How to deal with a Hot-Headed Dad?
My Dad usually can't control his temper when something happened bad like my sister's phone was gone during a party. What should I do? He never even listens to his family! He just says to us where just his children! What would I do?
My father is a hot headed guy! Help!?
Well. Im really in the emotional mood. I don't know what to do. My brother loves going out with his friend at night. And now my father is nagging because he is not at home. (is night here) i called my brother's phone a few times, but he didnt pick up his calls. he probably off his phone. everytime my father gets pissed off, he starts throwing things around, bin, mugs, cups. my grandmother try to stop him. but he talks back. i hate him. my dad. i tried all my best being nice to him, and he treat us this way!? now, im afraid about my brother. i dont know where he is now. he is out with his friends, but i don't know where. everytime my father starts quarelling, im having that "phobia" of it. i will always pray to God. help . here. :(
How do I deal with my hotheaded mother?
My suggestion is to invite her to take a healthy communication class, participate in family counseling, take a course in relationship building, take a conflict resolution course, etc. WITH YOU. It will help you BOTH develop communication skills and problem solving because you’ll have information and can practice with each other. If that doesn’t work, then tell her that when she behaves like that, you’ll walk out of the room and be ready to talk with her when she is ready to talk kindly and quietly with you to resolve issues. Skills, practice, and success will help the most over the long term, but boundaries are essential regardless. You can actually do both, but it might be easier to start with the program together.
How should I deal with my mum who is hot-headed?
I've dealt with a lot of difficult women in my life. For some reason I ended up growing in an outright toxic culture where mothers / seniors / teachers of the "fairer" species seem to vent their hatred and frustration at anyone junior to them with all sorts of hate speech, discouragement and sarcasm. At first, I felt sad. I gave up hobbies and missed opportunities to make it big. All because "someone" close to me told me, without reviewing my hard work, that it is a "waste of time". That's right. Being dismissed or told long stories about how I am a failure after receiving accolades the world over. When I grew up, I said I have had enough. I asked people what right had they to ruin my day when I did nothing to upset others. I set expectations saying that if people wanted change, they will justify them. In writing if need be because since they're so filled with sarcasm, their expectations are so difficult to understand. I take note of these change requests, I fulfill them, document them, and expect the "client" to acknowledge them formally. They are no longer family members. They are clients. Continue to act in bad faith and I do the family equivalent of slapping a restraining order on them and inform others that they are not of sound mind and incapable of making rational decisions or communicating their needs in a clear and understandable manner. At that stage, they are no longer clients, they are patients, and I have infinite patience to work with "special needs" persons. After all, I was made to feel like one since young!Once people see you mean business, they back off. Yes, that includes downright offensive, abusive and toxic family members. Some people might whine at having to deal with an unreasonable b*****. I just be a bigger one. Source: A lifetime of dealing with unreasonable elders, toxic teachers, ignorant fellow citizens, corrupt colleagues and incompetent "lawyers" in exact chronological order.
I see my teacher as a mother figure. Is that alright?
Yes its fine to have these feelings toward your teacher. Like you said you and your mother do not really converse, interact, ect. I was in the same situation when i was your age; i do not have a father in my life so when i was 14 i started hanging more around my teachers, yea they treated me great but it gets weird after awhile; i started having emotional breakdowns, so i talked to my school counciler, he gave me a whole talk on how it happens all the time and its natural to fill the gap just to make you feel better. Good luck and if you want to talk more about this u can contact me from yahoo my email is lakers_rock73@yahoo.com
Can my stepmother kick my 22-year-old deadbeat brother out overnight?
He is 22 years old, hasn't had a job in two years (although he always says he's "searching" for one), doesn't follow any of the household rules, sits around and smokes and plays video games, eats all the food in the house like a starving animal, and is extremely disrespectful and hotheaded. In the past year that he's been living with her, my stepmother has tried to kick him out several times, but he has a 2-year-old daughter who my stepmother loves very much, and he threatens to never let her see her again if she kicks him out. She doesn't know what to do, and I hate seeing her being used like this. I am a college student, and I stay here whenever I'm on break. He's taken over the whole house. Because of his touchiness and hotheadedness, everyone has to walk on eggshells around him. If you even criticize him for not cleaning up his messes, he explodes. We can't take it! What I want to know is: Can my stepmother legally kick him out willy-nilly, or is there paperwork and legal matters to go through? My stepmother owns her house, and my brother does not pay rent. Please help!
