What is it like when people confuse your mother for your sister or girlfriend?
Haha! This question itself made me laugh.I have faced such instances where my mother has been assumed to be my sister. On top of that, some thought that I am her elder brother. Now it is really a compliment for her but I feel I am the one who is downgraded. I am always in a thought of “is it because she looks young or I look old?”People do not believe at first that she is the mother of two adult children. Though she is a working woman and hence manages home, office and relatives, she is supercharged all the time. I don’t know what kind of kinetic energy keeps her going all day. Whenever I am around, she teases me like a sister with the names of my female friends. She is the boss in the house and takes major decisions related to the family. Even my dad can’t argue with her.Here she is..,Don’t believe in her innocent smile. She is savage.Ahh, time to bring dhaniya (coriander) for her !!Edit:- My mother was really overwhelmed by seeing each and every compliment. Thank you from her side. Some of them have asked me about her glowing skin to which she told me that she drinks 2–3 glasses of honey and lemon mixed lukewarm water every morning. Besides, she also does one hour jog. She also puts sunscreen on her face not just in summer but in all seasons. Her diet is limited to 2–3 chapatis in lunch and dinner with vegetables and salad. That's pretty much what she does. Neither too much nor too less.Cheers!!
How do I get my sisters to stop calling me names? ?
First, everything that your sisters are doing is about THEM - not you (I wish I could underline that). Hurt people hurt people. Your sisters have some frustrations that they're not equipped to deal with in any other way. They are bullying you, and that is not the answer. I really respect you for being only 14 and having such a great attitude about this. You don't need to starve yourself or do away with yourself - you are wonderful just the way you are! Talk with your mom again about this and let her know that this is truly a problem. When there's bullying in the family it creates a poison, if not a type of cancer that erodes and destroys the family. Does she not care about her family? You might be able to ask her this in a very respectful way. I would see if your mom would be willing to hire a really good family coach to work with your WHOLE family - all at once. A Family Coach will come to your home and work with the family as a group. Therapists generally only take one client at a time, and the problem is a family issue, not a personal issue. By the way, my family was a lot like yours only many many years ago. We're not very close today. If you find that your mom really doesn't care, you just care for yourself. And don't take what your sisters say to be true. Only you get to decide what is true of you and what's not. I wish you the best!!
How do I get get over the fact that my sister hates me?
I know exactly how you feel. My sis is 2 yrs older and she has hated me (SERIOUSLY) since i was born. As a child i wanted to love her and talk to her but she never once wanted anything to do with me. Always negative comments and telling evryone my embarrasing moments to try to humiliate me and bring me down. And now we are both in our 30s and she still brings up past things to judge me as if what i did was tge worst thing ever. She tells people she was good and i wasnt. She lies about me all the time to try to get people to not like me. And all i ever wanted was to give her my love. So i have come to realise, the problem is her, not me. I have my own life and im very happy and alot of other people love me. I dont need her, and i have grown to not want her anymore. Blood is blood, yes, but when blood hates you for no reason, then i have no reason to stress over it. You should forget her and move on from wanting her. She will always be who she is, and who she is doesnt love you. You deserve love and plus it will make her hate you more when she sees you so happy. So, you win
Why is it people have to judge teens for making mistakes?
I agree! Children need to be able to talk to their parents openly, without criticism. A parents job is to guide their teens. It is time for more parents to start doing that!
Help! My 8 year old sister actually.........I can't believe it please advice anyone?!?!?
Dana...Take a deep breath. OK, now take another one. What your sister has done is not going to kill her, or you. It's not illegal and she won't get a disease from it. It is, however, perfectly normal. We react to people looking at Internet images of "nakid" people and "girl's boobs" and things like that because of the reputation the Internet has for having some really nasty stuff on it. Years ago, before there was an Internet with easy access to hard-core porn, girls and boys this age satisfied their perfectly normal curiosities about their bodies and their sexuality by sneaking peeks at "innocent" magazines (like Cosmopolitan, and even National Geographic!), or rummaging through their parents' bedrooms when they weren't around and finding a goldmine of less innocent publications that were not very carefully hidden. The other thing we often did was to sneak peeks at each others' actual bodies, both same sex and opposite sex. This is normal, natural and healthy curiosity. It's also natural for a child to react exactly as your sister did when she first sees these things. It's hard to tell whether your sister will do it again just because you told her not to. Sooner or later -- probably sooner -- her curiosity about these things will diminish and be replaced by fascination with other subjects. I think you were right to tell her that you will report this to mom and dad if she does it again, not because it is wrong of her to do this, but because she is at an age where a conversation with mom and dad about this "stuff" may be a good idea. Use your maturity to help redirect her attention. Be kind to her. Her curiosity is her "job." Without it, she cannot possibly learn.
