Is my Mom unreasonable?
Okay, so I think my mom is super unreasonable and never see's my way of things( FYI i'm 13 ) Even if I try to tell her my ideas or thoughts she usually says (and i exactly quote) SHUT THE EF UP I DONT WANT TO HEAR UR CRAP! or DO YOU WANT TO GET HIT BECAUSE I'LL HIT U SO HARD IN THE FACE YOU WONT BE ABLE TO TALK! or WHY THE HELL ARE YOU EVEN ALIVE? GOOD FOR NOTHING PIECE OF S***! i want to confront her about it but i'm afraid she will hit me. because she has done this to me many times before and it really hurt! then later she says (and i quote wat she exactly says usually ) SEE U SHOULD HAVE LISTENED TO ME U STUPID USELESS GIRL! U DONT DESERVE ANYTHING! then she takes away everything that actually means something to me and never gives it back. she once broke my phone right in front of my face and then threw it at me then told me to pay for it because i'm useless. i'm used to being hit alot even if it is because something as small like if i didn't take out the trash. I dont think i'm a bad kid, i'm in triple honor classes get compliments from my peers and teachers and dont swear constantly ( i only say hell) i'm used to getting hit or beaten by her but she is getting more and more aggresive over the past few months. plus i'm not trying to be racist to any fellow asians out there but we are an asian family and she expects me to be perfect! she says i'm talentless useless and even mentally retarded. she can be nice but only when she is in a good mood. she also apparently enjoys ripping and breaking my emotions apart and mentally emotionally and physically toying with me. i feel so confused and i dont know what to do? should i just accept that she is acting like this and get harassed or should i do something about it? MY DAD JUST SAYS: YOU SHOULD LISTEN TO YOUR MOTHER. then goes away to watch his stupid football games. Advice/help is greatly wanted thank you : )
Mom is being unreasonable!?
i have no idea what'S going on. i think she had a supercrazywierdomelodramatictepisode before your eyes. but being serious... i think she's going through a depression, and maybe she's actually feeling useless. its hard to say. try not to provoke her, and compliment her more often, or sumthin' And trust me i know what its like to be unsocial. suicide has come to my head all the time, but what i realized is that its selfish. i told myself that, because i want what'S best for people. i'd be hurting everyone that loves me if i did it. but then again, my other brain would tell me that no one loves me. but after struggling, going to mental hospitals, and attempting suiceide, i eventually pushed thru. it was what made me a stronger person. what doesn't kill ya, makes ya stronger. i might be weirD, and have lots of problems to deal with, but atleast i know that I'M worth something to this world. there'S things to be accomplished. and just to top this off, I'M goin put out a word that describes my person: Eccentric. (don't be like the grinch)
=( Is my Mom being unreasonable?!?
Hi everyone... I am an 18 year old college freshman and I am honestly a good girl. I don't drink, I don't smoke, I listen to what my parents say and abide by their rules. I do well in school and I've never even had a boyfriend, so it's not like I'm promiscuous lol. I don't even dorm because they refused to let me! Anyway, a couple days ago, I slept over a (girl) friend's dorm and my mom completely flipped out at me and told me that I broke her trust and she didn't want to talk to me again. She did eventually though, and she told me that the reason that she got so mad was that I left and slept over my friend's dorm without getting permission from her. I told her about my plans for the night and she didn't once say anything against it... I even told my dad about it and he was perfectly fine with it, but when I got home, all hell broke loose. Both of them were back to normal a couple days later though... So today I asked my mom again if I could stay over the same friends dorm again and she flipped out twice as badly as she did last time. She kept going on about how I'm not old enough yet and how it's not right for me to be out of the house so late. She even went so far as to say that if I leave the house and DO stay out that late, I might as well take all of my stuff with me and move out... I said it was for a birthday party... which it is... and that it would be much safer for me to stay at my friend's dorm instead of driving home at 2am. To that, my mom responded that she'd come and pick me up!! Is it just me or is that just a little bit ridiculous?! I mean, I am 18 afterall.. I don't think any parent would pick up their 18 year old on a college campus of all places at 2am instead of letting him/ her stay at a friend's dorm. How can I convince her to let me stay at my friend's dorm room for ONE NIGHT?! ughhh.... I feel like she's just too afraid of letting me go.. like "empty nest syndrome" ps- I am the firstborn... and there are 4 more younger than I am.. lol Thanks so much for your time! (Sorry it's so long)
Is my mom being unreasonable?
I'm turning 16 next year and i know its really soon to ask about this but in 16 you can get your learners permit and i asked my mom if i can get it and she was so adamant at not letting me get my permit. At sometimes she says i can get it but i cant drive with anyone and she switches between the 2. I don't know what she'll say by the time my birthday comes around. But anyways its not like i'm irresponsible or immature if anything i'm quite the opposite so i have no clue why she's acting like this
My mom is being so unreasonable!!!!!!?
