WHY does my mom hate me so much?
*Virtual HUG* This made me upset reading this and I can relate so much. There's not much I can say but just keep hanging in there, and you will grow into tough skin and come out stronger. Just know that it really isn't your fault and I've learned to use my friends as my family so it would be good to open up to your friends about this. Your step dad has NO right to hit you and its good that you reported him! <3
My mom acts like she HATES me?
1st of all, maybe you think people/parents can talk anyway they see fit each day. Turns out many parents are abusers. Actually they are not trying to be tough to make you responsible- they are tricking you. This goes for people at school as well. Words are abuse also. There are 3 types of abusive people/parents. Some hit the bottle. Some hit you. And some run their mouths and put you down. THEY are sick and feel great on being mean, and thats the only reason they do it. They are wrong about everything. The typical abuser is close-minded, self-righteous and was also abused themself. Use defense and read many sites on verbal abuse etc. They tear you down to build themselves up. Abuse causes all known so called Mental Problems. BP OCD etc. Psychiatrists commit fraud in that there is no medical science in what they do. They do not draw blood to test for imbalances. For chemical imbalances NO test exists. Jesus name and forgiving others who are wrong is important along with avoiding them. Contact- Child Protective Services online- no phone needed. Read sites on emotional abuse. Learn the truth, forgive, and Get Away from them. Read many many sites under "emotional abuse" and "dealing with bullies". Talk to me. I have some questions for you Source(s): Experience with people feeling better on a repeated basis.
I am 13. My mom always disrespects me and shouts at me whenever she feels like. If she forgot something, I lied. If she can’t do something, I’m blamed for it. Every time she shouts I shout back. I feel like I completely hate her now, and I don’t know what to do. I just want to end it all. What I do?
I am a 27 years old girl . I am writing this answer as i went through exactly same phase which was quite emotionally draining and i had no one to share what went in my home on a daily basis.Every morning would start with a rough abuse .Result is now i wake up even at a whats app notification. There was never a single moment of love, care or affection. Even if it happened that would last for a few minutes then we are back onto abuses .When i was 15 and giving my class XII board exams and just one day before she sent me to do some chore with a lot of threatening and abuse.there are a thousand examples which i am not going to delve into right now lest i bore someone with a long answer. I was academically bright , topped my school but my life was a nightmare . I was almost never happy and i could not share this to anyone as in India a mother is someone you worship and to make someone understand your situation is as rare as the situation itself.The best solution is distance . I would suggest to make it on your own as soon as possible.When i went to hostel i never missed my home . People asked me why i was so happy i could tell no one that there was nothing to cherish about. Even during vacations when i went to my home..there was some kind of argument happened and “she said why have you come here ? “ The 4 years i spent in hostel were the best years of my life.It is not possible to not love your mother as she gave birth to you but accepting this abuse shouting etc as a challenge of your life move on really quickly. Be there when she needs you give all your help but do not let the shouting destroy your inner peace as it will reduce your efficiency and productivity . Even now i sometimes feel that only if she could change , I could live the childhood i never had:) But that is okay . Focus on more positive things in your life. Try to divert your focus on the things you love.Trust me once you become independent as soon as possible , you will comprehend other challenges of life really well and wont become an emotionally sad person.Remember this is just a phase!
Why does my Mum hate me and love my brother so much?
My mom does the same thing to me. I have an older sister who is treated like a princess...idk why she doesn't love me as much. shes always yelling at me for anything and everything. She started acting like a jerk to me after she found out i had sex with my boyfriend of 3 years. the only guy i've ever had sex with. BUT, my sister had sex with two guys. and the second guy she had sex with got her pregnant. Mom gives her special treatment because she had the first grand baby. In your case however i think it would be because he is so much younger she doesnt want to have to yell at him because she has seen how badly it has affected yours and her relationship. she doesnt want to have her baby boy hate her like she feels you do by lashing out after she yells at you. she only yells because she feels that if she doesnt, you will. and thats not true. if she doesnt yell, you wont yell. Sit down and have a talk with her. It may not go well (my talk with my mother didnt, she almost kicked me out) BUT it should be done because she needs to know how you feel. and you need to tell her. make sure she knows how much you love her though becausee that is important.
My Mom hates me so much?
So she will literally go crazy over the smallest things. I am a sophomore in HS now and I get basically straight As and Bs except in Math I'm getting a D (atm) and she always shouts at me for that. If I come downstairs like 2 minutes late she will SCREAM at me the whole way to school and call me fat, **** ugly, stupid, worthless piece of **** and she will say 'Why do you even bother. Everyone hates you- your dad hates you, your grandma hates you, everyone at school hates you.' And then she'll say 'why don't you just kill yourself, no one cares you wh0re, or just check yourself into a mental hospital because you have problems.' Also she will NEVER shout at my sisters or brother. And she'll be like 'I hate you, hate you SOOO much. I wish I never had you- your worthless and only care about your ugly face. Dont you realize nobody cares. I have no sympathy.' Then when I cry when she says it she will call me 'manipulative' and a 'liar'. Ok so first of all she literally makes me SO depressed and by the time I get to school my eyes look terrible and puffy and I have a headache and I have to put concealer under my eyes. Second I am not that fat, I am like 135 and 5'5....I know thats chubby but she acts like I'm huge just b/c she's thin. Also she calls me ugly just because I'm not blonde and pale like her (i'm brunette with brown eyes) and she ruins my life b/c she makes me feel so ugly. Guys do talk to me and ask me out so I know I can't be that bad but I literally cant look any of them in the eye or think they;re joking because I feel disgusting because of her. Also I havent done anything but kiss a guy so idk why she calls me 'wh0re' all the time. She also tells me how much she hates me daily and tells me to die and how I'm her least favorite. I am never ever rude to her or talk back so idk what I do. :/ I walked into the room yesterday and she started going on and on about how bad my skin looked (i literally had like 1 zit) and how gross by hair was getting and how I needed a haircut. She literally never has anything positive to say about me. I hate her SO much and she makes me depressed. What can I do. Because obviously ignoring her isn't working- I still let her comments get to me :( It's ruining my life. When I'm upset I cant bring myself to concentrate or do work or go to parties because I feel embarrassed.