I am 18 and my mom is STILL over protective?
So my mom has always been way too over protective. I am now 18 and graduated from high school and I am in beauty school. Today while I was at work I got a text from at&t family map telling me my phone is now being tracked... My mom pays for my phone. My mom never lets me stay out late and come home so I always just say I am staying the night with a friend and go out and do stuff with my friends. Now I cant even do that because she will be tracking me! I was hoping my mom would lighten up now that I am graduated but she really hasnt... obviously! And I really cant handle it anymore. She is so in my business that she will go look at my friends facebooks from class and be like "I saw that girl you went to the mall with on fb. She looks like she party's a lot..." Like trying to hint that she doesn't want me hanging out with her. Sometimes I will say something like, I am going to hang out with a friend for a bit at 8pm and she will be like Thats getting late... That isnt even late!!! I cant handle her treating me like this anymore. I go to school tues-sat 8 am-4pm and I really dont have enough time to work enough to be able to afford to move out (without being exhausted.) I am going to get my own phone plan soon so she cant track my phone but I feel like she will just put a tracker on my car! I need help... Advice please.
My mom is overprotective?
Hmmm yeah it sounds like she's pretty overprotective. How old are you? I'm guessing you're in your teens. My mom was really overprotective too. It can really suck. It sometimes felt like she was living my life for me, making all my decisions. In my opinion, the sleepover thing is because she's afraid something might happen to you. Maybe she feels uneasy because she doesn't know your friend or your friend's mom. Having an overprotective mom can be so very tough. I think the best way you can approach this is to sit down with her and have a talk. Be reasonable and mature and talk about a few of these things that are most important to you. Don't bring everything up. She'll be more likely to compromise if you only put a few things on the table (maybe sleeping over, music on your Ipod, and clothes?). Don't raise your voice even if she starts to piss you off. Show her that you're not a little girl anymore and you deserve to have some of these privileges. And if worse comes to worse, follow her rules and maintain a positive relationship with her. When you move out, you can do anything you want. Sometimes I worry about people with overprotective parents, because they sometimes rebel and start doing drugs or other reckless behavior. After being sheltered for so long, some people go all out. Just don't do that. You'll get through it girly. I hope you can figure it out! =]
My mom is overprotective. What should I do?
I'm 20 years old, I feel like my mom still overprotects me. This morning I was getting my pants and she says "These pants are still big and tight" I still did my own thing and said it's fine I'm 20 you don't have to baby me and said I'm stubborn. And than I saw her point but angry that she still baby's me and embarrassed. Also I brush my teeth and says it's not clean enough and I have to go back. I love my mom but she can be nosy. I'm an adult but at the same time I still listen to her and feel mad at myself but she says I'm looking out for you to have a clean teeth and dress nicely. Am I doing something wrong? I yell at her and I feel regret but I want to be without her being too overprotective.
Why is my mom so over protective of me?
She just cares a lot about you and doesn't want to see you get hurt. You may see this as annoying, and she may or may not be going overboard, but at least you know that she cares!
Ugh major overprotective mom. please help?
I understand where she is comming from .. my mom is almost the same way.. there is just so many "pervs" on there she is just worried about your safety... and doesn't want you to have some sexual rapest on your myspace...I wouldn't be too hard on her... she just don't want you to miss use the site.. like posting nude pix or anything.. you should be thankful for your mom.. for trying to keep you safe....and you shouldn't delete anything.. if you know you don't put anything bad on there you shouldn't worry about whether your mom sees it or not..
Is my mom being over protective and by the way im 19.?
Ok im 19 and my mom won't let me go out friends. She treats me like a little tiny baby and its really pissing me off. She just doesn't understand that im a adult. My dad doesn't care but only my mom does. She nevers listens to anything i say about going out with friends. My friend are always good friends to me and i trust them. All my friend are allowed to go out except for me. All i want is to have some fun but im always in the house doing nothing and i end up getting bored and im sick and tired of her. I can't let her control my life like that because if i do then i will end up regreting it. Do you think my mom is being over protective and do you think i should just walk out of the house even though she is there and begs me not to.
My mum is so overprotective?
Also, she doesn't have facebook, but has friends that do, and she insists on me befriending them on there. She then gets them to spy on my statuses and see what I'm doing. I can't post any statuses/pictures and even be tagged in pictures on facebook without her friends commenting or seeing it and telling her!
I'm 20 YEARS OLD..and my mom is so overprotective & strict! HELP ME!!!?
I'm 20 years old and my mom is still very overprotective and strict...geezz i mean im 20 YEARS OLD!! i'm an adult and she even treats me like i'm 16 years old. i mean she is so involving in my life and pushing me to do some stuff which i don't want to do. i feel like she is completely controling my life and i feel that i can't even make my own choices...which it is very frustrating! also another thing which i dont understand...why does my mom cares/worries about if i don't have a boyfriend...geeezzz it's like personal! she did ask everybody (like my friends and even some strangers) if they have a boyfriend...lol.....i dont understand this. HELP ME and i need ur advice!