Best guy friend won't call me ?
I'm Junior in college and I met this guy when I was a freshman. He attends the college a few minutes away from mine. We began to hang out a lot and we even tried to hook up two of our friends ... it didn't work out, But that didn't affect our friendship. Eventually, I decided to go back home for school after my first semester but we both continued to talk. We've continued our friendship for two years now. We would text each other at least three times a week and talk on the phone at least once a week. I would occasionally go back the university to visit my friends and I would always make sure I would visit him also. When I did it was like I had never left. It was so easy talking to him even though I had only been around him in person for a short time before. Last spring semester I decided I wanted to come back to the university and he was so excited when I told him. I went out of town with my friends at the University for spring break and made sure I visited him before I left. He told me that he wanted to be with me but the distance was the only problem. I was very surprised but realized that I felt the same way. We continued to talk like we had before this summer but began to talk more right before the fall semester started. The first couple of weeks everything was fine. He called me every day and even tried to see me every day. He stayed over and we did fool around but we didn't have sex. I made the mistake of not telling him that I’m a virgin. I know it's hard to believe but it never came up. When he asked me if I wanted to have sex I wanted to explain but it was a very awkward moment. That was the first and only time I ever felt that way around him. We fooled around again and he asked again but of course said no. It was still awkward. I decided I would tell him I was a virgin the next day but he couldn't meet up with me. I called him the day after that and he didn't answer. We go to school in Houston so this past weekend I've been really worried about him but he hasn't called. I know I should have told him that I was a virgin but I honestly didn't think it was that big of a deal. He means a lot to me and I hate not talking to him knowing that it’s my fault and that he’s so close I would like to know how I should go about getting in contact with him to let him know I wasn't rejecting him to be a tease and I really to want to be with him.
My best friend won't let me date her guy friend...?
It never fails to surprise me how a friend takes the initiative to introduce you to someone, then acts as if they had no clue that you'd hit it off and want to start dating. This girl is just plain jealous...whether she herself has feelings for Donnie or whether she enjoys the attention she gets from both guys, she knows that would change if you two dated. I don't like the way she's acting and in no way do I think she should have that kind of control over your personal life. She is dating someone else...you have no reason to not date Donnie. So what, maybe she has a little crush on him and wants him available if she and her current beau don't work out? Too bad! Not to mention, if Donnie is any kind of real friend, he wouldn't date her anyway. I'd take the initiative and ask Donnie for his number. Or give him yours. Ask him if he wants to hang out with you sometime. If he doesn't, you'll know he's not interested and you can move on. Good luck!
My best guy friend won't tell me who he likes but...?
maybe he likes you. many guys act that way because he might think that u would not accept him as anything more than a friend, if u want to know if its u then I suggest look at the way he acts when he is around u, and if he gives u any signs then that means that girl is u. Just tell him straight out, do u like me, more than a friend, its ok.. ?, he might stay quite and mught not admit it at first, but u can tell, another thing maybe is that he might not like someone at the moment and he is just saying that so u wount think that he's stupid. I had a friend think this way, one day my cousin asked her best guy friend the same question and he replied almost the same way, she tried to look and see who he might liked, and ended up finding out it was no one cuz he thought he wasnt cool if he didnt like no one. (sounds pretty stupid, I KNOW) hahaha, but some guys are that way (IT took my cousin 4 months to find this out) another might be that the girl he likes might be ur best friend, ur sister, ur cousin, or a girl who u might not get along with and maybe just thinks that u would not accept her. (this also happened to my friend) she was didnt get along with this girl, she asks her best guy friend who he likes, and ended up telling her that he liked the girl she doesnt like, she was in shocked, tried not getting them together, DRAMA and then ended up not being friends anymore. or maybe he is gay. (just kidding) haha I say u should first notice signs of him liking u. then if that is the case approach him and ask him if its u. If he says yes, and u dont like him in that way u just tell him nicely how u feel about it. how the new relationship might not work out cuz the way u guys have been together as friends etc. To me it sounds like he might like you, at the same time he just doesnt know, who, or he is just saying that. Dont be bothering him so much about this, he will get tired and tell u off someday (another experiance there) hahaha! GOOD LUCK! and hope u find out who he likes (thats if he likes anyone) hehehe! Hoped I helped :)
How do I handle a guy best friend?