How to talk to a stubborn, hot headed wife?
To be honest I will let her blow her steam off and wait till she calms down before approaching her. I will also be weary of what you say to her that you don't offend her. However if you let her calm down before wanting to explore the reason she blew her top you may just find that she is willing to talk to you more easliy. When it comes to her not wanting to talk about her mess ups. Well some people just do not like discussing there failures no matter how insignificant they may be
Lately I've been moody, rude and hot-headed towards those who love me..how can I change the way that I am?
im starting to become really rude to my family, but outside the house im completly normal. i dont want to go down the wrong path in life (im only a teen) and i know that my bad behavior needs to stop NOW...i take advantage of everybody in my house..im not a bad person im really not..how can i change this? whats steps can i take to lead a better life? thanks
How do I get my STRICT AND HOT HEADED mom to stop yelling at me? (even though I love her A LOT and know she would never physically hurt me)?
I know exactly what you are talking about. I have the exact same situation with my mom . I love her to death and I know she loves me its just that when we get into an argument its also her thing to win and to get her point accross. I completely relate to you and what you are going through. It can be the absolute most frustrating thing in the WHOLE WORLD! But i just go about it thinking why my mom may be stressed out and if the answers not clear to me I still just realize that something about it is making her stressed out and its always about the little things. I realize that how ever minimal the things that bother her are, or how nice my voice is when I talk to her but she still thinks I have attitude, she is my mom and for all the things she does for me it may just be that those little things annoy her. Because I love and appreciate her so much I just realize that those are the compromises you make for love. If those little simple things get her so worked up, I feel I should suck up my pride and do those things for her whether I understand them or not. I know its hard when you try to talk about it with her and she always puts it back on you. TRUST ME its the worst, I know. I have gone to therapy with my mom and in a heated conversation, it helps having a third party noticing the things she does and the things you do to try to have both sides understand. It takes effort to repair and build a relationship. Im sure you will be able to make things better between you two. Just remember she may be so frustrated because she loves you and wants the best for you. Think about it, she's looking out for the future you. Teaching you good habits, even if her methods or reactions may be a bit off. I recommend you seek an extra viewpoint on the matter like a therapist to work things out. I wish you the best of luck!!!
How learn to deal with a hot headed dad, plus whose abusive mentally, emotionally and spiritually, which can lead to physical abuse help?
First of all, tell someone, and I’ve excerpted that advice, from a web page, below.The longer you stay silent and he gets away with it, the worse it will become.The usual route is teacher/school counsellor/school nurse. They are mandated to contact CPS. This is not always effective, as you can read in the last link below (A Physically Abusive Parent). Sometimes it may be better to call police first. Even if lies are told, the sight of tough police guys the same size as your father can give him a shaking up. But be prepared to run for safety afterwards if you have to.In fact, always have a safety plan, and you will find that kind of advice in other links below.(Nothing like this existed when I was a kid, so use the resources I didn’t have.)Secondly, stay firm in your mind that this is your father’s problem, no matter how it impacts on you. He is not ‘hot headed.’ He has a dangerous problem. That is not your responsibility, and neither are the things he does and says. Don’t believe it’s your fault or that you are to blame.I hope the following help you a little.https://www.wikihow.com/Deal-Wit...How to Respond to Verbal Abusehttps://www.wikihow.com/Stop-a-P...https://www.wikihow.com/Cope-Wit...https://www.quora.com/How-do-I-r...How can you deal with physically abusive parents knowing you can't move out?A Physically Abusive ParentHow to Tell Someone What Is Happening(How to Handle Abuse)You know it's important for kids to tell someone if they think they're being hurt, harmed, or abused. But how does a kid tell? Here are some ideas:Talk to a trusted adult in person.Talk to a trusted adult on the phone.Write a note, an email, or send a letter to the trusted adult.Tell someone at school, like a school counselor, school nurse, teacher, or coach.Tell a friend's mom or dad, big brother, or big sister.Tell someone who answers the phone at a hotline service...And I’d add, call an emergency line, whatever it is where you live