My little sister is being bullied, what do I do?
People who are feeling confident and secure and have self respect don't feel a need to call people names, criticise, bully, shout, etc. If we react to verbal bullying, we are giving the bully the attention and emotional reaction he/she wants. If you ignore them, they will know that they are getting to you. Make sure the bully knows that you have heard the remark or whatever with a disinterested glance or verbal acknowledgement (such as, "oh"), then ignore them. Why should you care what people without self respect think? They can hardly expect you (or anyone) to respect them if they do not respect themselves. They feel a need to have someone fear them (pathetic!), but if you don’t, they will soon turn to someone else. They would love to be respected and liked, of course, but don’t know how. Try very hard not to argue or even defend your viewpoint with the bully. All you do is to give his remarks credence, and ammunition for further verbal abuse. Physical bullying is different. If she has told you the truth she has been assaulted and needs to tell the authorities. Her teachers (etc.) have a duty to keep her safe and she (or better still your parents) must tell them that if they cannot do that they will have to find someone who can, such as children's services or the education authority. However, the best thing she could do is to learn to defend herself. There are plenty of videos on Youtube which you could watch and practise together - and better still there are self defence and martial arts classes in most areas.
How can I help to my little sister to understand math easily?
Stop, Look, and Listen:First, your mom needs to STOP -- if these exercises your mother is forcing her to do are driving her to tears, that is a form of mental and emotional abuse.Second, your family needs to LOOK and LISTEN to find the root of the problem. Don't ask how to make her understand it -- try to find out why she doesn't understand it. There are a lot of reasons she might be having difficulty with understanding maths, and asking her might shed some light on the trouble, but looking at the exercises and materials used to teach her could also help.There are different learning styles that might help -- mathematics are actually a very abstract subject area, so sometimes just being presented lists of numbers and memorizing solutions doesn't help students. Try doing maths with things, not paper. Blocks, dolls, food -- making the numbers connect to the physical world can help, but even that isn't always the solution. Maybe your sister needs to be keep active while trying to learn and do maths. And maybe it's not about learning styles:It's possible that there is an actual developmental disorder at play here, such as some form of Dyscalculia, which means she has an actual mental difficulty with numbers and arithmetic that may not affect her in subjects unrelated to numbers. If this is the case, you need a qualified professional to help your sister.
My mom makes me do my little sister's homework? What should I do about it?
Please read details. I'm a college graduate fast tracking through a second degree so I can apply for medical school. My sister is a senior in high school. I can't find work, so I'm still living at home. Now, I've always HELPED my sisters with their homework within reason—critiquing essays, explaining math problems, quizzing them on spelling etc. But now that my sister is a senior and has too much on her plate, mom's not only started doing her homework, but demanding that I do some of it too—particularly writing essays, because my degree is in English (I planned to be a teacher, but can't get hired anywhere). I try to be nice about it and say that I'll proof-read a rough draft, or even help her brainstorm, but my mom starts screaming at me about being lazy and trying to wiggle out of my "responsibilities." I'm overloading in lab science courses this semester and don't have the TIME to do my sister's homework for her, but that aside I feel that it's WRONG. However, my mom says that if I don't stop being an ungrateful little *blank* she's gonna kick me out, and then starts crying about how I turned up just as selfish as my father (who's long gone). Right now my sister is applying to college and for scholarships and my mom is demanding that I write the essay applications for her because they're "worth thousands of dollars" and "we can't afford it otherwise, because we spent all our money on you." She blames me for my sister's decision to take college classes while she's still in high school in order to "get through school faster so it doesn't cost us as much money." I know my step-dad would never kick me out, but he works out of state and isn't around to make sure mom isn't harassing me. I really don't know what to do, because I feel guilty trying to say no, but more guilty for doing it. I don't have the job or the means to move out, but my mom is very good at making everyone's lives miserable. My sister rarely asks me to outright do her homework for her, but if she objects when mom makes me do it, mom just says to be thankful I can't do it because she wouldn't be able to get into college otherwise and that it's my responsibility as her big sister.
My little sister is a f*cking spoiled brat?
