I've cheated on my wife and got another woman pregnant with twins. Help!?
Don't expect to get a lot of respect from the women on here. Obviously, you need to fess up to your wife. Maybe you can work it out.. maybe not. However, just b/c the other woman said she didn't sleep with anyone else doesn't mean she's not lying to you. I mean, you've lied to your wife... what makes you think some random woman wouldn't lie to you? If there is a chance they are yours, don't just take resposibility. Get a paternity test first. If it turns out they are your kids, then take responsibility. Hopefully, you can work things out with your wife if you still love her.
My bf told me he'd leave me if i got pregnant, is this a good reason to break up with him?
it's also a reason not to get pregnant. either way, it's your choice - and isn't that what being a woman is all about? the power of choice?
Babies daddy left me for another woman?
Just stand strong! you can do this on your own! my sister went through the same thing! guys can be deadbeats but in the end after 9 months of denying the baby he held his son and he has been a wonderful father! I can understand how bad it must hurt you to know that he helped create a beautiful baby and want's nothing to do with you or the baby. And also you will get back at him in the end because he will have to pay child support for that baby too!and believe me no man likes to hear the words DOMESTIC RELATIONS!
He left me for another girl while I am pregnant. She said that she won’t leave him alone until I prove that the baby is his. Should I let go or fight for my baby to have a father?
I'm sorry.That is sad,think if he is a good man, if he is truly the father, and a good man than he will come back. The child should have a father figure. If not this man, find one who will be faithful to you, but most importantly; be committed and marry each other, that's what’s wrong in today’s society; that couples wont marry and stay married.FIGHT, if you did nothing wrong, and the man is the father, FIGHT to get him to see reason, to see that he really does want you.BUT, don't push yourself on him in a bad way, be kind and motherly, and womanly, and gentle. Be what a woman should be and show him that YOU will be a good mother. If he sees that you are a better woman than the one he left you for, if he is a good man; he should come back. If he still doesn't after you do all this… you should probably let him go.BUT that does not mean you shouldn't find a father figure. It is SO important for a child to grow up with a stable family. SO important. Its heartbreaking to see what some families are these days. Don't let your child go through that. Especially for a son.I hope you find a good man, or your man comes back. I wish you so much luck with this. You are in my prayers.AvaBeno
How does a man feel when his wife or girlfriend is pregnant with his child?
Apart from amazing feelings, this is what I really felt during my wife pregnancy:When I saw her first few weeks vomiting I prayed god more than 1000 times for cancelling her pregnancy.I cried everyday because she is full bed ridden and just survived with drinking milk and vomiting it immediately.I felt like hitting doctor when he says that it is normal and nothing to worry.Throughout her pregnancy every time I see her suffering, I asked god why couldn't he give the pregnancy to me :)" Funny? But I really mean.And I scolded god every time when I see her suffering :)Asked god not to reduce my love on wife and her love on me due to baby :)God, please, please run days, months as fast as you can.Started recollecting all mistakes I have done since my child hood, started asking god to forgive me.Decided like 'see only positive and be friendly with everyone', so that god will keeps my baby happy :)Felt like do more good, see more good, listen more good. So that god will bless my baby with healthy and happy living, as there is a saying in Indian tradition that What Parents do (good/bad) will reflects on Child’s future.OMG. I couldn’t imagine or dare to think for more time how my mother given birth to 4. If I would come to know about the pain of pregnancy before I born, I could have told god that I don't want to born :)people might think I might over exaggerated, but these feeling came through my heart every time when I see my wife during pregnancy.
I'm pregnant and my boyfriend left me! :/?
