My little brother hit his head, what should I do?
It is about 4 am and I was trying to fall asleep when I heard a big thump. I went outside my room and saw my brother lying on the landing of our stairs. He told me that he had slipped on something on the stairs and fell backwards and hit his head on the ground. He didn't fall far though, he had only made it up about 3 or 4 stairs before he fell. But he won't get up because ehe says he's dizzy. He is only 11 and I'm 13. I tried waking my mom or dad up but they both have problems ith sleeping well so they take sleeping pills and after they take those they are out cold. Very difficult to wake up. I told him to go lye down and he did. I don't know if that was the right thing or not. To be honest, I have no idea what I should do. Please, help me... What should I do?
I just hit my brother. what should I do to make him feels better?
You don't tell us how old you or your brother are, so I cannot give you as complete an answer as I would like to. Your age and stage of mental and emotional maturity makes a big difference in what I would recommend.Bottom line: apologize. Tell him that you know what you did was wrong and that you are sorry you did it. Tell him how you really feel about him. Do you love him? Probably, because he is your brother. So tell him that you love him. Ask him for forgiveness. If he can't give it right away, don't feel bad. Some people need an emotional cooling off period before they can forgive and move on. Especially if the person is very young.When you are both ready to move past what happened, then follow his lead as to what to talk about and do together.Both of you need to learn to be kind to and forgiving of each other. Sibling relationships are very special. No one else in our lives will be with us from near the beginning of those lives to the end. How much more we will enjoy each other's company and learn from each other if we make the effort to stay friends with our brothers and sisters. The best way to do that is just to be kind to each other. Start now and you can have a friend for life.
My mom hit my little brother?
Sweetheart, Call your father right away! tell him that you are very scared and need to get out of that house a.s.a.p. tell him to come get you and your brother. if there is a window in the room then exit out it with yourself and your brother and go somewhere where your mother cant hurt or threaten you. in other words hide from her. if you see that she comes back make sure that there is no way possible that you or your brother could be seen or heard. good luck deary! <3 lots of love <3 sorry for my grammar..\:
What incident made you realize that your little brother/sister has grown up?
I’m a sophomore and he's a senior, he's actually older than me.Tomorrow is his prom! Can you believe that??I’m in shock, how time has become so slippery in my fingers…to think he actually found a date.I feel as if it was just fucking yesterday when he would ask me stupid questions and say stupid things like: “How do you get rid of a scalp?” or “I have hair on my armpits, lemme see if you do too.”My big brother has grown up, already at 17 now. Pretty soon 21, then 30, then 45… He’s grown up into everything I’ve hoped.I think the direness of the situation finally hit me about 2 weeks ago.Me and him usually ride the bus together to school. We always also sat in the same seat on the bus since we were in elementary school. It was just something we did. I think it might’ve been an unconscious pacification method we both fostered…However, this day, my brother sat in another seat…leaving me alone. He had never done that before. I turned to watch him for awhile, he didn't even turn to look back at me. Feeling the awkward missing prescence next to me, it began to sink in.It is only a couple of weeks until he's gone, only a couple more weeks until we both came across a split in paths, only a couple of weeks until I suddenly have no one to bother, only a couple of more weeks until he's all grown up…Only a couple of more weeks until he won’t need me anymore….I felt the clenching of my heart around the news of his absence, the sharp stinging of tears in my eyes, the clenching of my fists, the soft pangs of sadness in my chest…I wasn’t ready for him to leave. But he is ready to leave.I surprisingly found myself quite all right with that though.When your siblings grow and come to a point where they no longer need you… you’ve done everything right.When he's left the nest, left to become someone; I realize I must also find a way for myself as well. I too also need to no longer need his presence.
My baby brother fell on his head, please help!?
I was watching my brother (16 months) for my mom. i was reading to him on my bed, and all of a sudden he stood up, i guess he lost his balance, and fell off the bed. it just happened so fast i couldnt catch him. my bed is probably about 3 feet high, and i have wood floors in my room. he fell directly on his head. i picked him up really fast and held his head, kissed him, and tried to calm him down. he was just screaming at the top of his lungs, and his eyes got really wide. he scared me so bad. it happened about ten minutes ago, and he is still kind of whimpering and rubbing his head. im so scared i let him get hurt. could he have been seriously injured? should we take him to a doctor? his head felt fine after it happened. no blood or anything. what do i do? my mom is mad at me because i let him fall. i am just so worried about him. any ideas? thanks.
What should I do when my brother hits me?
My Indian brother is the same. He was verbally and physically abusive and has slapped, punched , kicked me; called me a 'bitch' and much much worse. I've cut him off from my life and my heart. I no longer speak to him or acknowledge that he is alive and do not consider him my sibling. Your parents are cowardly. The typical Indian parents who favor the son and indirectly shift the responsibility for his violent behavior on to your head. Mine were the same. It's NOT your fault. Your brother has mental issues and he is venting on you, using you as a punching bag. Your parents are NOT protecting you as they should. By blaming you and not rebuking your brother, they are reinforcing your brother's violent behavior. My advice is IGNORE and STAY AWAY from him. DO NOT let him hurt you physically. STOP talking to your brother. PRETEND that he does not exist. Keep your interactions with him minimal. If he tries to start an argument with you DO NOT engage him, ignore him, go to your room and lock the door. Study hard, get a job and move out.
What do I do when my younger brother hits me?
You should become another disappointment for him by not letting him beat you.Who cares whether he is younger, they say “age is just a number!”, so what you have to do is, hit him every time he hits you so that he knows his boundaries.Secondly from the above act, subconsciously he would understand that he will feel pain every time he hits you so I guess he will stop doing that.We should never let kids do what ever they want as this foolish act of his can be disastrous for the society as a whole as well as for himself, as I cant even imagine how stupid he would look like if he do the same act in his twenties and you will have deep bruises and few broken ribs etc.However you can explore why he wants to hit you specifically, may be he likes you or may be he is jealous of you because mom loves you sooo much or simply may be he is a potential psychopath.Therefore if you successfully identify the actual reason, we may be able to better treat him.Stay Cool, Let him know his boundaries, Analyse the reasons, Fix it, Enjoy!
My older brother is in a coma, I feel responsible?
It was 3 days ago, that a drunk hit my 23 y/o brother's car head on and now he's in a coma. I feel somehow responsible, although I know it's not my fault, because of the way I treated him pretty much all my life. We should have been close, but we weren't -- although he is only 6 years older than me --from the day I was born he always protected me, always hugged me and said he loved me, but I never ever hugged him or said it back. When I was little, I was a real brat, and I treated him like crap. When I was 12, he left for college. When he came home that summer he hugged me and said he missed me, but I told him I didn't miss him. For some reason I just liked being mean to him, because he always just brushed it off and he never got mad at me. Now, he's in a coma. They won't know anything about his condition til the swelling goes down from his brain. I never showed my feelings because I was too prideful. Could I somehow have caused this? Plz help I don't know what to do!