I made my mom cry? What should I do?
I think that you and your mother were both in the wrong. First of all I think that you will need to get out of the mind set that you dont like going places. There are just some things that you need to do, and getting outside of your comfort zone is one of those things. You can't stay in your parents house forever, and will need to leave your sanctuary eventually to something strange, and new. I'm not saying that it will be easy, because it's hard. I'm going through something similar, and I know that it's not easy to step outside of your bubble. Even though many of us think that the world should revolve around us, things usually work better when you are willing to do something for someone else, and they can return the favor. Sometimes you just have to give first. Your mother shouldn't have forced you to go, and maybe should have just taken your sister. Maybe you should find an alternative to have a good one on one time with your mom that isn't outside of your comfort zone, maybe doing something with her that you both like to do. One thing that children need to remember is that parents have needs too. Your mom, my mom, mom's in general see that their kids are growing up and they need to be part of it. They don't need a lot, (or shouldn't in my still teen age mind) of time to be with you. They need love and support from you just like you need from them. The first step is try to talk to your mom about it, and good luck. Communication is key to having a happy family, and sometimes counselors can help families learn how to do that.
My step mom made me cry?
okay. my step mom is always getting on me to eat more and i eat alot it just dosnt show on me and today she broke me down and made me cry she said :shes like have u ever looked at ur self and compared ur self to other girls look at ur arms and face ur to skinny ur like anerxic and said thats y no boys like me and she like don't get mad im telling u nicely. and it broke my heart i no im a little skinny but not to anerxic i just hurt me bad how do i make my self FATTER to live up to my step moms standards. im sick of crying. she does this alot at dinner she will yell at me if i dont lick my plate clean but tonight it made me cry.
I made my mom cry :(?
I don't think you are a horrible child and I'm sure your Mom doesn't either. It's hard for us oldies to know how to handle all the things that come up in a teenager's life or to understand what you may be feeling. Similarly, it's hard for you to understand what your parents feel when they think they may be losing their 'little girl'. There are a lot of bad things in the world for them to worry about and no matter what a good person you are, they will always worry that you may get caught up in them. You are obviously a very articulate person, so why not tell your mother how you feel, just as you have told us? Communication is very important at any age, and remember, communication hasn't happened until you have not only talked and listened to each other, but also understood one another's points of view. I hope you can patch things up and that one day you will look back on these times together and be able to laugh about them. I know that sounds crazy now, but give it time and take the time to talk, not shout about how you feel.
My mother made me feel bad and I retaliated and made her cry. We were both bad and she hates me so how do I get over it?
An apology that actually works to repair a relationship has three parts:Say that you are really sorrySay exactly the thing you are sorry for without shifting blame on her. Just for the things that you did.Say how you’ll behave differently the next time. You can also ask her about her thoughts on this, if you’re that close.You can write this in a card, or take her out to coffee, or talk to her. If you still have concerns about how she was “bad” too, don’t bring it up at this time, but do revisit it if it bothers you, saying you don’t want to get stuck in the same fight again.For yourself, you can also learn how to regulate yourself and create any necessary boundaries, and the first way to do this is to ask yourself as you get into a fight, if you are hungry, tired, or thirsty. Or if she is. Then you can give yourself a time-out, writing down what the issue is, to get back to it later.
Am I a bad person for making my mom cry?
Sweetheart, you and your family have been through a profound ordeal that began with the loss of your father, and continued for you when you found yourself in a school environment where the only way you could cope was by feigning illness.I don’t think you are being a bad person because your mom has reacted to what you say and do by crying. You have been expressing your distress; her tears are her way of expressing hers. You are not responsible for that.What would your dad think of this situation? What would he want you to do?You are both going to need the help of a counselor to deal with your loss. You, especially, have a complicated knot of emotions to work through. The rage and sadness you feel, which you expressed by screaming, isn’t going to go away on its own.Talk to your mom about counseling. If she doesn’t want to go, insist that you have to.All the best to you and your family.
My mom made me cry on my birthday?
In my opinion, this sounds like a communication failure. You were hurt by the response to your question, and rightly so. The response, however, sounds like your Mom thought you wanted to open the card/gifts regardless of whether your Father was there or not. As far as your being adopted; that is irrelevant. No offense, but it really has nothing to do with you and your family's ability to communicate. As for your parent correcting you... In my family I (as a parent) am responsible for my kids actions 24/7 regardless of the significance of the date. Yes, it is always nice to have nothing but positive things happen on your birthday; but if I feel my son or daughter has stepped out of line, I will correct them no matter what. When communicating to others, it is best to remember this.. Humans are stupid, and need things kept that way for them, LOL. You could have clarified that you weren't asking to have and open your presents right that moment, and made a point to wait for your Father. Your Mom should have asked for clarification; or simply said that you would be getting your gifts/cards when your Father got home so you all could celebrate together as a family. See the difference? When communicating I always follow two rules. Before I speak, I ask myself if what I am saying is kind. If what I communicate is not kind; then I must ask myself if it is necessary to say. Don't feel bad if communications aren't going well. Most people are not taught how to communicate; only how to speak. There is a BIG difference. It took me 38 years, a divorce, and three years of family counseling to learn the difference! Blessings to you, and I hope this helps!
