My best friends mom thinks im a bad influence!?!? but i dont do anything bad!?
okay me and my bff have been friends for seven years..we are 17 and her mom hates me. she thinks im a bad influence, and whenever i ask my bff why she doesn't tell me. i dont get it. i have 4.3 GPA , no drugs alcohol sex ( i dont even have a boyfriend) i am a good kid, seriously! good family and everything..so i really get worried that her mom will somehow convince her one day that i am bad and then she wont like me anymore....help! her mom is super overprotective and she cannot hang out with friends but once a week..she never lets me hangout with her, but her mom likes another one of our mutual friends and always tells my bff to invite her over sometime...thats so mean!! this other girl isn't even as good of a friend, she can be a ***** sometimes so i dont understand why my bfff's mom hates me so much!! and whenver i invite my bff to hangout, most of the time her mom says she cant but then two hours later, she is 'allowed' to hangout with that other girl!!!! AHHH its so frustrating and i dont wanna talk to her mom about it because i dont really ever see her anways... and her mom always looks for reasons to hate me and its just so annoying! plz help!
My best friend's mom thinks I'm a bad influence on her??!!?
I really know where u coming from here same things happened to me and btw i listen to the same music and watch the same anime as you do the thing is you should talk to her mom or her up front about it and tell her that it is unfair for her to judge u simply on appearance and your interests make a point to prove how u have been best friends with this person for a long time and thats its idiotic for her to pull u appart without the right reasons u are who u are and u can't change that and hey all humans are at least a bit morbid just others embraces it and others do not i learned a long time ago to stop caring what people think and also make a point to say that shes not being a good influence on her daughter by her being so judgemental of others! Don't let things like this ruin a friendship!
My best friend's parents think I'm a bad influence. What can I do for them to gain their trust back?
Good one!. I once found myself a victim of the same. To start with, just figure out the vice in your friend that makes the parents furious. Have the courage to confront them and insist that you ain't the problem and you are willing to terminate your friendship by abandoning it all together to avoid further blame. Give your friend time. If indeed you are not the problem, your friend will revert back to his/her old bad ways. If you really love the latter and you truly want to help out and salvage your friendship, secretly spy on him/her to understand who are the real culprits behind his/her undoing. After having your assignment done and dusted, get a reasonable mature person to accompany you. Secretly go leak the dossier to to the parents and tell them not to set you to the former. Advice them to do further investigation basing on your leaked info before any conclusions. Don't be surprised to see the parents running back to you for the obvious reasons.
My Friend's parents Think I'm a bad influence on Her?
Well with her parents they are very over protective about what she plays or watches & come to think of it she told me that her parents think that I'm a bad influence on her I don't know why I'm 15 almost 16 and she's 14 almost 15 I don't do drugs I don't curse or drink or go to parties But I do play Rated M for mature Games and Watch whatever I want on TV because my mother doesn't care but her parents think I'm a bad influence on her. Am I a Bad influence Kid?
Best Friends parents think I'm a bad influence! help?
Okay, so me and my friend where talking about this and she's like, "Honestly... My parents don't think you're a good influence on me..." And that shocked, but I acted like I didn't care. Then I asked her why, and she said it's cause I accidentally cussed once, but it's not a big deal, I'm pretty sure alot of other 13 year olds cuss. And they also think I am because I called someone sexy. And it was Rob Pattinson, so it's not that bad. Ugh, I don't know what to do, and I truly am a good person. So, help? How do I get her parents to like me again?
My friends parents are strict and think I'm a bad influence?
Okay so my friends parents let him go out of the house and everything. So when I go to pick him up, his dad already looks at me and talks to me like I'm already a bad person. sure I cuss sometimes but I have never cuss around my friends grown adults. I swear, his dad asks for my name and even tells me to spell it out. Here's the thing that got me frustrated. He asks me for my phone number and i tell him it (he can't speak English the best so he struggles). He then calls the number to make sure that it's legit my phone. Turns out that he put in the wrong number but yet he blames me for it and says that I'm a liar and I'm untrustworthy when it was his fault the entire time. He legit talked to me like I was some criminal and scolded me like I was his own son lol. Is there any way to gain their trust? Even my friend looked ashamed when his dad was talking **** to me lol.
My friends mom says I'm a bad influence?
The only problem with that is that I'm very shy and quiet and keep to myself most of the time. Me and her mom usually get along nicely so I'm not sure what I did but she's the only friend I have because I don't like socializing and I can't bear to lose her. How do I fix this? Maybe her mom is right.
My best friend's mom thinks that I do drugs and that I'm a bad influence on her son. I'm the complete opposite. What can I do?
WALK right up to her, sit her down and then pull a home drug test and proceed to urinate in it. (In front of your friends Mom) When the test (hopefully) comes back negative in a few minutes you can say, “"you see, proof I'm not on drugs, now I can continue my friendship with your son. Your son is a smart, independent, free thinker and a leader who isnt going to be influenced by anyone and I'm proud to call him my friend”
I am easily influenced; is this normal?
I would not use the word "influence" and prefer to use the word "manipulation" instead since it is what you are describing. I think you're "normal" but you lack a sense of guidance from someone that has your best interest in life. Sounds like you have a weakness trying to please people in your life and it also sounds like you have a "clear conscious" because you stated, "I want to have a better life." You also learned a new lesson in life that, just because they are older doesn't always mean everything they say is good. Let me share some hard life lessons with you that I have in my own personal life so you don't have to learn it the hard way like myself. It is normal to make mistakes but always learn from it. 1. Not all lawyers are competent and they do not know everything. There are good lawyers and there are bad lawyers. Not all of them have your best interest. Trust your own intuition. 2. Judges do not know everything and they do not always make the best choices. They are people just like us and have the same probability of making the mistakes just like us. 3. Not all Officers are "good people," some of them slipped through the cracks and got their jobs. Watch the news.4. Always trust yourself, you have your own best interest and know what is best for yourself. Not what others tell you. 5. There is no "us" in certain people. Those "people" think the world revolves around them only and they will try to rationalize their own behavior all the time. It is your job to recognize them and avoid them. 6. Good things don't always happen to good people but you can take control of your own life and increase your own probability for good things to happen in your life. 7. Do your best to recognize the good people in your life and don't let them slip out of your life especially when they have your best interest. There's a quote that said, "Judge a person by how they treat others that cannot do nothing for them." To see people's true colors, you see it from bottom up.