She won't let me go to my friends sleepover. I'm 17 and she treats me like i'm 14 and i swear it drives me crazy!!!! I've been stuck home all weekend. Literally i haven't done anything ;/ I feel so isolated and left out right now cause its a big sleepover, with a lot of people going. She doesn't even want to talk to my friends mom! She's saying "you can't go because i don't know her parents" BUT SHE NEVER MEETS THEM WHEN I ASK HER TO!!! ???? I always tell her can you meet her but she just doesn't want to :( Im so sad right now . Even my 10 year old sister has her friends over! Im so annoyed and angry right now! She's being so unreasonable, I'm seventeen man!
My mom is so unreasonable!?
This may be a little long, thank you for reading. When I was at school, I brought my little brownish-black pencil eyeliner to school to put it on (my mom allows me, it's just that I sweat during the volleyball practice). After, I experimented something new and put it on the line of my eye, waterline I believe is what they call it? I didn't stab it all on there, because I like to normally have a natural look. It stayed on all day, and when I got home my mom went crazy. She said something like: "I told you never to wear eyeliner like that!". But what made me mad, was that she had NEVER told me not to before! I absolutely hate when parents do that! My mom doesn't have the best memory... So I tried to explain to her calmly (as I hate fighting with her) that I was truly sorry and never do it again. (She has anger management issues), and she spanked me (I'm 13, GOD!) and she told me I wasn't allowed to wear any sort of make up. Not even a freaking LIP BALM. Like she wants my lips to chap! She's over protective, and doesn't even let me wear lip gloss, not until I had turned nine. So today I had completely forgotten about the rule, and I went to the store to buy something nice for her. I like to make her happy. When I got back she was angry when she saw I was wearing a light lip tint (Yes To Carrots--cotton candy shade) and the powder foundation she bought me from Sephora for my birthday. I gave her the surprise I had been planning to give her anyways. She took it without saying thank you and sent me to my room again. I'm planning to have a talk with her, but she's the type of person you cannot compromise with. She's all: give me this, give me that, and nothing back to you! I just hate it. I'm not talking about caking stuff on my face! Just a little grey eyeliner and lip gloss. It's amazing, really. I'm still stuck in my goddamn room right now. My question: How do I find a common ground with her/convince her to let me wear make up. I don't like manipulation, I just want her to see my side. :( I'm really not a bad kid.
How do I tell my mom that she is being unreasonable?
how is she being unreasonable? you have given no real basis on how your mom is unreasonable, all I can say is try and sit her down and explain whatever it is she is doing is unreasonable, and is taking things a bit too far, you need to not back down, but be respectful, if she continues being unreasonable, then just cut her out of your life, provided you are old enough to be on your own and you don’t have to live by her rules. If you are living with her still, then just put up with her till you can get out on your own, then you will be free to have space from her, who knows, maybe she will ease up by then, maybe she won’t, if she still is unreasonable by then, give her some space, if she still continues to become increasingly unreasonable, then you continue giving her space.If in the offset chance that she is actually being reasonable, but to the teenage mind is considered unreasonable, ask why is she being like this, maybe she has reasons to be unreasonable and perhaps you have done something you shouldn’t have and she didn’t appreciate it, if she is going overboard, then you can wait for her to cool off enough to have a civil conversation and explain that her actions, though justifiable, was still taking things too far and that maybe she should try listening to you once in a while so that she may understand that you have a will of your own, and that perhaps if she is being to strict, to ease up, you are likely at an age where strict parenting leads to rebellious behavior in teens.If she does not want a rebellious teen on her hand, she needs to give you some slack, perhaps what she saw as an infraction and a rule being broken, was in fact you crying out for help because this rule that got broken was bs to start with and should not even be in place to start with. Remember, I am going on barely anything, so i am touching on all bases here. Any one of these answers could be the right one, or none could be the right one, I do hope this at least bears some semblence of being helpful to your situation.
Is my mom being totally unreasonable?
So my mom caught me smoking weed. She is personally pro-drug war and anti-drug use. The parenting measures she has taken include the following: 1. Putting a filter on my phone to keep me from texting any of my friends (which all of them smoke pot) 2. Taking away my car (she is going to drive me to school and pick me up EVERY DAY) 3. Checking my history on my computer so I wont contact my friends (Facebook, Twitter, etc.) 4. Monitoring MY MONEY, which I earn from my part time job 5. Taking away my Xbox She is very conservative and I would describe myself as very liberal, and I find her reactions very unethical, all to prevent something that effects no one else but me, which invariably leaves me isolated in my room. My grades are fine, I don't drive while high, and I always smoke at friend's houses so my chances of getting arrested are very low. I am a casual user and it doesn't effect anyone but me and I think my mom is causing more harm than good. Opinions please.
What should I do when my wife is being unreasonable?
LEAVE THE PLACE AND GET OUT OF THE PLACE AND SHE IS ANGRY FOR SOME REASON OR THE OTHER. HE IS NOT GOING OUT IN THE MID DAY IN HYDERABAD