Have you ever cried in front of your mother?
A big yesss would be my answer! I wonder who has not cried in front of their mother! May be we have stopped doing so as we grew in age but still choose to weep to our mom as our heart is still as delicate as it was since our mom gave birth to us.I always try controlling my tears while facing my mom but the moment I hear her voice, I burst down..This not only happens with my mom but to anyone who is close to my heart.I usually dont like to cry in front of her because I am afraid of turning her sulky. My tears take stream when I hear her voice in mobile phone rather than I meet my mom in person. Most of the times, I avoid getting into direct eye contact with her; usually hide under the pillow and take time realising what made me cry. Only after an hour or so, I reveal the why and where-fore! At this point, I make sure I dont cry. When I tell her about the reason what made me cry, she gives her views on the incident and how I should have handled it in a better way. And if giving suggestions is one part, a quick peck by her on my forehead heals me the most each time.Happy to have you mom:)Uma Krishna (உமா கிருஷ்ணா)Thanks for the request Ishant Juyal (ईशांत जुयाल) !!Cheers!!
How did you feel when you saw your mother cry for the first time? And why did she cry?
I saw my mother crying when I was probably in my second standard. She was weeping and I did not understand why she was crying. I didn't know what was going on. I went to my brother to know what was happening. He was crying too, holding my mother. He was in 5th standard then. Both are weeping, mom took me and hugged me crying. I didn't understand anything. I asked my mom about all this . What's going on ? Something's really wrong at home, that's what I understood. I sat with her waiting for her answer in a confused state. A little later, she told me that my father's no more.That's the first time I saw her weeping in such a manner. I don't remember my father but I can still see her sometimes in my dreams crying when my father passed away. She worked so hard to grew us up. She got my dad's job at bank. Yet, it was the darkest time of our lives. That's the reason why I couldn't see my mother cry for any other reason. She went through the toughest times . Sometimes, I'll be mad at her, but I just can't imagine my life without her. I don't say that I love her because I know that I do love her.Sorry for the long answer. But I just wanted to say. Thanks for reading this answer.
My parents made me cry on my Birthday?
Yesterday it was my 19th birthday. All I did was take a nap during the day and planned on going to have lunch with some of my close friends. That was the plan. But as I woke up all I heard was my mom yelling at me for being a lazy whore, always drugged and sleeping. She thinks I sleep a lot because I am "drugged up all the time". I'm not. I'm just like any other college student during finals week--exhausted and sleep deprived. But shedoesn'tt understand that. So she told me to forget about that birthday lunch and to go and do the laundry instead. Idon'tt know why, but I just started crying. Not sobbing, but a silent cry. But it gets worse. Its evening now, no one except my sister acknowledged that it was my birthday. I start doing hw, since there's not anything else to do, and as my dad comes home from work, all he says in a cold tone is "Oh didn't know you were Obama. Too busy with work? Why pretend like you're smart? Come sit and watch tv with me". After I explained to him that I cant, he started yelling at me at how much I changed and am not the same old girl.(Well of course Im not. Im 19 now. I cant always be 5 years old). He cursed out basically me and every friend i have (not that I have that many anyway since they deprived me of a social life). That's when I really started sobbing. That for a 19 year old girl, living in America would usually go partying or clubbing even on her birthday. At least hang out with friends. What do I get yelled at for? FOR SLEEPING AND DOING HW! I was crying so loudly that they BOTH walked in and just bashed me. Telling me how I have no soul and am a slut. Its funny how they call me a slut even though Im still a virgin. Or drugged up, even though I don't mess with drugs. All I wanted was to take a nap and finish my hw on my birthday. Maybe hang out for an hour or two. But they make me feel like these activities are sinful. Imagine if I did what normal girls my age actually do, and go partying? But i couldn't. They would kick me out, and I have no job to support myself since they forbid me from having a job. I try to be grateful from God, and I am. But its just tragic for anyone to have to cry like this on their own birthday. Its that one day in the year, where you would think everyone should treat you a little less like s***. What would you do in my situation?