There really isn't enough detail to go on here, so I'll give you a few options that might help you figure this out. You're going to have to figure out which scenario seems to fit best. He found out another good friend likes you and is following some crazy "bro code" where he creates distance so his friend won't feel jealous of your friendship. - In this case there isn't much you can do, because it's all between two other people, neither of whom has confided in you.He is being teased about liking you even though he just thinks of you as a friend and he's creating distance so they'll stop making assumption. - You also can't do much about this one, since it's all in everyone's heads. This sort of assumption is best ignored. Alternatively, he thinks you might like him and he's trying to avoid telling you he's not interested in being more than friends. - If you don't, you can just make sure he knows who you do like. & If you do, you can make him face your confession and deal with the rejection, or just accept he's not interested based on his actions. Your choice. Don't turn it into a life and death thing in your head, either way. It may feel that way now, but in the long run there are many people who will be lovable in your lifetime. Chances are you won't know if he likes you or not till one of you takes the risk of speaking honestly, because young people aren't trained to communicate well in these situations and the cultural patterns they tend to follow are extremely inefficient.He likes you and doesn't know how to tell you. - If you like him, you confess. If you don't, you let him know you like someone else and let him deal with his emotions however he chooses. Hopefully this helps you think it through, at least. His own choices are his and you can't manage them for him. Whatever you choose for yourself, act with integrity and honesty for yourself and respect his choices even if they seem confusing. The only thing you can do is make sure he knows exactly what you understand from his confusing signals so he can correct you if you're wrong. Misunderstanding isn't the end of the world, and learning to talk things through is healthy for both of you if he's willing to do so. If not, leave him to his choices and let him sort it out on his own.
My best guy friend won't hang out with me one on one anymore what could this mean? I’m a girl.
Been there done that.If you ever get a chance to talk to him be an equal in the conversation about him. I mean like be more interested in him otherwise it's normal human nature to not talk to a person who appears to be not interested in talking to you. For instance if you're always the one to text a person first and you always get one word answers or a vibe that a person is not interested then you most definitely will withdraw yourself from that person ( I know I would)But according to me there is another reason and probably a more logical one. He might even like you and wants your friendship to be take to the next level. I mean you are best friends that according to him is enough for a solid base for a good relationship. ( Monica and Chandler anyone?) He could also be afraid to confess his feelings to you I guess you would say something like We are just friends! ( aka putting him in friendzone).This could be the reason according to me. But hey he's Your best friend you know him better than I do.Hope I helped.Upvote if helpful :)
My best guy friend won't talk to me anymore? What's going on?
We've been best friends for two years!!! We have been inseparable and we would always hang out and call and talk and stuff!!!!! Even over this past summer, we were totally cool! Nothing happened between us! So I have a few classes with him and I said "Hey, how was the rest of your summer?" He just said like a one word answer and then he started talking to other people! We were picking seats and I was going to sit by him but I don't want to sit there if he doesn't want me around so I sat by some other, not as close, friends! :( I texted him and he never replied and it has been a week! I don't know what is going on! Honestly, I do like him more than a friend but I am really careful not to show it and I never told anyone! (So I don't think he knows or anything! :) What is going on and how should I fix it?
What should I do if my guy best friend is lying to me about his personal life (I'm a girl)?
IGNORE HIM.Or just politely change the subject whenever he brings it up and EVERY time he brings it up.Or both. When he brings it up, change the subject immediately. (Even if you have to be a bit rude by being disruptive.). Ignore him, Act like you don't hear him, Then walk away,If you do it enough times. He'll stop. It won't take but a few times for him to get the hint.I promise it will work. Also, don't worry about it starting any trouble. It won't. He'll be to embarrassed to say anything.
Who should I pick, my guy best friend or my girl best friend?
You don`t pick anyone mate, both have made a significant difference in your life and now you cannot muck everything up after they have helped you for so long. Let`s say that you choose your female friend, that will certainly prick the heart of your other friend, won`t it? And as you mentioned, he is supportive and all, so is that what you are paying him with? And losing such an important character in your life?And if you pick the other friend of yours, you will lose the girl, because that will affect her too, and end up having a less enjoyable life, without a loved one. Just tell them, “Look, you both are just like my family, and I love you both equally. In no way, can I choose one of you just the way I would not choose from my father and mother.”. Just don`t pick.
So I had a sexual dream about my guy best friend, Will, that I have known for a while. It felt so real, and I was wondering what it means?
It has been said that dreams are our unconscious thoughts, wants and desires. Its a strong indication that you want Will. Either for sex alone or for more.
My boyfriend won't let me talk to my best friend?
If you're in a relationship and your partner starts trying to control who you can or can not see, it's best to get out of it. If he truly loved you, he'd let you see whoever you wanted and talk to whoever you wanted and would trust you not to betray him. But he's sounding like an over-jealous boyfriend. Your best friend has been there longer than your boyfriend has...if he can't accept the fact you have a good friend that's also a guy, your boyfriend isn't worth keeping. If you don't want to get rid of either one, talk to your boyfriend and try to convince him why he's being irrational. I hope everything goes well. Peace xoxo