Why my girlfriend wont let me touch her?
My girlfriend and i have been going out for 8 months now. The relationship has been really good so far, until a few days ago. For the first time she did let me touch her butt (witout) clothes..(sorry for the discretion) but she knew i wanted to do something else besides just touching her ***...so at the end she didnt let me. Her reason for her rejection was because in her past...her ex touched her private part while she was drunk and later she found her self feelin like a h*e..now if she did let me touched her the way i wanted that she would feel eve more weird...in other words she feels she was "raped" even though she was only touch witout her permission...i dont consider her my plaything or w.e cuz i do love her nd if i wanted to that wit her was because i DO love her...now i feel like she will never let me touch her..how can i tell her (not convince her cuz i noe thats not right) that shes safe wit me...any pro advise for this issue??? thanx
Girlfriend won't let me touch her?
I'm a lesbian and I've been dating this girl named Dilana since last summer. We've kind of taken it slow.. I'm not sure but right now she can like do stuff to me no problem what so ever. She just won't let me do "stuff" to her if you know what I mean. We make out and kiss and all that other stuff but she just won't have well, sex. I have never seen her naked ever but she has seen me like a billion times lol :D She does stuff to me all of the time and I feel so horrible because she will never let me do it back to her but her and I both know she wants to have sex. I asked her why she wont let me see her or do anything to her and she said "Im too uncomforatable with me body..sorry" She isn't transgendered or anything she just doesn't like her body and I don't know what to do! I try explaining to her I don't care about it and she just says no no its okay. P.S. She isn't a touch-me-not Please help
My girlfriend won't let me touch her?
I'm a lesbian, she's more like a giver not a receiver at all, she says that she doesn't feel comfortable if I touched her down there cause she's a dominant. I get a little bit hurt when she says that cause I want to please her too. Is she not attracted to me sexually?
My girlfriend won't let me touch her?
firstly, you've only been together for less than three weeks...you shouldn't be so worried about it. i was in a relationship for two and a half years with a girl who had been molested as a child and hardly let me touch her...it was really hard for me, even though i understood. you're girlfriend probably feels badly that it's been ALL about her, and although she probably understands, it's extremely frustrating trying to please a person who has sexual difficulties because of being molested. if she is a giving person, which sounds like she is, i am not the least bit suprised that she is denying you touching her. she probably feels selfish and wants her turn at making you feel good. she probably feels like she needs to make something up to you. in fact, i am almost positive that's what it is. i have been exactly in her position. give it some time...get on more even ground, sexually, with her...and you guys will be ok. just remind her that it's not her that had given you the problems at the beginning of the relationship and you'd like to feel more 50/50 now... good luck, it's not an easy situation!
Why wont my girlfriend let me touch her down there?!?
Me and my girlfriend are both 18 and have been together for a little over 4 months. Things have been going great and she seems to be really comfortable with me. Whenever we are together making out she lets me touch her pretty much everywhere. She is fine with my sliding my hands down the back of her pants and rub her ***, she lets me tale her shirt off and feel her up, but i havent tried too hard to go down the front of her pants yet. Mainly i just wanted to take time so that she wouldnt think i was just using her for that because im not. Last night i tried slipping two fingers down her pants to start and she didnt even hesitate, she instantly moved my hand. Why is this? Almost every time we are together she dry humps me but ive been too nervous to reach down and help out. This time she wasnt humping and i just went for it. Since she wasnt as turned on could this be a reason? I only want to pleasure her. How can i make her let me touch her vagina?? Is it ok to talk to her about it
My girlfriend suddenly wont let me touch her, or makeout?
so me and my girlfriend have been dating for a little over 4 months now. We havent had sex but we have our fun and touch eachother. We usually makeout and like she smacks me on the butt and i smack her on the butt etc. But lately i go to touch her on the boobs or butt and she says "no" sternly with a mean face. And when i go to makeout she just kisses me. I dont get it. She pantses me and touches me on my thing though. I obviously have no disease becuz im a virgin and i thought she was comfortable with me becuz she was the one who started all the touching etc. I really am confused. Please help me.
My girlfriend wont let me touch her and im getting impatient?
my girlfriend got rapped by a homeless guy when she was 15. Where both 16 now and whenever i go to touch her she tells me to stop a few seconds after she just told me it was okay. Why is she doing this? She wont trust me with anything and she's constantly studying me and waiting for me to mess something up. I dont push her to do anything physical i always let her decide. I am a guy and i do want some action and I want a girlfriend not a friend.