I feel very ignored by my boyfriend, he is so busy?
with fulltime school and work. He seems to think that studying together or just eating dinner is good enough for "quality time." His sister came and visited this weekend and he spent 3 whole days with her, doing fun things and taking her to nice restuarants/shopping etc. (even resturants which over the year has been "our" place) Maybe i'm being a bit irrational, because he only sees her for a week twice a year, but he rarely (maybe once a month) spends a whole day or even half a day doing "fun" things with me. Its always just sitting at home, eating, studying whatever. He gets mad at me when I suggest that he is too busy and that i feel neglected. He thinks I am being needy but I think I deserve to be able to spend more time with him doing things other than working and eating. The first 2 or 3 months we dated it was so much fun, lots of things like what he is doing now with his sister. I am rather jealous of her for his attention. Am I being unreasonable? What should i do?
My boyfriend is too busy and tired all the time, so he has no energy for me. What should I do?
My boyfriend works 9 hours a day and 7 days a week. He is super tired and stressed all the time. Even though we do try to find time to see each other at night and during weekend, he is too tired... I feel like he is more like a friend than a boyfriend. We do even kiss each other any more. Just little pecks here and there once in a while. I know he trys to come see me when he can. But things just don't feel the same (we have been together for almost four years). I don't know what to do... I know that if I try to talk to him, it would just stress him out even more and he gets really moody and tells me to stop bugging him.... I don't want to be a selfish girlfriend who only thinks of her own needs because i do understand that he is really tired ALL the time. But I'm not happy at all with the relationship because things changed so much... and it just doesn't feel the same anymore. I still have feelings for him. But I'm not sure if things are the same for him as it used to be. What should I do?
My boyfriend and i are drifting apart. help!?
we've been dating for about a year and we just recently had to move away for college. but now hes so busy with football practice and doesnt even have time to call me every day:( help how do i save our relationship. i love him so much. beyond belief
What should I do if my boyfriend is always busy?
KEEP YOURSELF BUSY!This is the best piece of advice you can get for such a situation (trust me). You feel neglected and alone not only because he is really busy but because you have more free time compared to him. To dea lwith this situation here are a few things that you can do.Don’t fight. Fighting over such a situation would be a waste of time and will only complicate the situation.Give him his time. At least you know he is really busy doing something and not ignoring you.Understand his situation. No one likes to be busy all the time. it must be his demanding job that is making him do so. the very least you can do is be understanding in such a situation.Let him know you miss him. Don’t always act cranky because he cannot give you much time. Instead, talk with lots of love and show him how much you miss him.Keep yourself busy. There are a lot of things you can do to keep yourself busy.Find a new hobby (coins? stamps? bugs? )and indulge in it.Learn something new. (Cooking? a new musical instrument? driving? a new language?) Just anything which keeps you interested and occupied.Go on solo trips. There is nothing as soul-soothing as solo trips. You not only have new adventures, you come closer to yourself.Bring home a pet. Pets are the cutest and most adorable stress buster. They keep you busy and love you more than any one (including your boyfriend. wink wink.)Read novels. I love reading and this is exactly what I do when I am not in contact with my boyfriend and trust me if you love something, doing it takes away half of the problem.Follow some good Quorans and read good answers. There is a lot of content on Quora which can help you in increasing your knowledge and unlike Facebook and Instagram it is not mere waste of time. Some of the Quorans whose answers I find worth reading are mentioned here- Alcatraz Dey , Avadhesh Khanna (अवधेश खन्ना) , Ila Tripathi , Abhimanyu Sood , Shefali Naidu, Rana Ashish , Deepak Mehta (दीपक मेहता) ,(just to name a few) you can follow them and get nicely brewed content to read.Having said all this. There would be only one last advice I would want to give to you. Make sure you are giving your 100% and getting the same in return. and I’ll conclude it with something my boyfriend loves to say - “The beauty of relationship lies in the amount of efforts you put to make the other person happy”Hope this helps.STAY HAPPY!!
How can I keep myself busy and not think about my boyfriend?
My lady,Start preoccupying yourself with things that will develop you as a person, before its too late. Your priority shoould be yourself.Never, never leave you friends for your boyfriend..Even if you choose to avoid all my other advices, you better follow this one. Good friends, real firends are very difficult to find and keep, NEVER leave you friends for your boyfrienWorkout : work on your body, keep in shape all the timeSpend time with friendsGo shoppingFind a hobby : be it gardening , cooking or anything creativeRead books, loads of themWork on your academics, or job whatever you are doing because being independent should be your first priority. People come and go, my dear. This is a very important lesson, which i would really suggest you to learn, just by listening to someone(like i am telling you). Lesson learnt by your experience would be very painfulexplore places, meet people