Help! My parents always fight!!!!?
My parents always yell ans scream,fight and threaten each other! My dad always accuses my mom for taking my dads stuff and moving it and there always fighting about money problems! My dad threatens to leave the house because he's getting tired of my mom spending all this kinds of money when she's not! They have been together for almost 18 years!! I hope he doesnt leave us because we dont have a lot of money to support our selfs alone!! I;m getting really scared and I just don't feel the point on living anymore. I just want to run away and NEVER come back!!! My dad has a short temper and always takes it out on me a lot for there problems! I'm getting really scared and I don't know what to do! Any advice? I'm 13 years old.
My parents are always fighting?
Call Dr. Phil, seriously. It's not a problem you will be able to fix on your own.
My parents are always fighting, what should I do?
My parents had been fighting since I was a kid. I am 23 now and they still argue every single time. As a teenager, I know there was nothing that I can do. So I made the decision to go to boarding school during high school and now I am studying at oversea university just to get away from them. Don't get me wrong, I love them very much but constantly being in the middle of a fight, I just can't take it anymore. My brother is 13 and I am really glad that he is going to boarding school. It is his own decision and I actually feel sorry for him because I had to left him when I was in high school. We are very close to each other but I had never talk to him about our parents. I'm just waiting for the good time and I believe at these age, he can handle serious discussion. The only peaceful moments that I had at home are mostly the time that I spent with him without my parents. We love to go out just to eat ice cream ,went shopping or just watching cartoons at home. I really miss him. Back to my point, being away from my parents and house is really working for me and I enjoy not having someone arguing with each other 24/7.
My brother and parents always fight...?
I'm very sorry that you have to experience this so early in life. I truly am. I can relate to you very well, and I am willing to share with you my share of experience. In my family, I am the one who fights and quarrels with my parents to almost the same extent. I have never taken a knife physically, but have on several occasions considered hurting myself. My sister, the same age as you, has to deal with what you are going through, and feels the exact same way. While you're dealing with this situation, you MUST understand what is going through your brother's mind and what is going on through your mother's conscience. Of course, what she says is probably out of love and care for your brother, but at the same time it hurts him. Are you and he close? You could try talking to him about it...slowly, very sensitively. Just spend time with him, watch TV with him, eat meals with him, go to a restaurant. Slowly he, if not already, will come out of him shell and open up to YOU. Once that happens, you can understand his feelings and truly understand what is going on through his head. Talk to your parents about your brother (privately). Sit them down and REALLY talk. Prepare for what you are going to say and sound wise and knowledgeable. Your parents, from what you have said so far, seem like the type of folks who are willing to listen to their daughter. Start from there. I have ADHD and OCD, two conditions that have led to depression. My mother has said some very mean things towards me, so I can definitely relate to what your brother is going through. I know that if my sister had done what I am advising you to do, both my life and my parents' lives would have been a whole lot better. Try it out. You've got nothing to lose, and everything to gain. If you have any questions, feel free to ask.
Are there any effects on a child whose parents always fight?
Yes, there are many negative effects of fighting parents on their kids. I can jot down some of them below:Due to regular fights between parents, kids get frightened and feel insecure for the lifetime.Kids of fighting parents feel unworthy that can result in low self esteem which damages their personal relationship.When they are pulled into argument, they can't decide on which side should they take. That makes them stressed out.Such kids may perform poor in academics.Research have shown that kids of fighting parents are more prone to chronic illnesses.They can be mentally disturbed and develop behavioral issues.Fighting can impact the kids relationship with others too.They are tend to develop personality traits like bullying and escapism.So parents can overcome this issue with some positive parenting tips as follows:Avoid fighting in front of kids.If your kids saw you fighting, apologize each other in front of kids.Consult an expert to get things sorted if the fights happen more often.
Parents fight on my Birthday, What Should I Do?
On my birthday I canceled all of my plans with my friends because my parents said they would take the whole family out for a nice breakfast and they wanted me to spend my birthday with them. As we were driving to the place, my parents got into a fight over how cheap my dad is, how my mom never shuts up about anything and how much they hate each other. My mom started crying and my dad refused to go inside the restaurant when we got there. My mom yelled at him more and then my dad said he doesn't care and is taking us home. On the way home the shouting continued and my 2 younger brothers and I (I turned 17 that day) remained quiet. When we got home my mom (still crying like a maniac) told us except my dad, to get in the car and that she would take us somewhere and kept saying stuff about my dad. I didn't like the vibe at this point and was scared my mom was going continue talking about how awful my dad is, in the car so I said no and started doing homework in the basement where no one would bother me. Upstairs I heard a lot of noise and knew it had gotten physical. None of my parents apologized to me since and its been almost a month. I continued talking to them both because i thought it was the mature thing to do but I'm really hurting. I didn't expect my dad to say sorry because he never does but I expected my mom to and she didn't. Nowadays I take little jabs at my mom about how she's not a good mother (I make it sound sarcastic and over the littlest things so it doesn't look so obvious) and today she started yelling at me about how I never care about anyone. Like who cares more, me or the parent that ruined my birthday and didn't apologize? I always make they're birthdays super special and they know it but why do I deserve this in return? Who do you think is right here and what should I do about this? I haven't talked to my parents at all about what happened on my birthday and no one ever brings it up.