My mom has ruined my life?
im 16 male. My mom wont let me exercise or workout. Shes a control freak and a drama queen. I got a stress fracture in 08-09. Since then she hasnt let me do any type of body exercise. FFS! It was just a stress fracture. She must have serious mental issues. But she doesnt understand what she is doing to me. My life has wasted away and iv become thinner and thinner. I dont go out no more because of self esteem issues, iv stayed indoors since 09-10 and 10-11 apart from school, havent been anywhere else. Working out made me happy and confident. But behind my back she sold all of my equipment and now refuses to let me buy it back again. I told her i got a stress fracture from running, which i did!! but she phoned up this gym and threatened to take legal action and got everyone under 18 banned even though i constantly shouted at her that it didnt even happen at the gym. Now im left with nothing. Iv develeped major depression, i havent been able to take care of my own body. I socially isolated mytself and only turned up for 55 % of school because i thought every one would laugh at me. I look nothing like i used to and its all because of my mom. She has had problems in the past. When i was little she used to check me all the time if i feel in the road because of needles. She used to come in my room and say stuff to me like did you fall on a syringe, where did you get that red dot from and would generally scare me. That made me develop anxiety and anxiety attacks. She totally messed me up because she would be totally scared of everything, always washing her hands etc, That i had to keep going to the doctors, hospital because i kept shaking and had panic attacks and it was all down to the things she would say. She has completely ruined my life and now i feel like i can do nothing about my self image that i just want to die.
My mom is ruining my life i hate her?
My mom gets on my very last nerves. She keeps calling me a liar just cause I told her I was going to my best friends birthday and she asked me of there was gonna he guys I said no cause of I said ya she wouldn't let me go I'm 14 and it was a small party with 3 guys. So when she found out she has been on my case every single day. She doesn't let me have a social life she is like you can't have a boyfriend you can't have close guy friends and since I have one guy friend she is yelling and killing me she read my diary read every single thing and she is always making me feel bad. She checks my phone every single day she won't let me go out with my friends. She is killing me I can't take it and now all she does is repeat the same thing that I lied I hate her so much I just wanna run away but don't know where to go. I can't take her yelling and ruining my life.
My mom ruined my life?
I'm 16 and my mom has given me no freedom AT ALL. I have a 7:30 curfew, and a bed time of 10:00, and because of this, i can't chill with friends, and it pisses me off so much. I hate her. I started inviting friends over since i figured out that if i can't meet my friends after my curfew, i would invite them in, but she started making rules on that too. first she limits the amount of friends in to 4, then she doesn't allow them in when my mom and dad arn't home, then she puts a HOUSE CURFEW, so my friends can't be allowed in after 8:30. she has ruined my summer, i can't go to parties, i can't do anything unless its in the morning or afternoon. I live like im grounded. If i tell her, her rules are strict she gets really mad, and tells me I can't have it my way. I hate ehr so much. Stupid enough, last year i was outside at 11, and in grade 8, my mom didn't care that i got home at 8:30. Sadly, these were the good days. when I hit 18, i want to tell her how she made my lfie a living hell and to not contact me. I want to tell her piece by piece on the restrictions she's caused, and I want to make it clear that my resentment is fully her fault, due to the misunderstandings that she thinks is correct parenting. Being strict and in control does teach discipline to kids, but there's a line that is crossed, and in my case she went over-board. she doesn't understand that socializing is a big part of a teenagers life, but she's not social at all, and has no friends in Canada, other then family. I need to write a letter that i can save up until I'm 18, when it's safe, to regret she's ever done this **** to me.
My mom is ruining my life, help?
I love my parents though - I just want to live a happy life. Even if they went to jail - Who would I live with? Most of my relitives are dying or dead, and they wouldn't be happy to have me. And NO-They lived nice lives, no abuse, nothing like that. They are also NOT immagrants
What is one mistake that ruined your life?
I decided I wasn't going to put effort in before I had even started.Now, I might be a bit melodramatic in claiming it ruined my life but it certainly had a major impact on its current course. I am terrified of failure. It comes from being an overachiever in primary school and a bit of a perfectionist. But it's what I define as failure that causes the problem. To me, failure is only unacceptable when I try and subsequently fail. I'd rather have potential than hit a limit.Take 8 year old me in cross-country squad trials. I had been a steady member of the team the previous year. I wasn't anything spectacular but I wasn't bad. At the end of the season, I had a new personal best. At the start of the new season, I knew it would be tough to beat that time. I hadn't exercised much over summer and could barely run the whole course without wheezing (we later realised this was asthma). Instead of running a trial time and making the cut-off for the team, I lied and said I had twisted my ankle. My coach knew I had a good time so she let me on the team. I could've finished the course and made the team properly but it was that minute risk of failure and the overshadowing feeling that I wouldn't be able to top the previous year.This extrapolated to much of my life. I'd rather not put effort in and fail than put in effort. It was like I needed the ability to say “Oh but I didn't try so I wasn't expecting to do well” as an excuse. It took a long time to form a solid work ethic and to motivate myself. I'd like to say that I realised before I went too far but that would be a lie. I didn't put enough effort into university applications and now I'm scrambling to pick up the pieces of my self-constructed jigsaw of a future. But at least I've learnt my lesson.TL;DR: preferred to increase chance of failure than decrease it. This concept backfired.