He gets mad at everything!! guys girls help!!?
-alright well me and this kid are good friends and all. we text alot. he likes me. were just friends!! but every now and then he gets pissed over small things!! it has nothing to do with me and other guys by the way. but anyways we always end up saying sorry and stuff and its back to normal!! anyways its pissing me off that he gets mad so easily?! and its almost the end of the year i don't want it to end with a small lil fight!!?.......so what should i do? a.not care b. wait.. c. what should i do?
My Brother Saw Me Having Sex?
I'm sure a lot of things ran through his mind, not the least of which was that he failed to protect you from guys and your own, pardon the word, stupidity. You don't just have sex because you know and like each other. It is not just a recreational activity you do with friends. It is for mature adults, who are committed and responsible--and ideally, married. You have erred and don't grasp the cost. I would hope you would write him an honest letter saying: I am sorry for upsetting you with my behavior. I don't seem to appreciate the gravity of what I have done or I wouldn't have done it. But I know you love and care about me so I am going to make choices that are more in line with your thinking. I promise that I will wait to have sex again, at least until I am an adult. By then I may understand better about relationships and sex. I am still the same sister who loves you so I hope you can forgive me for hurting you. I don't expect things will be comfortable for quite awhile, but I hope we get through this. Thank you for caring. It is stautory rape and, even if you don't agree, you were violated and the perpetrator should be held accountable.
Am I mad/irritated over nothing?
I know how you feel. We both have/had simular situations. The difference is my best friend told me some negative things about her boyfriend. I, in turn, discussed this with my husband. She got angry with me over that. Needless to say our 18 years of friendship is over. She decided that I am no longer her friend for telling my husband. Anywho, there are people a best friend could tell and people a best friend should not tell. I am going to go out on a limb and assume that both of you are in your teens. You asked her not to tell and she deliberatly violated that. Using the "I am stupid" line as a reason for ignoring your request sounds like her way of making you feel like you were in the wrong. Do not feel sorry for her and do not take blame. You are not the reason those people know. Now this is not worth throwing out a friendship but it is worth putting her on a "probation" period. Just let her know that you can not trust her to keep things to herself and until you feel that she has regained that trust. If she gets uproarous and angry because of that, then she is really not your friend.
My friend and I are mad at each other. What do I do? (more details)?
Hi. Im a little confused on not being able to apologize to him because he's a boy? He is a human being so saying you are sorry if you feel you have wronged him is exactly what you should do. Him lying to you I'm sure hurt your feelings and caused you to feel you cant trust him so this is something you need to think about whether you want friends that lie. Everyone lies once in a while its human nature. If you value his friendship and want to continue him as a friend it may be best to bite the bullet and give him an apology. You never know he may just give you an apology because you broke the ice.
Read this and tell me if I did something wrong? Just need a place to vent and hear someones opinion on this?
Few days ago I was feeling rly low because I felt like my lil bro gets away with things like disrespecting me infront of guests or hitting me infront of my mom, and my mom doesnt say anything to him. I m 23 he s 16. Whereas i was always yelled at or lectured for the smallest things I did to my oldest sister few years back. Now 2 days ago I overheard my mom tell my cousin (who s married and my age) something about me like “ this poor girl tried to make shrimp last night” and then when I cooked a dish same day my dad complimented me, and my mom smirked and said to my sis “no matter what she makes her dad always likes it”. How she said these things were making me feel like shes bringing me down, so next morning I told her if u dont like my food u should say it rather than saying it behind my back..I told her I heard what she said to other ppl but shes like oh that s just the way I talk..my bro started making fun of me like “oh this is affecting her mental health” and they started laughing..I got angry and left the room to calm myself down. Apparently shes not talking to me anymore because she thought I m ignoring her and it s been 2 days. Today I tried to talk to her and ask if she needs help with something but shes still ignoring me. What am I to do? And why is she ignoring me now? I just wanted her to realize that I need to be respected and just say okay I wont talk about u like that to others..but now its turned into a bigger fight and were both not talking to each other.
What do i do with my mother?
Here are some general suggestions I make to younger teens in case you might get some helpful ideas from them. Ask to have a serious discussion with your parents about how they see things panning out in the coming months and years. It needs to be fairly rational, so if one of you becomes too emotional (e.g. angry) it would be best to time out and try again another time. Prepare in advance what you would like to say and ask: write a plan, even. As you reach each birthday, for example, or each new school year, what rights, freedoms and responsibilities will you have? Chores, pocket money, curfews, dating, etc. will all come into it, obviously. You can't really expect something for nothing, so think about what you can put into the family and household as part of your negotiations as to what you can get. If you are to grow into a responsible adult, it must be a gradual process: if they keep you wrapped up in cotton wool and then suddenly let you out of the box at eighteen, you won't have enough experience to know how to handle it. That said, your parent(s) is/are responsible for your safety and welfare during this time: no doubt they love you and they themselves have the experiences you don't yet. Seeing things on t.v. and hearing your friends' (exaggerated?) stories aren't quite the same. If they don't want to do this, ask them if they will please consider a plan and talk again in a week or so. All plans need to be a little flexible, as unexpected things can happen, of course. Hopefully this will show that you have a maturing attitude to your family and your life. Good Luck!
