My mom scolding me everyday...?
seems like your mom is going through her own struggles and is using you as her outlet for her anger....though it is very displaced she is only doing this because she does not know how to deal with whatever she is mad at...the reason why you are hurting is most like due to keeping all your feelings in and not being able to communicate them freely...you have built up so much resentment that if is affecting your health....if possible when yoiur mom is not having a bad day or hasnt scolded you yet, try to communicate with her about all that you feel....tell her that you are only telling her this stuff because you love her and you dont want to hurt anymore and that certain things have been affecting you for awhile...by having the conversation you mom will see your side and may even be more open to telling you the things she is going through as well and may even stop her behavior now that you have told her it was bothering you....and hopefully will make your relationship a stronger one...
What does, "If she got home late, her mom scolded her" mean?
“If she got home late, her mom scolded her.”= “Her mom used to scold her when she got home late”Note -1: If + past tense , past tense : It expresses that something was always true or that one action was always followed by another.Thanks
My mother scolds me all the time, is she a good woman?
She may be scolding you all the time, but her intention behind scolding you could never be wrong..She wants you to be successful.Sometime we want our children to be succesful but the way we do adopt, could be wrong..How she could be corrected, is totally different subject.However, I can vouch for her not being a bad woman..A woman coukd be bad for entire world but never for her children…
I hurt my mom with words. Now I regret it. How should I make her feel happy?
Hi there,There are many people who gave you the right advice and if that doesn't works for some reason then probably you would like to try this. My advice may be a little bit contrary to what others had advised.Observe if she is not happy, then she might be normal as always or she might be angry for your behaviour, I feel that no mother would wait for her child to apologize, they don't need your sorry, it's not an ego issue. It's just her concern that made her angry, so instead apologizing try doing some small silly mistakes in front of her so as to exaggerate her anger on you until she releases her anger and bursts out on you. And all you have to do is listen to her every word with great detail and be humble and calm. The very next moment when she is finished with her dialogue, she will be back to normal and may be she will think if she was rude to you? Finally make sure she doesn't feel bad about pouring her anger on you. That will make her realize that you are guilty for your sins and then what? she will surely sense your state of mind and will be happy for the gesture you showed to her when she was angry on you.Please don't consider it as blackmail or unethical thing. I feel it as a win-win situation for both mom and child.
Have you ever been rudely corrected?
Yes, just recently regarding the Korean language. I am fluent in English and Korean but still kinda struggle with learning ALL Korean vocabulary.I was looking for my new house and an agent. One real estate lady, around my mothers age, felt she had the right to talk down to me because I was younger than her. Since I understand Korean tradition and customs, I let that go although if she were to be my agent, she would technically be working for me. But not to be rude or offend an elder, I was very polite.She called me saying she has the perfect houses waiting for me. I told her candidly that I’m actually considering other agents at the moment and I will call her back. Her tone got even more strict, pushy and rude, scolding me saying “well I though you had to find a house THIS MONTH! Don’t you want the BEST house, or do you just want any house?? I found all these houses for YOU because you said that!”A bit shocked I replied, “yes I told you I needed to see the house by the end of August soooo…(but I said the word for beginning of August in korean instead of end, I confused them) then she raised her voice, practically yelling, “do you even KNOW what DAY IT Is?! It’s already the 15th!! What do you mean beginning of August?!!!”She was going slightly mad about this. I replied, “yes i know what day it is. I’m not totally fluent in Korean so I mixed up the words Mal(end of month) and Cho(beginning of month)”She huffed and made those half laugh, half snort retorts chiding, “you don’t even know beginning and end of month? Ha ha , mal is ENDDD AND CHO IS BEGINNING, you understand?!….(various other korean words expressed in haughty disdain)…”Yes obviously I understand, I just told her I made a mistake! I felt like my mom was scolding me but then again my mom would never be so rude and condescending. I felt this was a strange way of doing business too, really the opposite way.Maybe she thought I was a teen and not a full adult or something but the way she corrected me was so rude I had to stop dealing with her immediately. She wouldn’t take no for an answer and called me OFF THE HOOK, till I blocked her number and then she tried to guilt me by texting that she “cleared her entire schedule and is waiting for me to show the houses.” As if!I chose a really nice and decent lady from the same office and broker and awkwardly ran into as she tried to scold me again that I had wasted her time! I just ignored her.
My mom likes to shout and scold me in public. what should i do?
My mom always humiliates me infront of people. I feel very hurt as I am 30 years old. She treats me like a child. I do not want to be rude to her, but sometimes, she makes my blood boil, that I shout back at her unintentionally. I hate myself when I do that. I have sinned towards her, my mother, by shouting back. I dont like to do sin, but I dont know what to do as she is always nagging, complaining and grumbling over tiny issues. Any advises?
I am not allowed to say curse words, which is understandable, but not "stupid" nor "shut up"?
I am 14 years old, and I'm not allowed to curse in the house. My mom uses "stupid" sometimes and she lets me use it too, only when I'm not addressing a person or anything that has feelings, which I understand. But my brother, a few months from going to college, doesn't use curse words and when I say "stupid" in front of him (like addressing the rain when I really wanted to play soccer outside), he scolds me and says that I shouldn't be saying things like that because it could lead to cursing. Why can't he just trust me?? "Stupid" and "shut up" are not even curse words! He asked me if when I say it, if I feel dirty or not. Of course I answered "NO". I told him that if he's doesn't like cursing or people saying "stupid" or "shut up", then he better get used to it because he's gonna hear A LOT of it, being in college in the next few months. He told me that first of all, he knows about all the cursing that goes around in his school and in the future, and secondly, HE should be the one giving advice to ME, NOT the other way around. ARGH! I'm so frustrated with him right now! Can you guys PLEASE help me! Dx thanks
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