My (guy) bestfriend likes me?
As far as I'm concerned, your best friend is the person who you want to eventually end up sharing your life with. But you are very young so you won't completely understand that. What you need to do is tell him that you're not attracted to him in that way and that you just want to be friends. Do not tell him that you don't want to mess up the relationship because in reality that's just an excuse to cover up the fact that you're not attracted to him in that way. Do not be surprised if you two end up not being friends in the future. I wouldn't be able to remain friends with someone who I had feelings for who didn't feel the same way. And don't get into a relationship with him just because you don't want him to leave your life if he decides that he doesn't want to be just friends anymore. Spare him the pain. It won't work out.
My best guy friend tried to have sex with me?
I've met a guy 2 years ago and became good friends. He's Usually a complete gentleman and we study, eat and I've slept over at his house many times (no sex or kissing or anything) he either sleeps on the couch or away from me on the same bed and we don't even cuddle. About 3 months ago, I slept over and that night, he put his arm around me and he kind of pulled me in close and I kinda got uncomfortable and pushed him to back where he was. After than night, things were back to normal until yesterday. We got high off some edibles, (first time) I laid down on his bed because I was too tired. We decided to go to sleep and that's what I tried to do but then he hugs me. About a minute later he gets on top of me and starts kissing me and i don't kiss him back at first because I am so shocked. I push him off and tell him that this can't happen but he gets on top of me again and starts kissing me again and he starts feeling on me and I get kind of turned on but I push him off again and tell him the same thing and this keeps happening again like 4 more times until he finally stops and we both knock out. The next day, we talk about it and he says he is disappointed with himself for having no self-control. I love my friend but I don't want to get into a relationship with him and I think he feels the same. What should I do? I feel so strange and don't know what to do. Those two times are the only 2 times he has tried to get close to me like that btw.
How would you react if your guy best friend told you that he is in love with you?
I married him! LolSeriously though, we dated after he said he loved me for about 2 years. And we never had sex in that 2 years. My curiosity got the best of me, so I asked him how come he never tried anything sexually with me? His response to me was this…I know that you was always so popular with the guys and I didn't want you to think that I just wanted to sleep with you. Other guys told me that I was either in love with you or downright nuts, to not want to sleep with you. I wanted you to know that I loved you for who you are, not for your body…so I guess that makes me crazy huh?I responded…no, It makes me love you even more!
My guy best friend tried to rape me?
Okay, so me and my guy best friend have had many crushes on one another but we've never said anything about it. But yesterday he came to my house, it was about 5:40 and my mum wasn't home yet (work till 7:00) so we were chilling watching movies, then I began to notice he was acting kind of strange. I asked him (lets say his names Michael) what was wrong and he told me he had a dream about me, and I asked him what happened in it, and he leant in and kissed me. I was shocked and pulled away. He frowned at me and said he had to go. I told him not to go and I apologised and said that it was just because I was surprised, he said well prepare to be surprised again and he pushed me against my sitting room wall and kissed me hard. I was into it for a few minutes and we made out passionately until he began grabbing my boobs under my shirt and rubbing my butt, I pulled away and he pulled my head back to his, I pulled away again and he kissed my neck, running his hands up and down my butt. I told michael to stop, but he refused to listen, I shoved him hard in his chest but he grabbed my hands and told me that he knew I wanted it. We were so close I could feel his hard on, It was uncomfortable and was disgusting. He began to take off my shirt and his and pressed his chest against mine. I screamed at him to get out of my house and he came to his senses. He got dressed quickly apologised and left. He's called texted and inboxed me on facebook. But i've ignored them all. I haven't told anyone about this and he's only done this once before but he apologised again for that one too, what should I do?
My best guy friend just told me he likes me...?
