Confuse over ex-gf. Pls help.?
My ex-gf ended our 2 months relationship 1 month ago stating that I was not good enough for her and my bad attitudes. On the day of the breakup she told me that she has a new bf and she started seeing him about a week. Recently she messaged me and asked me how's my life, work etc. Till today I feel disappointed with her and also felt that I had been cheated. Is it a natural feeling? Should I still keep in contact with her and treat her as a friend? Or should I cut her from my contacts? I am so confuse. Please help. Thanks! Much appreciated
The problems in my life... pls help me?
You sound like you have been through so much but killing your self will never get rid of the pain you have endured. I think if you tough it out things will turn around for you just think whenYour are more grown up you will be a man not what you think a man is but a true man. I think you will be a great father and a great husband. Never follow in the steps that you hate don't let them consume you. Do me a favor and get your hands on this book its called [A child called it] My best friend told be about it. Its about a child that grows up with an abusive mother she treated him horrible. She made him go to school with the same clothes if he ate lunch and she found out about it she would make him puke then eat it when he was a baby she made him eat his diaper she even stabbed him. He grew up to be a good father and husband. It is a true story too. I have not read it but my best friend told me about it. If you truly want to go back to SA you should you need to live for you and no one else. My best friend also told me that she is very smart i can honestly say she is the reason i like living she is the only person i have ever felt love for. I think you should find some one like that in your life someone that will make you feel better. If you want to you can add me as your contact i can be there for you as much as i can and i can ask my best friend she is good with this sort of thing just don't go throwing your life away for no reason i cant tell not to i can only give you reasons why you shouldn't do anything that you will regret. Well i hope i could help you out don't forget its your life what you do with it is your choice just don't throw your life away because of the past live for the future. My contact name is tresk495 if you want to contact me i can help you out as much as possible and i can give you advice if you need it i cant say it will be good or bad but i can tell you i wont steer you in a wrong direction. I hope you are happy with the choice you make and i hope to hear from you in the future if you have any other problems or just want to chat. Later...
GIRLFRIEND CRIES OVER EX??? Help pls?
My girlfriend still cries about her ex boyfriend and talks about him often, she told me how much she hates the guy and how amazing i am that no one ever treated her like i did and she said that shes madly inlove with me, and i love her with my life too. I used to be just a friend and i asked her out 2 months after they broke up but before that i was her crying shoulder and she fell inlove with me, shes still friends with the guy and talks with him, and still has all the stuff he gave to her. She keeps on saying that she should get rid of them but she never did, i dont want her to feel bad by asking her about her feelings for this guy and im actually afraid of the answer, if youre in my situation. What would you do?
Made mistake on omegle. can't get over it:( pls help me?
please no negative comments, I know what I did was wrong. So about a year ago I started going on my dads laptop and going on omegle. I knew what kind of people were on there sometimes, but usually just skipped by. After a while of using the site I thought, why no just try and talk to those guys? I thought it won't so anything because no on will find out. I started by just watching the guys and talking to them. but eventually it got to the point where they would ask me to do stuff like take of my top blah blah blah. And it only got worse, I'm sure you can imagine what I'm saying. I would basically do anything they asked. But recently it has been really coming back and making me realize how dumb I was. I mean I don't even know how many times I did it. A LOT. But I constantly think so badly of myself even though I would never do that again. I have changed. I still cry about it every day and I feel sick and have lost interest in most activities. I started seeing a therapist. my questions are, do you think anyone is going to find out?? I think I only ever showed my face once out of all the people. and can you give any advice on how to stop the constant putting myself down and not forgiving myself. I need to stop:( I don't feel happy anymore, it's always in my head.
Please help. Stomach pain and fatiuge ruining my life.?
First, I would find another GI doctor. A good one? They do more testing than this, truly. There is a LOT more to look for. Parasites, pancreatic insufficiency, h. pylori infection, bacterial overgrowth (SIBO), lactose intolerance, fructose intolerance (both need a breath test), crohn's disease (needs a colonoscopy, at least). Heck, I even had a pill cam done, to see the whole intestine and what it looked like. Oh, and then there is every food intolerance known to man except for the two stated above - these have NO test and require an elimination diet with a food journal to track what you eat and how you feel. And gluten intolerance is included in this list. It is different from celiac disease and a celiac test will NOT test for gluten intolerance. Only an elimination diet will. On top of that...they did the test for celiac disease incorrectly in your intestine. The current standard is for at least 4 biopsies. This is because the damage from celiac disease can be invisible to the naked eye, so they literally have to guesstimate and hope they pick the right 'patch' to biopsy and catch the damage. there's about a 20% false negative rate on celiac testing as a result, both for blood and biopsies. I would make sure you get a copy of the celiac blood test too, and check it against information online. If the doctor was ignorant enough about celiac disease to biopsy incorrectly, then they might be ignorant about the blood testing, too. There are multiple blood tests to choose from. some are better than others. Some require ANOTHER blood test to be done at the same time, because a % of celiacs are deficient in the relevant substance tested and so get a false negative. On top of that, some doctors read the tests wrong and think that one negative means it's negative. When in fact it's the other way around - one positive trumps all the negatives, in blood tests, typically. So...still a chance you could actually have celiac disease. Trying a strict GF diet might be worth it, honestly. Also, the inflammation? That's from something. People I know with allergies have mentioned having this result on their endoscopies, for example. good luck!