What is the best advice your father ever gave you?
After 6 years studying in England, I went back to Saudi where my parents live at the time to live and work there. A week after my return I got a job as a computer art and science teacher at one of the best schools in Saudi. Saudi isn't the most exciting place in the world for a young man who spent his teenage and adult life in Enlgand. So I decided to work as much as I can. The money was good, and I liked what I did. I took a job in the evening to teach database programming. At night I would write inventory software for small retail business. So my schedule was like this. - 6:30 AM to 5 PM (including traveling back and forth) as a teacher in a school - 6:30 PM to 9:30 PM teaching database programming to adults at a small institute - 10:30 PM to 1-2AM programming. I was 24 years old at that time. My only break was during the weekend which was Thursday and Friday where I will only do programming. I did that for few months. I was tired but I saw no other reason to stop. Until I had this conversation with my father. He came in to my room one Friday and sat with me, and this conversation took place:My father: aren't you tired doing all this work?Me: yes. But I can cope. I am still young. And it is good money and there is not much to do in Saudi. My father: so is it about the money?Me: no. But it is nice to have. My father: you know there was this young man who was building a small wall outside his house. At noon it was screaming hot. The father came out and asked his son to come in to the house to rest until the sun cools off and then continue. The son told his father, don't worry father, I can cope, I am young and strong. The father then went inside the house and brought his grandson and put him next to his son. The son was shocked. He asked his father why would you bring my son here? The father asked his son, does it hurt you to see your son in this hot sun? The son said yes of course. The father then replied, if it hurts you to see your son in this hot sun, it hurts me to see my son in this hot sun too. My father then left the room without saying anything further. Needless to say, I quit my other two jobs and continued to teach in the school for almost 9 years. RIP father.
What is the best thing about having a sister?
FLASHBACK:20th January 2000Suddenly someone overtook the ownership of my mom’s lap and papa’s love. I was just a kid back then too hard to realize who is this other person now ?? Gosh !! we have a new member in the family. She was none other than my little chinimini, crypot and a small baby born to my parents.I still can remember how I went to hospital that day and how my grandma handed over her to me. With my small hands I took her hands in mine and kissed her forehead and put her back in her cot.I certainly didn’t realize how suddenly time flew, from feeding her cerelac to she giving me advice and counseling me during hard times.WHEN YOU COME OUT OF FLASHBACK:(I left for hostel when she was in class 9 to do my under graduate studies)Scene 1:(when I come back home during vacations)She: (to shy to express her feelings and happiness that I am back home, although you can make out from her face how happy she is) “Hy! di agayi fir se….muje pareshan karne”(Hy di, so you are back at home to irritate me again)Me:(in teasing tone) Ha beta! agagyi me dekh ab tu (yes, my sister I am back, with a sly smile on each other’s face )Scene 2:(during night)She like a thief takes away my cellphone scans through my gallery, reads my texts and teases me next day about the text messages I sent to my crush.Insane fights one who will sleep on which side of bed(yes we share a single room)Scene 3; (when mom and papa goes out of the house and we both are left alone)She: “Di….. I am feeling hungry please make maggie or something for me……. please”(And fun part when we both clean the kitchen after stuffing ourselves so that our parents have no clue that we ate maggiee back at home)Scene 4:Those endless late night talks with your sister. Bet me !! they are seriously endless…I can write 100 of scenes from my life to depict the relationship I share with my small honey bee(my sister off course I mean here).This is a bond or a relationship which one cannot write in words. Many writers or poets might have showcased their work in this context. But this relationship is to be felt and lived. And yes she the best gift my parents would have ever given me.Pic: this is me and my small sister doing our crazy stuffKeep reading :)
What was the worst thing your parents ever did to you?
I’ve lived with my dad since he and my mom split up when I was 10. When I turned 14 he got a new girlfriend and she moved in with us. I think she’s bipolar because sometimes she’s sweet as anything and other times she goes into these rages and screams and beats me. After she’d lifed with us for about 6 months she told my dad she didn’t want me around so he sent me to live with a family friend. That family was nice, but the father, Daniel, was touchier than he should be.After 6 months my family took me back. The girlfriend likes to hang around the house naked and while she’s never forced me to, she will often pull me to her and feel my boobs or inside my pants. And she still sometimes beats me. My father does nothing. I can’t do anything because I’m small and she’s a large woman.Last September, the girlfriend’s brother moved in with us. He’s my age. He soon realized it was ok if he hung around naked too. He’s almost 6′ tall and 270 pounds and I don’t find him attractive at all. He got in the habit of coming in my room at 3 in the morning and crawling in my bed and molesting me. I told my dad Joe was being inappropriate and he just said “You’ll be alright.”Last month was Joe’s high school graduation (I got held back so mine will be next year). There was a big party and he tried to bring me in the bathroom to have sex with him. I refused and he backed off but later that night he came in my room and raped me. He proceeded to rape me every night after that.The girlfriend cares about Joe but not me so she convinced my dad to send me away again. I’m spending the summer with Daniel and his family. My first night there, Daniel raped me twice. It’s almost as though the girlfriend told him I was his. He’s raped me once or twice a day ever since. At least the family is nice and there are no beatings.The cruel part is knowing that my dad would do nothing to protect me.