Sorry about the long essay haha i guess it's not the best way to vent but i reall need some help on this one... My little sister is the most selfish, stupid and most spoiled person on the planet. She has no respect for anyone and only listens to my dad (because she is scared of him) For example: Today all i wanted was to sit on the couch and watch some TV, she was laying n the couch so i said "can you move your feet so i can sit?" and she yells "no i was here first" so i sat down anyway (in a way that didn't crush her feet) and then she starts kicking and screaming at me to get off and go away saying that she was here first and i should go watch TV somwhere else. When i explained to her that no i didn't have to leave because i have just as much right to be there as her she then started full on attacking me. Kicking, punching, screeming, nails digging into skin. So when i defend myself by holding her down or pushing her away she starts crying and whining off to mum. mum doesn't know how to parent at all. she just wants the crying to stop and gives her whatever she wants (also the reason my little sister is almost obese) and I get punished for my sisters unreasonable attitude. My Dad is no better, apparently she is "only" 9 and can get away with it while i am the big bad sister who should be more mature! I mean come on! Why does she get away with everything and controll what i do? I know it's stupid to fight over the TV but this kind of thing happens with almost every interaction I have with my little sister. To get her way she thinks she can physically abuse me and if i respond she goes running off to mummy so i get in trouble and she still gets her way! This is total lunacy! what can i do?
My little sister has a freaking dildo!?
ok well just about like 10 minutes ago i was looking for the pencil sharpener. i searched through the entire house and then i thought it would be in my sisters room. so when i was about to knock i heard some weird noises so i opened the door a little crack and saw my sister without her pants on and using a damn dildo! like after my mind processed what was going on i ran to my room and turned on the computer and started writing this question. my question is should i tell my mom about it or should i keep it a secret. my little sister is only 12 years old and i dont know where she got it. What should i do?
My little sister thinks she has authority over me!?
You need to calmly explain to your mom that you are really worried about your sister. Her behavior is out of control and she's probably one really miserable kid. You don't say if this kind of thing happens at school but, if it does, your mom needs to speak to a guidance counselor. Again, don't dwell on what she has done to you and your brother. Talk to your mom about your concern that your little sister is spiraling out of control and needs help. In my house, it was the opposite. My older sister was undiagnosed bipolar. She attacked me on may occasions with fire, knives, heavy objects. (I was a speedy little one!!) Complaints to my mom resulted in her saying she could only handle one major problem at a time and I'd just have to live with it and stay out of her way. I know now how hard this situation was on my folks but it was bad for me too. It took 25 years before my sister & I really started getting together as family without bad feelings.
What do sisters say are the qualities that make a great sister?
Secret keeper : Every girl wants a sister who can keep all her secrets.. yes they can do it without sharing them to any person.Authoritative : My sister often says I never want to make you feel alone that's why I keep disturbing you.. Those people who disturb me with all rights are my favorite kinda people.Talkative : From crush to love from school to office all things are discussed between sisters.Fights : And they add spice to your relation so fight often.Team : You are bound to be in one team when it comes to taking class of brothers.Advices : You get such amazing advices that only a sister can give no one else.Love : If there is love nothing else is required.
What is it like to have an elder sister?
I’ve a cousin and she is two years elder to me. Growing up with her has been the most amazing experience undoubtably.Here are a few things which, according to me, is the essence of all the ‘sister-sister’ bond.# 1 . Crushes come and go but a sister and her wardrobe is for life. Yes, we share and borrow stuffs all the time, clothes especially . It’s a part of our cordial relationship.2. When your mom is out for long and you’re a terrible cook, she becomes your saviour.3. Just tell her about your crush and she’ll prove she could be an excellent FBI agent.4. She never fails to add extra sparks when your parents scold you.5. Ever seen elder sisters getting possessive of the younger ones? Yeah, those protective instincts are priceless. :p6. Yes, her precious possessions will surely consist of your weirdest photos which she would use to get things done. Right?7. Partners in crime and in shopping? Definitely.8. We fight over petty things .9. And those never ending blame-games ♡10. But we also patch up really quick.11. The tireless talks we hold and the wierd stuffs we try out together is as refreshing as early morning tea.12. She never buys your fake smiles however good an actor you are. She is one of those who understand your emotions even before you express them.13. You might not like it at times but she’s honest with you. Always.14. She celebrates you achievements like her own. :)15. But most importantly, she is that friend who is never going to turn her back on you. A guardian angel overseeing and supporting you through thick and thin and a soulmate who's gonna love you unconditionally no matter what. ❤Cheers to all the sisters!Image source: Google