Why can you never be the same as you are now? Have you been through this relationship before? Allow me to be honest. (it's what i do best) You have absolutely NO idea what's going to happen here. If you did, you wouldn't have turned to yahoo answers to find out, would you? First off, the fact that he HAS a gf, no matter how badly its going, means that you are unable to make a move regardless of what his feelings and yours are, right now. Trust me, if either of you makes a move while this girl is still involved, this is going to become nightmare on your street. And we'd like to avoid nightmares. which is why i'm giving you this virtual fluffy teddy bear. (hands you teddy bear) There. that's better, right? Now give it back, i need to snuggle. (snuggles bear, continues) Now, you say you only like him a LITTLE. That is interesting, because it means that you are NOT ready to make a move. If you were ready, you wouldn't be having these doubts. My advice? always be true to yourself. If you're not sure, then tell him you're not sure yet. Or, better yet, don't make a move until you feel comfortable doing so. What matters most, in matters of the heart, is to always be true to yourself and the one you love. If you're not in love yet, you can't fake it, right? So don't try. But don't make the mistake of tying yourself into a relationship with a man who's not out of his yet. If he really wants you, he will end what he has with this other girl. As it stands, he's not made any sort of advances other than telling you that he likes you. You have some time on your hands. Use it. Go to the movies or something. Just don't dwell, you'll only worry.
My best friend just told me he was gay. What should I do?
What should I do?Nothing.How him being gay changes anything between you two? He seems to be a great guy, opening up about himself and taking pride in his sexuality and not demeaning himself as someone who's “unnatural”. You should applaud him and cherish him some more. You have a great best friend and you should treat him as you used to before he confessed otherwise he would just think that you, his only best friend couldn't accept him and understand him.Oh and if his sexuality embarrasses you, you are not his friend let alone best friend. Maybe you should avoid him and cut ties with him because he doesn't need someone who is a pseudo-friend and is embarrassed about his identity. He deserves someone better. One more thing dear, maybe you need therapy if this issue disturbs you because it seems that the society got you with it's twisted philosophies and ideals.Celebrate my friend, reach out for some hamburgers and fries, after all the treat is on him. Never let him think that he's wrong and that his sexuality is a hindrance, if anything it's a power. He is the same great, cool guy and the only thing that's changed is that you hook him up with some great guys in the future instead of girls, that's nothing. Oh and he doesn't need your pity in case you were providing it. I must say it one more time because I think you need it, open up the horizons of your narrowed and little mindset mate and have a more mature outlook.Cherish him, celebrate and as best friends do, accept him as he is instead of applying the outdated social paranoias about his great sexuality or spare him your atrocities and leave him alone for the better. Peace!
My best friend (guy) told me that he doesn’t wanna date because he loves me as a best friend and wants me in his future. Yes, he does like me back still, how do I take this?
I apologize for my brutal honesty here, but you asked, so I���m answering.This one’s easy. He doesn’t want to date you. Full stop. From my own experience, if two people want to date/be together, the fact that they are friends won’t stop that from happening. What your friend is doing is letting you down gently.What you can do from here:If not being with him is so painful that you can’t be around him, tell him that you need some space from the friendship for a little while while you work through your emotions. When you feel that you can be friends again without things being emotionally messy, you can circle back around. Or…If him not wanting to date you is no big deal, and won’t affect your friendship in any way, then you can shrug this off and laugh about it later.
When a guy friend says he loves you?
A week or so ago I was having a serious conversation with one of my guy friends, who I adore. During the conversation he said to me: "You have absolutely no idea how much I love you." I don't know how to take this because I have feelings for him and I think he found out. He isn't making any moves though and if anything, things are becoming awkward. How do I know whether he meant it in a romantic way or just a friends-only way? What should I do?
My best friend says she loves me?
When a girl has a best friend who is a guy she WILL get emotionally attached to that guy if they start sharing more things with each other. When you as the guy do that she feels as if she can trust you with anything and you start looking like that dream guy. Its best that if you do not want to go further into a love relationship to be able to pull away slowly. If you tell her with words she may snap so just cautiously pull away but still be her friend because it would suck if you loose her as a friend especially if you guys are close