I had a fight with my best friend because of the guy I was dating. Now, she's mad at me because I just broke up with him because I like another guy and I didn't want to hurt my ex. Now, my best friend is telling me that I'm horrible for doing that. What should I tell her?
She wanted you to stay with someone even though your heart said not to. In effect, she’s angry with you for not living a lie.There may not be anything you can say to this.You are not horrible. You know that. You made the best decision you could. Your friend should recognize this, but for some reason she doesn’t. (I suspect she may have her own feelings for your ex, but that’s me reading too much into your story.)In any case, my best advice is to be patient and hope that in time she will want to understand, or at least get past this so you can be friends again. Whatever you do, please continue to trust your instincts and make the best choices you can.
Please help!!!! Me and my guy friend got into a fight?
I have known him for about 5 years and i had a crush on him. But i never told him because i didn't want to risk messing up our friendship. Plus i found out he had a girlfriend. We always kept in contact and one day he asked me to tell him something he doesn't already know about me so i saw it as my opportunity to tell him that i had a crush on him and he was in shock. But i told him its best we remain friends. He would get jealous whenever he hear that i was hanging out with other guys. I didn't see the big deal since we were not dating and he had a girlfriend. When i would ask him whats up with him, he would get an attitude telling me i can do whatever i want. Two months ago i started dating someone and i told him since then he has been really harsh to me. I used to ask him if he was too busy to talk to me and he would always so "no never that" now he flat out tell me that he is too busy and that he has a life to and i can't always count on him to be there. so last night i told him that i'm over him and that its best if we don't talk anymore and he said watever. what do i do?
How do I solve a fight with my guy best friend? I had a fight with him.
First red flag to your ‘ best guy friend’. If both of you argue (ever) and he never contacts you back (it’s always you to him), he seems like he may be a controlling prick. It may not even be you as a person, but rather him and his childhood and/or who he is now. He may be a self-absorbed narcissist. This unfortunately is very common.I don’t know that anyone is important to that type of person, other than themselves.How to solve a fight over something big or small with such a person? You personally can’t. You can’t. Not really. You can beg for his forgiveness, grovel at his feet, etc..Do you really want to though? What are you getting out of this ‘friendship’ other than the constant notion that you are no where near the totem pole of importance in his self-proclaimed reality of life.
My two best guy friends had a fight over me?
ummmm wow confussing. i think you should get them together and have an honest talk between the three of you. get them to tell you thier feelings for you and if it turns out they both like you don't date either one of them because it'll only resault in another fight :) good luck
Me and my guy friend fight a lot? but we're just friends?
we're both in our 20's and have been friends for about 2 years now. we met through work and have become close friends. he knows i like him but he's never told me he has feelings for me. we tend to fight a lot and argue over dumb things. of course, we get over it and apologize to each other ... question is.. do any of you fight with your friends of the opposite sex a lot? what causes the fighting?
Me and my best friends are fighting over a guy. advice??
well, me and one of my best friend like the same guy. Well he asked her to dance at our dance last week.My other friend insists on being first at everything. She likes this other guy, but now all the sudden she seems jelous of my "dancing" friend. Now on top of that there is rumors that he likes my jelous friend and plans to ask her out, and as of 4:30 yesterday, she announced she likes him and plans to say yes and she has totally forgotten about her other crush. When i asked her what about our friend who danced with him, she replied "oh she won't mind" (she tends to do stuff like this since she knows the dancing friend is too nice to object). It seems like she's trading us in for him. Not to mention she is totally denying that she was jelous from the dance thing. Plus it is now making me sad that he notices my (practically) simese twins(we are together all the time) but not me.
Why would my guy friend (we had a fight recently and we’re not talking anymore) suddenly send me the audio of some girls talking behind my back?
There are two different meanings behind this: He is trying to spark a reaction out of you, and is using this as a little bonus from the fight. This one is very unlikely but, he may be trying to watch out for you and warn you about this other girl talking about you. I doubt this is the reason, but it can be possible.Anyways, he is obviously trying to make you angry considering the two of you ended on bad terms. By making you mad, he is feeling a sense of victory and pride. Don’t let this happen! If you give in, then you are giving him what he wants. Just politely ignore it and move on to newer more genuine friends.
Why does my guy friend, just guy friend! ignore me after our fight?
You have to stop throwing yourself at people to be a rug to step on. If someone is not talking to you, why do you keep trying? Clearly they don't want to TALK. That's when you dusty yourself and tell yourself that you have to move on. It is NOT YOUR PROBLEM. It is His becuase he is one holding the grudge and being bitter. You both made up after the fight, which was suppose to close the lid on the problem, instead, he wakes up out of bed CHOOSING to be bitter and stretching out the problem when it should have been resolved. If he still felt sick about the fight and felt like something wasn't said, why didn't he just talk about it? When there is no communication, how the heck do people expect the other to know how they feel and how to solve the problem? Your friend is doing all the wrong things and the longer performs this act, he's going to find himself losing alot of people in his life. I'm not saying give up, but show some self-respect for yourself. Don't drag by his coattails. Don't look at him, don't contact him, show him that he's just a little obstacle that you'll get over and i'm sure if you go on with life ignoring him back, he'll hate it.
Friendship: Had a fight with my best friend. what should I do?
I don't know. It's exactly not a fight but somehow it is…It happened with me today just a hour back .Little background, I know him for at least 3years and he his stuck in his life because of some personal issues and tried alot that he tried at least once to come out from his stuck situation but I totally failed in that.Whenever he needs me I am there butHe is simply saying he is stuck . He knows this but never tried to come out . If tried he is scared.He is a nice guy but his difficult situation made him a guy who has no feelings , no happiness . He thinks he is happy to be stay alone but internally he is not strong . He is not giving importance to anyone in his life he doesn't think once this is the high time to get out from all this but he doesn't do and blaming me that I am not understanding.I don't want to able to see him like this because he is my very fast friend.Today again when I am trying to explain the things in positive manner he doesn't understand and go in a negative way and his anger get out like a lava.I said him “ tu bol le , Tere andar Jo bahara h usko Nikal le am listening”He misinterpreted my wordings and said me many things and he also said that am irritating him.I was shocked to listen this and cried but can't because at that time I am in a metro but it hurts alot and very peaceful we had cut the call.And after 5 minutes, I called him again and said “ it's ok whatever you feel, if it's your anger or not , we have to stop all this here. Now we don't talk anymore “ and cut the call .But , it's not easy to finish the friendship . I'm shocked too he is completely okay with it. He said it's okay. He never think once what he is saying.It feels bad.I Don't know.. what's next but I pray whatever he wants in his life god will give him and hope soon he will get out from all his problem.Stay happy friend. Bye.Please don't go on my English ignore error..
Boyfriend hit me, my guy friend saw and they got in a fight?
So my boyfriend and I haven't been getting along great lately (I'm 16, he's 17, and my guy friend is 17, by the way). He's been getting really jealous over nothing and just seems to pick fights. He and my guy friend aren't exactly friends, they just kind of put up with each other but have never had any real problems. My boyfriend and I were at the guy friend's birthday party and I do a friendly slow dance with the guy friend, because, you know, it's his birthday and we're best friends. After that, I get a text from my boyfriend saying "find your own ride home, sl*t". And then I saw him head towards the door. I'm totally confused at this point so I chase after him and he just starts yelling at me and I said "What's happened to you?" and he slapped me in this face! So the guy friend comes out of nowhere and just decks him, they get in a fight, the boyfriend left, and I spent the night [cuddling] with the guy friend. What should I do? I wanna give my boyfriend another chance but that'd be stabbing my guy friend in the back because I think he's always kind of liked me.