I had sex with my step brother what should I do?
my name is Rani , and i've been creeping around with my stepbrother for like 4 months now lol and i know its wrong but i cant help the feeling that i get when im around him. it started when my mom and dad went on their every year anniversery trip during the days after christmas , while my brother and i are on our winter break and they practically comeback when its over. my brother and i are both 15 well im currently 16 but whats the diff. we always play around picking with eachother but this time our playing went to far because we ended up alone in the house making out. we didnt stop at making out we ended up having sex in my bedroom. after that day i didnt really speak with him it was awkard. i thought things will be back to normal by the time mom and jonathan[stepdad] come back but i got jealous when his girlfriend showed up unexpectedly. i noticed that he didnt flirt with her as much and he tried to get her out of the house. when he finally did he came in the basement while i was hiding watching televison annoyed and started kissing me again laying my back down on the coach but i didnt refuse i took his shirt off and started kissing his neck. so during the whole winter break we had sex and acted like a couple , i felt bad because we are young we shouldnt be cuddling up naked so happy. we went out acting like a couple around people who did'nt know we were leagally brother and sister. we joked about how funny this was and just the fact that we were sneaking around made me love him even more.i dont want to ruin my moms marriage she loves jonathan[3 years now]. at the dinner table we forgot where we were and i leaned my head on his shoulder , making my parents wonder but we joked it off saying yuck. what should i do ? would I caryy a guilt as I get older????
How old was your mum when she gave birth to you?
My mom has mentioned a few times how she was one of the last people in her graduating class to have a baby. Considering I was an accident and all, the story seems like she would’ve been younger than 28 at the time.So, like I said, my mom was 28 when I was born. My dad was 27. The doctor told my mom she couldn’t have any kids, due to endometriosis and a battle with ovarian cancer. She even tried fertility treatments with her ex-husband. The idea of my mom having kids was very far-fetched.Before my dad came along, that is. They weren’t too worried about birth control because of my mom’s infertility. Boy, how they screwed up!Their relationship definitely wasn’t developed to the point when most people have kids. My mom and dad had known each other for two or three months when I was conceived. On top of that, I wasn’t even expected to survive very long. Due to the possible health complications, my mom was advised to abort, but she really wanted a baby. It didn’t matter that the circumstances were pretty terrible.After I was born, my parents remained together for about six years. Kiley, my younger sister, was born when both of my parents were 30. She wasn’t planned either.
I slept with a woman 30 years younger than me. She's even younger than my daughter. Is this immoral?
I feel like I can have some pretty good input seeing as how my husband is 23 years older than me. But first let me give you some backgroundWhen I first met my hubby I was a hairdresser and he used to come in and have me cut his hair. I actually thought he was younger than he was, I was shocked when he told me he was 42. I was 19 at the time and thought, “well that's that, he's too old for me.”After a few more haircuts and him being stuck in my head no matter what I did I decided “fuck it I'll give him my number and see what happens.”We ended up just clicking and being inseparable after one time of hanging out at his house, yes we did have sex for those of you wondering and it was spectacular!neither one of us wanted a relationship. We both had our hearts broken and at one point or another and said our relationship was just a casual one. It broke my heart but I understood his reasons. Age wise I'm right in between his kids so you can imagine the anxiety that created for him.After seeing each other for a while we realised just how compatible we actually are and how well we balanced each other out. he told his kids and family about me and lucky me THEY WERE MORE THAN ACCEPTING. THEY JUST WANTED HIM TO BE HAPPY.Then came time to tell my mother, that didn't go over so smooth. In fact I ended up breaking things off for a couple of weeks because of my mother's reaction ( she loves my hubby now though) I was so broken, I immediately knew I made the wrong decision and ended up telling him that I missed him and just wanted to be happy so we got back together and it's been one great adventure and learning experience.So my answer to your question : NO IT IS NOT WRONG. IF YOU GENUINELY ENJOY EACH OTHER'S COMPANY KEEP ON KEEPING ON! You never know what you could be passing up!
How did your parents meet each other?
My parents met at a spring festival in the town where we now live, my mum has lived here since she was two and my dad lived out west but moved here after he met my mum. My dad was with a woman and had a child and then the woman abandoned him and took the child away and my dad never saw them again. Although we did contact my sister when she was older, she passed away a few months later. It was a couple years later when my dad was working on the showgrounds that he met my mum when they came through this town. My mum was only seventeen and my dad was twenty-nine and they were friends at first, then my dad left for a few months but they kept in contact, after a while he quit his job, came back and got a job down here. Then him and my mum started dating and a year later had my brother, then followed my sister, my brother, me and then they adopted my little sister. A lot of people said they couldn't make it, and they wouldn't last but they have been together for over 30 years. Shania Twain's Song You're Still the One is their song and describes their situation perfectly, it was even played at theri wedding, they married when I was nine and the main reason they married was so they could officially adopt my sister.