My mom read my diary and got very angry?
Your mom should have more respect for your privacy. She shouldn't have read it once she knew what it was. Next, she shouldn't have gotten upset. This is how you felt at the time. You mom needs to chill out, and take a pill. And no I am not a teenager. I am 52 years old. And I got in trouble for reading my step sisters diary when I was young. It is a personal thing. As I say, she should applogies to you for reading it.
I think my mom read my diary...?
I write a lot of personal things in my diary! I wrote about a guy I liked, who's in grade 11. I also wrote about the type of guys I like. Well, today, I was with my mom, my aunt and my cousin in the car, and my mom started saying, "I think she's in love, look at her. And I know the type of guys she likes, she doesn't like the type of guys like her brother's friends, I think she'd rather date someone more smart" I practically wrote the same thing in my diary! Then after that she told me that grade 11 isn't a big age gap for me. She also starting saying how personal I am, and told my aunt that I probably write about my crushes in my DIARY. What do you think? Please don't give me a "how would we know" answer. Moms, do you think it's right to read through your daughter's journal?!
Why does my mom keep reading my diary!?
Im 13. And I'm going to the 9th grade next year. She has read my diary about 2 times before. She read the first diary I made. it was in summer camp. I remember the day I made it. I wrapped it with bows, and I decorated it and everything. It was my very first diary. And it was really special to me, and the only reason why is because that was the summer I started crushing on boys. I also remember the day she read it. I caught her red handed, and I didn't talk to her for about a week. And she took the diary so I made another one AND SHE READ IT AGAIN!!! That was a few years ago! But now I just caught her snooping through my diary for the 3rd time, maybe more! I just came from dance practice and there she was looking through my diary! And I know she didn't find it by accident because I still had it deep in my book bag from school. And of coarse she used the lame a** excuse saying that she only went through my book bag because she was worried. But what would she have to be worried about? I get good grades, I have good friends, great hobby, great life. WTF would she have to be worried about? I even asked her what she was so worried about. And she said how my business was her business, so she had the right to go through my stuff. I just snatched the diary out her hand and walked to my room. I was so pissed at her. Let me get this straight. MY diary is MY diary. It's not hers. If I want to write my personal feelings down in a book and keep it to myself than I have the right to! I don't need to tell her about my friends or my life! It's nun of her business. She doesn't need to know about my crushes or nun of that! Her job is to raise me! Not to be a noisy snoop. I would honestly like to know what goes through a parent's head when they want to read their daughters diary. Do they feel like crap when they think something is going on with their daughter; yet their life couldn't be any better. And then they get caught while reading it. I mean I'm a teen, I'm suppose to be distant from her for a while. I'm only trying to find myself and be independent. But she doesn't seem to get this. Because she thinks she did nothing wrong. But now I'm not talking to her. And why won't she just leave me the fxxk alone!? I'm so confused. She wants me to forgiver her for invading my privacy!? Help! All advice is appreciated ty!
I'm 19 and in India. My mom keeps trying to find my diary and read it. I've told her multiple times not to do so, but she reads it anyway while I am sleeping. What should I do?
"Dear Diary,Too much meth really fucks up my brain; I have to be loaded if I want to write to you all this. I can't face myself otherwise.I hope I can string the words together.Oh God What Do I Do! I know he will pay everything, yet, damn, his money won't take away my guilt! And, is not abortion like murdering?Never mind the guilt though, there is some pleasure in sin angels won't understand. Him being my teacher makes my hormonal rush even more deadly.The way he pinned me down on the desk..I won't say I won't do it again."Write something like that in your diary.If questioned, tell her its a story you are working on or something.Better still, don't say anything. Let her go crazy.Have a sense of humour. Your mother reads your diary! Think of the ways you can mislead her!You can read Saki's Plan of Attack.
My mom read my diary! What do I do now?
My life has nose-dived since I started keeping a diary. I only had one for THREE DAYS. I left it lay out when I left the house about five days ago, because I thought everybody would respect my privacy, and, later, my mom comes into my room and reveals to me that she READ IT! She gave me this lame-*** excuse that "when I come and tidy up in rooms, I just open things to see what they are." But she never cleans my room or anything! I wrote all of my darkest secrets in there because I felt like I couldn't trust my mom with them. My mom, whether she admits or not, is prejudiced and homophobic, and I just so happen to be bisexual. I'm also in love with my best friend (we're both girls) and how I feel immensely attracted to her (please no hate on this, just answer the question). I don't know how to deal with this. I haven't been able to look her in the eye since, and I've felt completely numb. I think I might be becoming depressed, because the only person who can still make me smile is my little brother. To everybody else, I've been a complete b*tch to, even my best friend, because it feels like everybody's going to do this to me. I can't keep a diary anymore and it feels like all of my emotions are becoming bottled up inside again. That was the reason I started a diary in the first place. I feel so betrayed and like I can't trust anybody. I can tell that my sister, my dad, and ESPECIALLY my mom don't look at me the same anymore, and it kills me. What do I do? Will I ever be able to trust her again?
