Should i tell my girlfriend i slept with her best friend?
last month my girlfriend that i live with went away on business for 2 weeks. While she was away her best friend called me up to see if i wanted to hang out. We went out and had a few drinks. then we were hungry but could not get a table at a resturant as it was to late. So we went back to her place as it was close. We ordered some chinese food and watched a movie together. Next thing shes kissing me. I was like woooo. hold it. I just said got to go and left her house. Next day i called around to explain to her i left because i really loved my girlfriend and that she really loved her, her best friend and she would be really upset to loose her. she said she understood. Then siad she was cooking dinner and asked if i was hungry. i thought yer why not, save me cooking. Had a good meal, watching tv and she starts kissing again except this time she moves very quickly and has her head in my lap before u can say BJ! I feel really guilty but dont know what to do.......
My girlfriend slept with her best friend...?
My girlfriend slept with her best friend before we got together multiple times. They hang out goto the same school she tells me he's always been there for her when she's going through rough times. When other girls try to get with him she tells him they're hoes. He wants to be with her and she tells me all of this like it would comfort me that shes being honest. Did I forget to mention she stays the night at his house now and again because shes known the family since she was a little girl and they are family friends. I expressed my feelings and how I am concerned about these little sleepovers she cries and gets mad at me. Shes stopped talking to me for a few days now and says shes needs time. AM I IN THE WRONG? Im 5'10 in the Army hes 6'7 and plays college basketball
Girlfriend slept with her best friend before we met?
My girlfriend slept with her good friend, a guy she's known since she was 5, before we started dating. She lost her virginity to him and they had sex a few times but it never went anywhere, but that she got mad at the time when he got a girlfriend. She said its a weird relationship. They are still friends and she may go visit him out of state sometime. We've been having sex and she is crazy about me. However, I think that the situation is weird and don't like it. Any thoughts?
My girlfriend slept with one of my best friends before me?
This happened a few months before I started going out with her, it was a one night stand with my friend (who was in a relationship at the time). She says that she regrets doing it a lot, it wasn’t an issue at first but now its really starting to get to me. She hates the guy (and she says that he is disgusting and unattractive ect.) which sort of pisses me off more because it makes me wonder why she did it even more. At the time apparently she liked me a lot, on the night it happened we were round a friends house and I went home, apparently this left her feeling lonely and rejected which is why she did it. Its not like she lied to me I knew it happened and It wasn’t an issue, but not im not sure I can deal with it, sometimes its all I can think about, I cant stand both of them being even in the same room, its really staring to get to me and I think its stopping me love her, I really don’t know what to do??
I found out my girlfriend slept with a friend of mine before we started dating. How should I react?
I had this fear that my girlfriend had some relationship with one of my friends since they have been friends for a lot longer than I knew both of them. Recently, that fear was confirmed. She is very honest with me and I value her trust, so when I asked out of curiosity, she told me that they slept once with each other but is was before she and I knew each other. She stated it was when they were both very drunk and it meant nothing. They don't even discuss it, nor think about it. My girlfriend and I have dated for about a year and a half and we really enjoy each others company. We love each other very much and we are planning on moving in together soon. My friend is also a real cool guy and I hang out with him plenty, she does as well. When they talk it seems as nothing happened. I know what they did is not wrong and they had no bad intentions, since I was no where in the picture. Yet I have this bad feeling in my stomach and it's all I've been thinking about. What should I do and how?
I slept with my friends boyfriend HELP!!?
Last week, myself & my best friend got picked by one of our close friend's boyfriend and his friend to go to their mates house for a party. We didn't realise we was the only girls there but we was familiar with the males present. The guys were rather drunk so we hit the alcohol ourselves. After an hour the alcohol we had consumed made us both quite drunk. There was this guy there which I have liked for at least a year and we kissed so I was over the moon. I then went to the toilet I didn't realise but my friends boyfriend followed me in. He had cut himself on the cupboard so I helped stop the blood. He then came onto me and I pulled away however the second time he came onto me I let it happen. Over the course of the night we kissed secretly several times. My best friend was with him for a while and being drunk she was vulnerable and let his hands down her underwear. At around 6am we all had to get into the same room to get some sleep. I had to share a sofa with my friends...
I have recently found out my girlfriend had slept with a close friend before we got together. I'm struggling to accept it, what can/shall I do?
It's strange that some people here seem to be missing out on the heart of your question.You are not saying that your girlfriend should not have had a life before meeting you. You are not saying that you can't accept her sleeping with other people before meeting you. You are troubled by two thingsThat one of her sexual relationships was with a close friend of yours.That she didn't tell you about this - you 'found out'.Two of the hottest topics on Quora relate to 1) a partner's previous sexual relationships with friends/family, and 2) dishonesty in relationships. Here you have both together. No wonder you are struggling to accept it.Many questions are posted on topics such as 'Is it okay to date my best friend's ex?' and related issues. These things matter to people. If she had had X number of relationships with others before meeting you - but not with your friends - then it would probably have been of much less importance to you. If she had told you about her relationship with your friend before getting romantically involved with you, then you would have been able to handle things better. You would have been reassured by her honesty and would have been able to decide whether to get involved.However, she withheld the kind of information that most people would consider to be highly important to share before becoming involved with someone. This is the main issue for you as far as I can see. Have you asked her why she did this? If it continues to be a problem for you then I do feel you would be wise to end the relationship. When trust is broken it is very difficult to rebuild.