First of all, I'm sorry about all this pain... but, congratulations. You sound like you have a WONDERFUL, supportive father and you are very lucky. He's right, this is a blessing...and, don't let them pressure you into an abortion. My Mother had one, that her boyfriend pressured her in to when she was around 19, and she never got over it. She regrets it and feels like it was a sin. I'm a Christian as well and think you should keep the baby, and this child will be such a blessing. It will be hard, I'm not going to sugar coat that...but, hit that LOSER up with child support. He HAS to pay it, so that will help a lot with the financial aspects. If you're young or broke, you can also get government help with diapers and formula. It sounds like your father is there to help you as well, which is better than most girls could say...my Dad would of killed me. Your ex sounds like a total loser, and a Momma's boy. Who tries to push their girlfriend into an abortion? That's HIS BABY. What a JERK. Sorry, that pisses me off. You are carrying this biggest blessing in the whole world, and that baby will be the biggest joy in your life. It's going to be depressing and lonely...but when you see your baby for the first time...find out if it's a boy or girl...and one day, you WILL find a man that will love you and your baby if your ex doesn't come around...it will be worth it. Don't kill your child to make your ex happy. Don't wait around for him. Get excited about this new life inside of you. I've had 5 miscarriages and would give anything to be in your shoes. It's such a blessing. Your father sounds like he will help you, I think things will be okay. Your ex is a loser, end of story. Don't waste any time worrying about him. If he loves you at all, he'll come around...at least for his baby. God bless!
BOYFRIEND LEFT ME 7.5 mos pregnant with twins !!!?
He's a worm. Not a father. I know this really sucks, but you are going to have to pull up your bootstraps and make it without him. It is a tough hard road, but for your kids you have no choice. This man is not worth wasting your time on right now. You need to spend time on YOU and getting your life workable for you and your kids. Besides, the more you want him, and the more he knows you want him.....the more he is going to push you away and go for this young girl. As soon as you stop acting like you like him or care, and get involved in you, he will dump her like a hot potato. He has power over you wanting him. Let him go. He loses the power. Work on yourself, and you will have the power, and chances are.....you will no longer want him.
My boyfriend left me pregnant what should I do?
let him cool off maybe he just needs some time to think about it , especially if you just came right out and told him. If he doesnt start turning around in a couple days and says hes sorry then move on you dont need him. I raised my 3 kids for 4 yrs on my own till i met my boyfriend im with now and hes three times more of a man then my ex ever was
My girlfriend got pregnant by her ex before they broke up and she found out after we'd been together. What should I do?
Respects to your girlfriend. As she has mentioned, it’s her problem and she has to deal with it. First of all please realise that you are getting prepared to break this relationship or else you wouldn't have asked this question. All you want now is some solid base to break this liaison so that you don't feel guilty. It’s completely alright. because you don't have to be guilty. I really want to give you some facts to analyze. 1. It’s totally fine to date / marry a pregnant woman, but in your case you never knew she was pregnant it came as a total surprise. Sorry, it’s not going to work. 2. If she chooses to have the child and you commit to stay with her it’s a HUGE responsibility. It’s a life, it’s a little pair of fragile arms and legs and you are totally responsible for that innocent life. Are you sure to spend your blood, sweat and tears on some other guy's genetic offspring? Because once you commit you are NOT backing off. 3. Pregnancy leaves stretch marks, saggy breasts & C section scars. If only you love her with all your heart and soul you will be able to deal with it. 4. When building a relationship with someone we always want to be the primary focus of their life. It has to be you and her, with a kid you will never be the one. I am not telling it's a bad thing, it’s totally fine if you are okay with it. 5. There are chances the new born reunites the mom and dad. That guy might be a jerk before but once he comes to know that he is a father he might want to be an ideal boyfriend or "father of the year" nominee. In such case what will be your stand? Hanging stranded? No one want's to compete with some babydaddy. Do you? Please don't get fooled by emotions, if you fall prey for your feelings now and regret it later it will make rest of the life hell for both you & your girlfriend. As she said, leave her. If you can, be a support, be a friend. Who knows she might be strong enough to raise her child by herself, she might consider a patch-up with her ex or in a long run she might even find someone who falls not only for her strength but also for her child’s innocence. Let her sort out her life. If you still decide to stay, ensure you stay with them till your last breath, no matter what. Make sure your live as the child's dad, don't ditch her in between; don't make the child long for a man to call his/her own; don't break the childs heart after making him/her fall in love with you. Good luck.