My mom read my diary, what should I do?
Well, you have several things to take care of now.First - start doing your own laundry. Really. Do you need your mother to have a “reason” to be in your room? Is it worth the hassle of putting a load from washer into dryer?Second - depending on what you wrote there, you might consider burning that diary. Right now. And never put things in writing at all - EVER - unless you’re ready for your parents to read them.Also, you are very bad with securing things - today your mother found them, tomorrow your employer can find it, or your kids. You are not 007 - you will get yourself into trouble with that diary again and again if you keep on writing it.Third - either create an online blog (with alias email ID) or channel your self-expression into other medium (song writing, music writing, painting, pottery, puppet shows) and do not keep any kind of incriminating evidence against yourself.Depending what’s in that diary, your only line of defense now is claiming that it’s a book you’re working on, based on real events but loosely based on them.It means you are looking at telling your dad that your mom is imagining things. Hope you are ready to stand by that statement.It also means that you can ask, one last time, for your mom not to tell anyone about it - and this will be a test for her: if she is able to let it go and understand that you are a silly naive teen who believes that privacy is at all possible, then you can have a new level of trust and relationship with her.If not, expect an unpleasant conversation with your dad, and actually be thankful that this is a lesson you’re learning now - and not 20 years from now, when this kind of information can cause severe damage to you and your reputation.
Dad and step-mom read my diary HELP?
Okay this is the end of my world!!! I can NOT stand it anymore!!! My step mother is so nosy her and my dad has been together for 4 years now and is always trying to be my mother!!! Okay I always leave my diary on my dresser. Not only did she read my dairy she had my dad read my diary . When they where both done reading it the took pages the were concerned about and made copy's of it high lited it . Well to say their where 47 pages they copied. I am so embarrassed they read all of my thoughts . It had pictures I had drawn in their that I really did not want them seeing . I had poems in their about my life that was very personal!!! I had notes and everything I really did not want them to see. I come home from school and they have all these papers and my diary and wanted me to explain what the picture / poem or note I had written down meant and why I felt that way!! I had a picture of a nude male I drew ( made up guy) and they wanted me to talking about why I drew it!!!! I am 16 still a virgin!!!! I have a pot leaf a drew just for fun to see if I could draw it well to make the story short I have to get a drug test now!!! WTF!! I have never smoked in my life!!! Do you think my parents had the right to do this? I hate them so much!!! All my thoughts and emotions are out and I did not want them out!!! Parents do you think this is right?
My mom read my diary and all my personal things what am I supposed to do?!?!?
I am seventeen and I really did not want my mom to EVER see the things I write in my diary. I am such a private person in general and not super into party-ing and things like that, so I am usually just doing my own thing, but in my diary I wrote all about my crush and my dreams and my feelings and my best friend and just SUPER embarrassing things that I never wanted my mom to see, and what my mom read was all on my laptop and she just came and got on and decided to read everything and keep reading and asked me about it after and I am so embarrassed now. These are things and feelings that change every single day so a lot of what she read is not even how I feel right now but I am so humiliated. I never wanted her to see. I feel so hopeless now and really don't feel like doing anything anymore. Now my mom thinks I am do different and it is bothering me. I don't know what to do :(
My mom read my diary to my family, what should I do?
Speak up about it and tell her that she's crossing your boundaries. I hate it when people (especially family) think there entitled to look at personal stuff. Yes she is your mom, but that doesn't make it okay for her to read it in front of other people. I've has a similar situation with a family member finding an embarrassing video and sharing with the rest of my family. I WAS SOOOOOO MAD. Tell your mom that it made you uncomfrotable when she read your diary out loud. Tell her that she needs to respect you and your boundaries. A healthy parent-child relationship includes giving your child a private life to let them be more independent as life goes on. I would know cause my parents NEVER let me have a private life, and I'm a pretty private/reserved person in general so that definitely wasn't fun. Not saying my parents didn't raise me well, there actually amazing parents. Every parent makes a mistake here and there, but it’s the childs job to speak up. I've had to do A LOT of speaking up to my parents NOT fighting just respectfully giving my opinion.