two days have passed, I would wonder if she’s not feeling well… if someone stole her phone… or if she’s angry for some reason and has intentionally decided not to reply.Sitting there waiting would only work for me personally if she typically responds in a similar time frame - one or two days later.There could be any number of reasons for the delay, and I see no reason to wait to find out why. If I were you, I’d be wondering what’s happening with my GF and I wouldn’t be the most patient person on earth waiting for an answer.I don’t know where you got the idea that you should always wait for a reply before you send another text message to someone. I would follow my gut feelings instead of waiting, and just send her another message. If she doesn’t reply to the second message and another two days have passed, then I’d drive over to where she lives and knock on the door. She may be unconscious and in need of medical attention. Either that or she’s broken up with you and didn’t have the decency to tell you about it.No matter what the reason for her not replying, I wouldn’t wait even one more day to find out what it is.
How to ask a girl to be my gf over text *plz read description*?
Do it on the phone, or face to face through webcams. If y'all obviously love each other, of course ask her out! Ok here is some cheesy/cliche things that most girls won't admit they like: You are beauiful, I love spending time with you, I can never stop thinking about you, you make me want to be a better person, You're the only one I want, you are a priority, if you say jump- i say how high, after all we've been through we've proven how strong we are, I'll always be there, you can always confide in me, you're special, i feel right when I'm with you... Research those classic Romance movies, or google love quotes. Titanic, 27 dresses, the notebook, a walk to remember, plenty of guys have long 'win the girl over' speeches. hope this helped you!
Why does my ex bf (who broke up with me 3 months ago) still read my old love letters and text me about them?
Why does my ex bf (who broke up with me 3 months ago) still read my old love letters and text me about them?I can only answer you as a man, and offer you this from a male perspective exclusively.He still loves you. If a man breaks up with his woman, and after 3 months is still reading her old love letters, he is in love with her, plain and simple. There is an easy way to ‘check’ this premise. If he broke up with you 3 months ago, and does not love you at this moment, the last thing he would be doing is reading your old love letters and texting you about them.