Parents seriously spoil my little brother!!!?
There is always that one child in the family that always does good and another child(ren) that always does bad. Well, it's obvious to say that you are the good child. I was in your shoes so many years ago. My parents never showed their appreciation for my achievements until I became an adult. The same is most likely going to happen to you. For example, I told my parents that I was going to try out for the drum major position in marching band. Neither parent looked happy about the news. Of course, I was one of the two people chosen. When I was on my way home, I decided to look really sad to make it looks like I didn't make it and then give them the great announcement. Well, I did just that and bursted out in joy that I was the drum major. My mom didn't smile, come up and hug me, or anything that would show how proud she was of me. She had a disappointed look on her face and said, "The whole day I was preparing myself to comfort you for when you told me that you didn't get the position." I couldn't believe my ears. What kind of parent would ever say something like that to their child. Well, my siblings are quite the mess. And I'm happy to say that my mom tells people how proud she is of me. She has made many other nice compliments directly to me. I have to admit, it was well worth the wait. The best thing you can do is keep on doing what you do now. Learn from your parents' mistakes and use them for when you have kids of your own. Eventually, your parents will see the error of their ways. :)
My brother abuses me what do i do?
okay, so im only 13, and my brother is 15-16. Everyday, my brother hits me and yells at me, and swears at me, etc. he hits me with ANYTHING and everything. last night, i was on the couch and he told e to get off, and i told him to sit beside me cuz i dont want to get off, and he just flings me across the room and starts beating me. He does this ALL the time. Also, my other brother that protects me is never home because he is at work or with his girlfriend. So, my brother takes an opportunity to hit me freely. He always punches me. He has broken my arm before because he threw me down the stairs and started hitting me. And he took out one of my teeth by punching me. Everyday he is hitting me and punching me. I am really scared of him. My parents are not here and my eldest brother (the one that protects me) is in charge of us. My parents are over seas for 3 months. My room does NOT have a lock. i don't know what to do. Everyday i think about running away or calling the police, but that is not an option. Also, he hits me infront of my friends but never in public, he always pretends to be the best outside, but when we get home he his me. He often chokes me when he is in a bad mood, or something happened to him.. Please help me! I dont know what to do, I am scared in my own home. I always have to beg my friends not to tell anyone because they see him hit me and they DO try stopping him, be he pushes them aside. As you know, i do try hitting back but he gets even more mad! And im much younger than he is so i cant really do anything about it. I hate my life. today in the morning i was eating, and he lifted me up and threw me on a big metal thing we have in our house. and i often get bruises from him. I am sorry this is so long, but i really want help! please do not tell me to call someone because i love my family and i can't thin of breaking it up. My parents already want a divorce so this will make it worse! Please help me! im terrified of him. Thanks in advance.
My younger brother physically abuses me.?
It's possible he may have some psychological issues going on. If you don't think that's the case, then try asking his school principal or teachers how his behavior in class is. You may not be the only one he's acting this way towards. You may not want to do it, but one day, you may have no choice but to call the police on him. What he is doing is assault, and yes, he is old enough to get in trouble for it.
My close friend physically abuses her brother, her housemaid and lots of people around her often. What should I do?
If she’s your close friend, you will know that she needs help. Neither of you will like any sort of change but the situation warrants bitter medicine. However, both of you and everyone involved will like the better person she might turn into. Heck, she might turn the opposite and go ahimsa and become a crusader for peace.Call 911. She wont get into anything serious (you shouldn’t be scared at this point that you’re turning your friend into a prisoner) because she might spend a night or two in jail while the police figure out what to do. They will come to a conclusion that she would need counselling and anger management. Which she genuinely does. If you suggest this straight up, she wont listen, but if its ordered by the police or the judge, she will go through and learn her true issues.If you’ve come this far to ask others’ opinions, you know you have a major responsibility on your hands. Dont chicken out now. Be brave and do it. Take help from your husband or close friends or mutual friends if needed. The worst you can do is ignore it. If you dont resolve this now, it will stay for a long time, possibly many years and who knows, one bad day, one alcohol induced fight, one bit of extra anger, could easily turn this into a murder case. Be strong.
My brother sexually abused me?
okay.. i know this is weird but pls dont judge me... its a little deep but i need some answers.. Im 14 right now & my brother is 19 now. When i was around ages 8-10 and he was around 13-15 he sexually abused me. he would lick me, touch me & try to stick his thing in me.. it wouldnt ever fit .. but he would do it to me alot like at night sometimes during the day. and he would make me do stuff to him. it made me feel so horrible & i wouldnt wanna do it sometimes... when i didnt he'd say he would give me his game cube or something and i would agree. i felt so horrible. he stop when i turned 11 or some idk and i would start humping my little brother who was around 6 or 7 and i barely did that to him .. i feel so horrible.. im so glad i didnt go any farther.. but now my older brother is so mean to me. He always tellin me im stupid or worthless & he never hugs me or tells me he loves me. nothing. it hurts so much.. i know i should hate him but i dont. i love him so much not like a sexual way like a brother way. but he always hugs and sleeps with my little brother and if i try and sit next to him and talk to him he just hits me and yells at me. i just go and cry in my room. and my little brother is like my bestfriend. he means alot to me too. i havent told anyone. i just need help. what do i do.
My brother abuses my cats! Plz help?
So I have a seven year old brother, kinda chubby, likes to punch... It sounds pretty stupid but he gets revenge on my by abusing the cats. When I came home yesterday, my one of my cats, only seven months old, was found struggling in a backpack for who knows how long. He also holds the other one; a twin, by the legs and swings it around. Sometimes I hear it hit the wall. But when I go in there to try and rescue the cat, my brothers start pushing me out of the room and holding the door shut while I hear the cat squeak and them giggling. No joke, I ve seen him and my parents don t care. I ve started to notice my cats hiding under my bed, or staying in the litter box all because of my little brother and my big brother. He s the one who taught my lil bro about using the cats as a weapon, like running it into the door. I mean...he s fourteen, shouldn t he know better? Am I just worrying too much? Should I do something about it? We might get rid of one just bc of it, so this is my last option! :0
My brother is abusing my mom. What should I do?
Punch him in the face may be? A person abusing your mom will never think twice before abusing you? It’s better to stop him if you cannot do anything please seek advise from some elder or report to police. Never be quite and become a victim, fight for your rights.